QUOTE(zulwaqar @ Dec 29 2016, 08:58 AM)
hahaha... long journey to go. I am currently fighting a battle with my 5mo daughter. cry in the middle of night. When you talk to her, she smiles. KEK Thread for Husband and Father, Lets share/discuss/info
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Dec 29 2016, 09:03 AM
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Dec 29 2016, 03:24 PM
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Currently using pampers (nights and travel) and those reusable pampers/lampins (day time).
My wife wanted to separate our baby to different rooms cause I snore too loud... |
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Jan 5 2017, 04:16 PM
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jan 5 2017, 03:01 PM) just sit down n discuss with ur spouse on the cord blood.. is personal choice.. Yup, we choose delayed cord clamping as well after look into several options and we feel it is best to let baby have all the blood before cut the cord.i got to know from my friend ..instead kept ..the dr help to push back the cord blood to the baby during delivery.. you make check with ur dr Delayed cord clamping is a birth practice where the umbilical cord is not clamped or cut until after pulsations have ceased, or until after the placenta is delivered. A growing number of parents are choosing delayed cord clamping for their baby. |
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Jan 17 2017, 04:52 PM
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does anyone know where I can get waterproof diapers for my 6 months old baby around KV? Thinking of bringing my baby to swim.
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Jan 18 2017, 08:33 AM
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Jan 18 2017, 08:35 AM
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Feb 23 2017, 09:15 AM
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Feb 23 2017, 08:47 AM) Yesterday while fetching my kids to school in the afternoon there is a father scolding his 8-year son .. As a father to my 7mo daughter, I do not have any experience to speak of others' parenting method, but I do agree with you. Many I observed always said "I spend time to help him in study" etc, but the tonnes of voices, man, you feel demotivate after listen to your mumbling parents. I agreed many new parents start approaching their kids and stays with them mostly, however, the attitude towards kids are very bossy which cause some kids to turn away; especially when they are older."You know that I work so hard everyday to raise you and feed you, why you didn't spend more time on your study. I am very sad and angry" - the father of the boy Then the boy muka sedih and go into the school. I manage to chat to the father separately after kepochi heard that conversation between the father and the boy I told him gently, please understand is your responsible as a parent to take care, feed and provide your children basic education hence you cannot use this excuse force your kids to do well in the study. Instead, I told him, as a parent you need to inform him why he needs to study, what can he achieve in future if he studies hard. End of the day is really up to the children. Also, I notice we like to make fun of the kids and trying to scare them off. I.e I went to Genting last few years, there was an exhibition for kids to perform indoor rock climbing, as usual for my Aussie colleague - "Annie, you want to try ?" While Annie climbing "Annie, you doing great. I wish I can climb like you" And all the encouraging words like amazing/wow/fantastic all from my friend Another local kid You going to fall down, grip the rocks firmly, faster, later you die if fall down and blah blah blah by their parents You see the difference ... not all will act like this but i observed majority |
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May 22 2017, 03:19 PM
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ May 22 2017, 01:20 PM) Not sure about Grolier... but i do have a set which using talking pen .. my kids play for 3 months then feel bored .. although got language such ENG,CHI and Japanese I agree with you as well. My wife with Waldorf background certainly do not like kids to engage with electronics so much in early years. She really push for family time if my schedule ok such as picnic and walking around garden (my daughter only 9month-old).Seriously i still think parent take a book and sit down with kid and read ... that the most effic way .. learning is two way communication .. means Q&A during the reading |
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May 30 2017, 09:37 PM
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QUOTE(zeroexz @ May 30 2017, 05:13 PM) hi all Not easy to fend off your mother in law, but from my side:im a new father and with my baby being 7 weeks old. he is under the care of my mother in law who is a confinement lady in "profession". Im getting tired of how my mother in law handles the child, ie feeding Chinese herbs powder, letting baby get used to sleep on his stomach to maintain round head shape, frequently wanting to bring baby out to shopping mall which in modern days a lot of these are not strongly suggested (of coz not prohibited at least) by pediatrician... anyone have good ideas to fend off my mother in law? or I should let her b? 1) I never agree with chinese herbs, in fact some herbs already written that no infant can take it 2) baby sleep on the tummy : NOT RECOMMENDED due to SIDS (seek expert or you keep an eye all the time) 3) Never ever bring to shopping mall (I think most of the Pediatrician/Doctors will say no) |
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May 31 2017, 02:42 PM
