This thread...reflects my life. lol

Hi guys. Father of 2.5 year old son here. Some of the things you guys post...get the feels man.

I'm a weekend husband now. Work in JB, wife in KL. wife and son stay with her parents.
Did this for better job opportunity. Been 3 months like this. Sometimes I question if this is worth it or not. But gotta keep it together to power through.

Any weekend husbands here?

anybody that give their child pediasure milk before or currently?.. my son was drinking pediasure from 6 months till 2 years.We had to stop him because he's quite hyperactive when he's at 2.u know lah cannot restrain him or anything,he will run around the house,shouting to the top of his lung,make a mess with all his toys on the living hall.. At that time,everyday he can only sleep around 230-3am..everyday like that.In the morning at the babysitter house,i was told that he didnt sleep,played all the time.Even when he's a my inlaw's house also he didnt show any sign of sleeping nor tired.

but dunno lah whether is it because of the milk or not that causing his hyperactive.But his mind progress is quite good.By 2 years old he recognize ABC till Z in capital and small letter.He recognize colours,can count numbers from 1-20 in english & malay.. but the best part is,we dont actually taught him all of that.He self learned thru youtube videos.

You can't do that forever . is it worth it ? You travel by what ? Car or bus ?

My friend do that too . but not Kl jb laa . his wife and son in jb , he work in Saudi iirc . engineering field . 3 years there , comeback , buy house , car cash, dump money in ASB and some trust fund . now he work in jb , 3 kids already . no debt .
That is worth it .

I do that to before , I in shah alam , wife in jb . tak sampai dua bulan . tak tahan nak piap everyday .. Not worth it . lol

I can consider a weekend husband. I am working in SG and my wife and two wonderful daughters (2.5 years old and 6 months) are in KL. I go back once a month. Been in SG since 2002.
My wife take care of the kids and work at the same time. I also question myself whether is it worth it. This question has been going around my head since 10 years ago, lol.. I still haven't got an answer. My wife keep insisting me to continue to work in SG  I miss my kids 
For baby expenses, I pay for the milk formula, diapers, insurance and medical expenses. Bought a car last year so my kids can have a safer ride. Cut most of my hobbies 

I love this thread. i can relate to so many of you..the sacrifices and all. I feel you man...hang in there! *sob

this one susah man... my wife's aunt also did that last time, their daughter in Melaka, both uncle and aunt in KL, only visit during weekends

only brought her with them when she was 4+... every Sun leave the daughter sure cry like mad

why so pondan? got many soldiers and oil riggers not meet their wives and kids till 6 months also no kesah

Any handsome young daddies here? Let's meet each other.

I can consider a weekend husband. I am working in SG and my wife and two wonderful daughters (2.5 years old and 6 months) are in KL. I go back once a month. Been in SG since 2002.
My wife take care of the kids and work at the same time. I also question myself whether is it worth it. This question has been going around my head since 10 years ago, lol.. I still haven't got an answer. My wife keep insisting me to continue to work in SG  I miss my kids 
For baby expenses, I pay for the milk formula, diapers, insurance and medical expenses. Bought a car last year so my kids can have a safer ride. Cut most of my hobbies 

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good game bro

I can consider a weekend husband. I am working in SG and my wife and two wonderful daughters (2.5 years old and 6 months) are in KL. I go back once a month. Been in SG since 2002.
My wife take care of the kids and work at the same time. I also question myself whether is it worth it. This question has been going around my head since 10 years ago, lol.. I still haven't got an answer. My wife keep insisting me to continue to work in SG  I miss my kids 
For baby expenses, I pay for the milk formula, diapers, insurance and medical expenses. Bought a car last year so my kids can have a safer ride. Cut most of my hobbies 

This may sound generalizing, but daughters tend to be closer to dads, and sons closer to mum...what do you guys think of that? but somehow this is coming soon...i can feel my son may do this oso when he gets bigger so gotta make the family staying together again soon...

Parking here...

A father blessed with a 7-year old angel.

Aiyo share about y'all sex life

Bet it must have go downhill since wife getting knocked up

any complaints or story sharing bro?

I had sleep deprivation on the first year. It felt like going through training done by Navy SEALs only. 

Anyway, everything is going well and hope she's having a lot of fun in school (Standard One). She had some problem last couple of months as she doesn't want to go for tuition. I talked to the teacher to get an understanding of what happened and luckily knows what went wrong.

There goes the father-daughter talk. A hug and a promise were made. She is happy and of course, her happiness is my happiness.