i dont see anything wrong with your gf
everybody got their own hobbies and interest
summore she pays her own share

you see this as a problem only means you guys are not compatible and dont enjoy the same things together

better find someone else with interest like yours

This post has been edited by idoblu: Oct 31 2015, 09:33 PM

sau u bz lar cant attend. setle

Sorry I pening. Baru come back from seeing my patient. Anyways she is blackmailing me for making up excuses not to travel with her. I was typing this with a blur blur mind.

LOL.

yes, try to find another. ride bull find horse.

That's why I mentioned exes. But this should not be the only reason to end a relationship. There will be many underlying reasons to break up. Else if break up only because of money matters, means you are not ready for a relationship.

We will try to slowly adapt to one another.... but failed anyway. Now going back to sleeping alone....

Munching popcorn and lul-ing at all the beta male replies.

Glad to know that you are intelligent and independent too.

Anyway, I do not mind paying all the time, just that there is just some instances I forgot my wallet or low on cash (from paying for everything, including their family of course). These happens to the GFs that are 6 - 8 years my junior. You will notice changes in their expression even though we have been together for like a couple of years. They get their expectation of a BF's duty from Snow White and Cinderella.

Those GFs around my age, they do not give a fucuk at all.... but too bad I do not have much luck with them.

Yea, that's the thing about the younger girls. It's funny when they get called out on their bratty behaviour- they then blame everyone else but themselves. Some grow up and do better, and then there are some who don't.

I pity you boys who end up with these ladies. Sometimes I guess maybe we have to weed through the weeds before getting to the flowers. Best of luck bro. Hope she either grows up and you find someone more on your level.

joey wan go travelling?

got someone actually invite me go traveling, then i reject him on the spot lol

her frens do it, she also want, sked lose face

Travelling is the new status symbol

u sked he hamsap u?

lol

peer pressure. social media. high life. women.

there. your answer.

You're generalizing dude, it isn't about being glamorous, post on fagbook, insta and shit. People travel to experience different cultures and to see the world.
But if a woman who isn't your wife yet ask you to fund her all expenses, then yes you're a doormat.

I find that you invest your money in stock market. But you don't set any reward in return for both of you.

On the other hand; you are left managing the finances while she think what do to with it.

So what your portfolio is green. but red on life side because gf demand travelling.

You can be such. Money is just a tool. You got so much money but lack of life; whats the point? Memories/moments are temporary; but its meaningful for her. So fix up a plan and fly your ass to Singapore. Stop thinking WTF with her..

You got a choice; break up and be 20/k richer and whine forever alone or do something about it.

pick one.

u dun get the joke

than you cant jus refuse her? ask her attend alone? if you r not willing to go along.

Ppl who travel are happier than thosr who save and buy things.

Clearly proven in this thread.

Your gf sound understanding. You can just tell her your plan then.

My gf also same. Earn much less than me still want share with me. She is the one who want to travel to Taiwan next year . Then I calculate for her to see. And tell her after next year no money go another country liao . Unless I get a huge pay raise. I need my money to bla bla bla.. She also understand. We agree to cuti cuti Malaysia...