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QUOTE(zeroexz @ May 31 2017, 11:10 AM) yea I know, to be honest I have to grateful that she is taking her personal time to help us out in terms of the confinement month and settling down I can feel for you, it is hard with generation gap between us and them, moreover with your wife side with her mum. I guess no point to create tension and argument over traditional VS modern way of bringing up children. Good or bad, by end of the day, no one can really judge. Most important is the health of baby and growing up in happy family. point 1 - 3 - I have read a lot articles about these and seriously my wife and in law will just said - I have raised by daughter up such way and she is healthy and married to you... to be honest, my wife is totally on her side and we have difficulties get eye on eye on matter as such. at times I almost throw tantrum and ask my mother in law to shut up and leave...tats rude and bad but really I find it tough different school of thoughts, as new father I admit I am panaroid and has been referring a lot information to the internet which all suggested against the above.... herbs - like my in law says....her daughter was brought up in such manner why not now the child... stomach - yea my kiddo slept better on the stomach, can only keep an eye on this going out - I don't mind once in a while when the crowd is less and make sure the baby is well covered...but my in law is suggesting to go out too frequently...i.e. go out long ours to outlet in the afternoon and want to bring the baby to family gathering at night...I think that's too taxing... definitely not eu yan sang...to her she felt that her experience overrides padae On my side, I do bring my kid to shopping mall just to buy some grocery once a week. She is 10 months old now though. In early days, I always buy grocery home. I can see she is frustrated in long outings. My wife prefer for her to stay at home most of the time. |
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Aug 17 2017, 02:36 PM
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Aug 19 2017, 09:54 AM
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QUOTE(eric84cool @ Aug 19 2017, 09:36 AM) Hi all, I got to know the preg. test is positive and would like to confirm by visiting a doctor. Shall I refer to gynaecologist or normal doctor from normal clinic will do? Even doctor also use the preg. test only. The only thing is to scan only. Get iron, folic acid. Please have balance diet, cause baby's brain development is in early stage.Any recommendation doctor to refer at PJ/Kepong area? thx! |
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Aug 19 2017, 11:32 AM
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QUOTE(eric84cool @ Aug 19 2017, 10:03 AM) Hi, thx for the reply. Then which type of clinic have ultrasound scan test? Is it klinik wanita type? I think most clinics in KL nowadays already got ultrasound, just to be safe, look for Klinik Wanita. I cannot help you on which clinic you go, later kena cut throat. My first experience at Puchong is bad, Klinik Wanita and cut at RM 300 for Ultrasound only. My first and last visit. Quite rush cause want to confirm the pregnancy, other doctor ask, then round around Puchong, end up kena cut throat |
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Sep 18 2017, 02:49 PM
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Formula milk - yes, it is "heaty".
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Sep 26 2017, 09:40 AM
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QUOTE(Keatsan @ Sep 25 2017, 10:57 PM) I feel your pain bro. hahahaha... nowadays, whenever I am traveling, I look for room with one queen and 1 single, guess who is sleeping at single? me When I was traveling outstation with him along, my wife and I had to accompany my son sleeping in his car seat for an hour noon nap. Apparently King Size bed isn't *King* enough for him. |
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Oct 5 2017, 08:14 PM
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QUOTE(vince01 @ Oct 5 2017, 07:50 PM) Hi everyone, Congratulations. I got no direct experience from Hospital Sg. Buloh, but from my friend's experience, it is quite good.Me and my wife are contemplating to deliver in private or govt hospital? The nearest govt hospital in my area will be hospital sungai Buloh Anyone have experience there b4? Doctor and nurse there good?. Thanks in advance |
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Oct 7 2017, 10:43 AM
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QUOTE(vo0de3_x | oum@n @ Oct 7 2017, 08:24 AM) Hi guys.. wanna ask if ur baby one month old n few days did encounter few daya nvr poo? My baby currently have this problem n my wife is worried did you give baby drink formula? if yes, try to give the baby some water ( some doctor did not advise, but my doctor recommend a bit of drinking water (boiled) for baby due to constipation). Reduced the scoop of milk powder by half. |
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Nov 1 2017, 07:18 AM
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QUOTE(wyyew @ Oct 31 2017, 03:58 PM) My wife did not vomit at all. QUOTE(quebix @ Oct 31 2017, 05:04 PM) just wanna ask any fathers here if they share the same experience. Yup, my baby is the same. Reason as what hutazi said. my baby (now 3 months old) has been acting like this ever since i take him out in the car....maybe around a few weeks old i guess. everytime my car stop, he will start crying. even at the traffic light. if traffic jam, headache. hahaah. if long distance drive, sleep soooooo well, not even lorry honking or loud music can wake him, but as soon as i stop the car at R&R, he start to wake up and cry. so sensitive meh?can know if the car is moving or not. lol QUOTE(hutazi @ Oct 31 2017, 05:20 PM) |
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Nov 2 2017, 07:48 AM
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QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 1 2017, 08:59 AM) your baby also same? yup, when stuck in traffic jam is huge problem for me. My baby is very sensitive. No rocker for my baby.i used to take care of other babies before.... but none really like my own baby. other babies, in car is ok, will doze to sleep, but when the car stop, they wont make a fuss. my baby, even if my car stop just for a few seconds, already notice. haha. furthermore at home, have no trouble sleeping, i dont use a rocker to put him to sleep all the time. its not like he wants to be "in motion" to sleep everytime, but just in car. |
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