ya... my wife like that... when i get home most of the stuff is done. so just play with my son, bathe him, put him to sleep. lucky i dont OT much, otherwise sure gila....

that's why my wife always pissed... she feeds him, play with him, bathe him
i reached home already 830pm, he already slept

weekend i'll take care then she do house work, some times she's too tired, we'll swap... when both tired, screw the housework...
i only mop the floor and do cleaning after both of them sleep

bro why not consider kaodim? get part time maids to come in once a week its better than nothing.

we had that once, not clean at all... and really need to check on her work...
imagine half a pail of water wipe every furniture downstairs... she was going to use the same water to continue upstairs also
some more this lady was recommended to us by a relative

its harder now cos weekends we are attending trial classes (gym, music, etc etc), some times morning, some times noon, some times Sat, some times Sun
then need to do marketing cos we cook dinner everyday... even if we don't, the kid needs vege and fish for his porridge also

hard to arrange a cleaner to come...
maybe we will la, once we confirm the class

i think your house too big and she went crazy...
maybe get two maids to help clean la... i also engage two part time maids to clean the house for two hours on weekend. paying 15 bucks for one hour.

wow... so fast you push your kids to try out all these classes ah...

i go market every sunday morning around 7ish just to buy fish... vege cannot buy because scared vege wilt... so buy little bit vege from nearby hypermarket... ok also la... got excuse to bring the kid to go kai2....

part timers... maybe they think its just a one of job
interesting... i'll consider that also, thanks bro

going to be 18 months already, time to go for classes else won't be able to start kindergarten at 2yo...

i buy most of my groceries at supermarkets... timing not right la... some more the wet market near my place sucks big time...
went there once, bought 1 fish... looks ok, fresh... but makan that time hanyir one
some times my wife will go buy vege when she finishes work

my kid loves to go kaikai... weekend morning after breakfast he'll go take the house keys are car keys and pass to me
kept the key basket somewhere else already

why you say like that? got prerequisite wan ah?

huh wet market fish also not fresh ah... that's weird... my side the supermarket fish is horrible and more expensive...

ya same.. nowadays always go to the main door hitting the door and make noise want to go out... if we open the door, she will climb up the bench waiting to wear shoes...

my kid seldom mix around... he's ok with adults but not so ok with other kids... we noticed that when we first brought him to gym... he'll stay away from them one don't know why
then we went to those classes like Julia Gabriel, he improved a bit, not so reluctant anymore...
cos we are afraid if we wait longer it might get worse so now every weekend we'll go attend some classes, free or not also just try lor

used to buy from Empire Subang cos their fish was fresh and price is just 10-20% more expensive compared to the wet market in SS15...
after that the people changed, sold me loko fish, that's it, i stopped buying from them... now go all the way to Publika

kids very smart one, cute to look at

Wah..got such thread..Reporting IN...

Currently with a 3 YO toddler and a 2 MO baby.I thought during the confinement time for the eldest thats the worst for me.Sleeps deprivations,wake up at nights when wife suddenly pass the baby to me because she also cannot tahan already,only sleep when the baby is sleep,walk on our tippy toe so that the parquet floor wont make any noise..

But now,the eldest is 3 YO,he seeks all the attention from me and the wife.At night he talk loudly even when we said that his brother is sleeping,or please tone down his voice and such. He gets jealous of his brother when we keep pick the baby up. But what really warm our heart and feel proud as a parents when we see the eldest really protective of his brother when there's outsider.We even jokingly said that we want to left the brother at the mall and he really get angry about it.keep kissing and holding his brother palm.

I really hope both of them grew close with each other and less quarrel or fighting when they are much more older.

we also seldom mix with others except for that little boy and my niece but she seem to be friendlier with kids. she likes to look at other kids too... but really hard to predict now... keep changing... for awhile like dog for awhile scared dog... grass also... i also dont understand...

wah... subang to publika...

the only kid he mixed around is the nanny's grandson, 8yo liao, i suspect that he got bullied that's why he's afraid of kids... don't know leh?

i live in shah alam but go subang for groceries

it could be possible.. maybe that 8yo snatches his toys or something.... same like my niece.. always snatches her toys because very possessive... so end up most of the time both sit at one corner.. only at times they sit together..

ok la.. shah alam to subang can use federal... but if go publika really pengsan le... so far...

yeah... that's why i was to expose my son to more kids, hopefully he grow up faster and can talk, so that he can leave the nanny...

ya publika is a bit far... but i found a so called short cut via the bukit damansara pusat sains road towards MK

all the best... 

stay at home wife

my wife, when she quit her job, first few weeks depressing. she will feel alone at home, doing everything and eventually got bored. i became a victim too lol. just support her and do as much to help her with chores.

after a while, i gave her 30k to start online business. now she's happy with things to do to on her free time at home.

yesterday when i bring my boy to toilet for diaper change, i flip towel and hang it on the door..
he laughed.. i repeat few time.. he keep laughing till getting hiccup
had to ask waifu to bf him to stop hiccup