QUOTE(kenji1903 @ Sep 22 2016, 06:37 AM)
jealousy rant for my wife, my boy seems to prefer me over her when i'm around

kids especially then they are afraid or unhappy, they will look for the one who will best console them...
my case, my wife a bit hot headed one, so my boy will usually come to me cos i very seldom marah... i just tegur

my wife said i spoil him but he's less than 2, no point la raise voice...
haha. so nice. my son also run to my wife. but when he wanna play he always look for me first. hehe.
QUOTE(lil_flank @ Sep 22 2016, 06:57 AM)
Envy u, haha..
My case slightly different. My wife also hot headed so she plays the devil and i play the angel coz i seldom raise my voice too unless is necessary. Whenever my wife scold or snatch the smartphone from my elder daughter, she will cry very loud and throw tantrum so someone will pity her. Funny thing is after she cry around 5 min and no one come to console her, she will continue crying and say she want Mummy. My elder daughter will still look for mummy even though the one who scold her is mummy, lol..
But ofcoz, my wife is closer with my daughters coz i only get to meet my daughters two times a month. I am rank number 2 only, haihz.. But my family in law envy me becoz everytime when i go back, my daughter will choose me instead of them even though they meet and sayang her everyday, haha..
you all so baik. im the garang one (pretend only, but i never let him win any tantrum/argument). so my boy really takut i marah. the other day my wife was putting my son to sleep but he nakal. my wife just call for me and he straight 'no! no! no!' straight lie his head down. once i enter the room so good lying there like some angel look at me hahah. my wife sometimes garang, sometimes not. so i think he's confused, so in the end he isnt afraid of her. i just told her never let him win. after he test you, and you lose. then habis yo!