This thread...reflects my life. lol

Hi guys. Father of 2.5 year old son here. Some of the things you guys post...get the feels man.

I'm a weekend husband now. Work in JB, wife in KL. wife and son stay with her parents.
Did this for better job opportunity. Been 3 months like this. Sometimes I question if this is worth it or not. But gotta keep it together to power through.

Any weekend husbands here?

anybody that give their child pediasure milk before or currently?.. my son was drinking pediasure from 6 months till 2 years.We had to stop him because he's quite hyperactive when he's at 2.u know lah cannot restrain him or anything,he will run around the house,shouting to the top of his lung,make a mess with all his toys on the living hall.. At that time,everyday he can only sleep around 230-3am..everyday like that.In the morning at the babysitter house,i was told that he didnt sleep,played all the time.Even when he's a my inlaw's house also he didnt show any sign of sleeping nor tired.

but dunno lah whether is it because of the milk or not that causing his hyperactive.But his mind progress is quite good.By 2 years old he recognize ABC till Z in capital and small letter.He recognize colours,can count numbers from 1-20 in english & malay.. but the best part is,we dont actually taught him all of that.He self learned thru youtube videos.

I love this thread. i can relate to so many of you..the sacrifices and all. I feel you man...hang in there! *sob

why so pondan? got many soldiers and oil riggers not meet their wives and kids till 6 months also no kesah

Go back once a month. Why not every 2 weeks?

sometimes when the money is there, its not easy to forego...

at least your wife no complain husband not earning enough and she needs to work and foot half of the household expenses plus take care of the kids

Erk .. So piap also once per month only ?

Or you got someone in SG ? Hahaha

10years mang .. Lama tuu ..

Once a month?? Are you even part of this family? Hard to imagine so. I would definitely, positively, 100% say you should be in KL. Though its been 10 years, the kids are 2.5y.o., not too late, go home, be home. Holy shit.

Anyhow any advice in buying all the kids stuff? Missus wanted to start buying now, but I still feel its to early.
shs's staying with younger brother, but rarely home coz working in SG, gonna try to bring her to kl when giving birth
After pregnant, if dapat bayar dah consider lucky 

maybe too high sugar content
better check it out

anyway why pediasure? got special need?

2+ please wean off formula. feed your child real food instead

as long as ur wife is happy with the arrangement. okay la
happy wife = happy family 

on this, i think i support ur wife. yeah expenses is a major issue, need to buy lots of stuff if want to start a family.
before this bujang can save money, nowadays not as much

Yeah better come back bro . your kids need a father figure .
10 years , I hope you make a lot money already .
Or maybe you can bring your wife live in jb lah .
Just a suggestion .

:thumbsup:  some people feed so much susu until their child refuse real food, if shes eating well its fine

normally ppl feed their kids pediasure if got special need
crazy expensive price..130++ now right?

for those papas workign in SG, here's an option to consider:

take up SG PR and move the family there... why? bcos education in MY really cannot make it already. even neighbourhood schools in SG are on par with expensive international schools in MY.

I'm kinda regretting a little after coming back to MY

hmmm... curious... why not bring them to Singapore instead? migrate or something?

urm... should you be the one who take care of your own children?
need to sacrifice for the sake of ur children i think
if you baby can take the milk with no problem okay la.
for me sometimes the best milk in town is not suitable for the baby, so depends on them 

This is good!
i buy DUPLO for my  son, end up im the one playing 
ini normal.
when arr , new baby is coming? 

the power of SGD