Firstly, don't give sex more credit than it deserves. Though it may play an important role for couples to bond, it may not necessarily be "essential". Most couples break up on the basis that they have sex lesser than before. The frequency of sex is determined by many factors. For example, can you claim that a 60 year old couple love each other less just because they probably have sex once a year or maybe none? Brush that off your mind then you're set to advise on your relationship because little that you know, your boyfriend may be under stress because he knows you have expectations on it.

If you think doctors aren't helping him then the problem may be with you OR you are the only person that could help him. Instead of letting him take control of the situation, why not you take control of the situation?

Preventing fast and deep penetrations will greatly reduce the sensation of cumming. You will not notice a vast difference with just a few sessions but you'll definitely see an improvements. Sex means penetration but penetration doesn't mean you need to constantly penetrate.

You're the female, i'm sure you are better in this field.

Ask him to buy a thicker condom. That will help greatly too and ask him to wipe off those pornographic scenes that he sees when having sex with you because those are what arouses him.

Either he's super sensitive or you're just too damn good in giving blowjobs but either way, you're in control of the blowjob. Pay attention to his face and his inner thigh muscles. You'll know when he's about to cum, stop it.

Only a few is blessed with the ability of going for a second round in such a short period of resting time unless that men has been deprived of any form of sex for 3 months, at least. Then, his first round would be a quickie and then the period prolongs thereafter.

Newbie has nothing to do with PE. PE is the state of mind controlling ejaculation. If you're constantly thinking of things that makes you high and reflecting on erotic images that arouses you then you're finished. The biggest problem with newbie is their fear of cumming IN the female. That fear in fact will actually make cumming harder.

By the way, you should ask him if he masturbates. If yes then how long before he cums? Every men has fetishes, ask him what's his then try to avoid mimicking his fetish. Try to shut him off the things that arouses him.

Is your boyfriend circumcised?

the more he stress, the more he can't perform.

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Just relax, stress can't get what you want.

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dont have dry problem all the while.

he get both also. when situation better is fast climax, else would be PE

nope. 5-15 mins cant get hard also. it may hard when bj but when stop bj, very fast soft back.

See a doctor and ask them to prescribe prilegy pills.

sometime i get lost in my life. Couple argue, they have intimate to get better & closer back. But me is the opposite way. Intimate make us argue & make us apart.

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thanks a lot for ur helpful advice. if masturbates, how long before cums is the ideal time hold? He not circumcised.

Circumcise or uncircumcise has no big difference i think. before circumcised, i never have had sex. Now circumcised, sometimes can last >10 mins first round. Sometimes she was on top of me, 1~2 minutes already finished. It's all the state in mind.
When I feel stressed, couldn't perform=faster gaodim.

Try to look him into his eyes, lots of kisses and small dirty talk when having sex, can help. It's just my POV

Masturbate is always faster than real sex. Masturbate will not help at all in his case. He need to learn how to control the timing.

Try stop having foreplay. Foreplay will on excite him more. Do not touch his small brother.

Ask him to withdraw the moment he coming. Everybody can withdraw and valve will just close the moment he withdraw. Rinse and repeat. Eventually he will learn how to control.

If no touching or no friction and yet he come, then he need to see the doctor.

Sometimes when withdraw after few strokes, or simply stop inside, it would ruin the excitement
Women need constant strokes to achieve orgasm.

Why not grab a Fleshlight stamina training unit? It actually does help. I can last damn long after using that.

This post has been edited by xelium: Oct 16 2015, 12:58 AM

my bro used to have this issue,

i asked him to masturbate 3 times a day for 6 months

now he got new problem, always hard but can never ejaculate until his gf almost die of orgasm.

not sure if this is a good news or bad news.

try more bj on him. it will de-sensitized in long term.

few things i wanna point out here...

1. Unwanted Pregnancy - Even if u do get to hv all the thrusting action, due to his "ability" to cum fast, he might actually come inside u by accident and causing u pregnant...ever thought of doing foreplay then fingering u till u cum instead? (dun ask how. got minor here. go google urself)

2. what kind of doctor is he seeking? Premature ejaculation can be caused by several factors, which is divided into two:

-health issue - unfit physically, lack of control, lack of stamina, etc...
-mental/ psychology issue- low self esteem , performance issue, stress, etc...

3. understand that a lot breakups are caused by this issue also, we all know u are stressed due to this, but if possible dun stress the guy or blame him. it will eventually make matters worse. Guys who hv this issue will eventually hv lacking self confidence.

if u truly love him and would like to continue on with this relationship, pls be patient as this will take some time to recover. using tongkat ali /etc medicine may work, but long time consumption will leave side effects for sure...nothing can beat doing it the natural way.

-just my 2 cents.