QUOTE(Garysydney @ Aug 28 2020, 04:54 AM)
There is a big difference in attitudes between ABCs and Msian kids. Kids brought up in Aust will always be more independent and less respectful (if that is the correct word) but that is the way it is - you have some positives with some negatives. Sometimes the older generation has to 'allow' kids to develop their own natural personality though we must guide them. I don't have any kids so i don't have much authority on this subjectÂ
Just my 2c worth on a problem faced by having kids going in a direction that they may not agree with.
Closing my post with an update on Sydney weather again - spring weather seems to be finally knocking on the door

. We are likely to get a lot of sunshine with afternoon temps around 20+ for the coming week.
it is, but i need to correct a bit.
In Malaysia, my first child is now in a decent pre-school. I am paying about RM 900 per month for montessori, not to say the super expensive one. but is another different method that Kinder.
She is getting alot of positive teachings from her Malaysian teachers. And since she entered the school, she became more independent than her cousins, she is entering 6. My wife thought it is her atttitude that followed my DNA, but when we attended New Year party last year, i was surprised to see other kids behave the same. Though i can't say much because she is only early stage but definately better than before she enter about 1.5 year ago.
and i think Independent is very subjective word to use. Some kids who do not attend school until age 5 here in Malaysia were independent already, because of home teaching. I do also surveyed many schools recently with my SIL's children, standing outside of classrooms and see how kids react. It is surprisingly many kids are different from our time. Not like silent or shy when the teacher asking questions, i visited both government and chinese vernacular school.
It is always a growing perception Malaysian parents are being brainwashed that overseas syllabus are better or moving to study overseas are better.
As a parents and adult, we need to be rational to not think the 3rd world country education system is always bad. This mentality will affect alot of genuine teachers who have the true passion to teach. I once met up with a group of teacher from a school for some job related, you know the most unfair thing for them to hear? Kids who are graduated from their school that are being send to overseas, mentioning Malaysia education is low quality, how in the first place the kid can pass the prerequisite to enter good college overseas? Because the childrens are entitiled, doesn't mean that they should degrade this teaching, it is equivalent to degrading the teachers. I was like that, and I have changed.
And in the end what will happen to the passionate teachers? they will be always the one that get blamed for nothing by the rich and entitled.
This post has been edited by Red_rustyjelly: Aug 28 2020, 11:00 AM