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 My bf has premature ejaculation problem, Looking for solution

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TSChlvo3
post Oct 15 2015, 01:41 PM

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QUOTE(PhilHellmuth @ Oct 15 2015, 09:28 AM)
2 pumps and he's out .
my dear, thats a very serious issue ....

what do u mean none? he just ejaculate without any stroking done?
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Yes. Not touch any & wet his underwear.
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post Oct 15 2015, 01:42 PM

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QUOTE(amduser @ Oct 15 2015, 01:34 PM)
did he get too excited about doing it with you that caused him to eject early?

or your skill is too good that he's not able to hold it any longer laugh.gif

there are some free exercise/activity on the internet that can help on this kind of symptom
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I not doing anything something not even touch.
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post Oct 15 2015, 01:48 PM

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QUOTE(TiF @ Oct 15 2015, 11:53 AM)
is he ok before this then suddenly PE? or PE all the while?
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At first second time was ok but it was long time ago, can't recall back well. After that, thing go worst.
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post Oct 15 2015, 01:53 PM

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QUOTE(chiahau @ Oct 15 2015, 10:48 AM)
Just go an see a doctor la.

Asking help from here won't help.
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advice to Doctor lately. The medicine Doctor given not much effect. If he take the medicine, it may delay his ejaculate to 1 or 2 pump only. If not take the medicine, it is totally cum b4 penetrate.
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post Oct 15 2015, 01:55 PM

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QUOTE(Jackofree @ Oct 15 2015, 11:01 AM)
Woah, can't even last before penetration? I think it's all in the mind. He have to relax and take it slowly when making love. When you foreplay with him, remind him to take deep breath and clear his mind. REMEMBER, DEEP BREATH HELPS A LOT. And also don't pressure him and make him feel bad about his condition. Assure him that it's ok and you will be rewarded once he learn to control. Lastly, like everyone else suggest, make him to some exercise to release some tension. Good luck.
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Tq for useful advice
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post Oct 15 2015, 02:06 PM

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QUOTE(Chlvo3 @ Oct 15 2015, 08:20 AM)
My bf at earlier age 30, he having pre ejaculation problem. This making our relationship getting worst day by day. He has been seeing Doctor, problem not solving after taken the medicine. We are getting apart. Im stress to make love with him. It is suffering when after foreplay but couldn't go further more. He is stress too. Many times we are trying but fail , we are not happy, disappointed & keep quiet to each other. Make love is a sweet, sexy hot & romance bed activities for a couple. It is essential in a couple / marriage life. Don't you think so? 😢😢😢 What should I do?
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Having PE problem in a relationship may cause a lot of damages. I understand you, TS. It's essential that every couple should have a fulfilled and satisfied Intimate relationship. How long have this been going on? 1 month? 6 months? I think you should suggest your boyfriend to masturbate every day to control his duration of orgasm. Practice everyday e.g. today, try to masturbate 1 minutes. 2nd day, 2 minutes. 3rd day, 3 minutes. Until he is able to last his cumshot until 5 minutes or more. Later then he goes into real sex with you. Be supportive to him.

In my case, it's the other way round. Before being in a relationship, I had been single for 2 years. And over the past two years i had been masturbating like mad, downloading different porns(JAV) everyday until I can't find excitement in real sex. When I was engaged in real sex, I can't get orgasm but self-masturbate. Sometimes the sex session lasted 40 minutes, still I didn't ejaculate. My gf turned exhausted and started to think that whether she is not attractive to me. It took me 1 month to adjust such excitement of my sexual desire until I'm able to get myself orgasm within 20mins.

Everyone has sex problems. Give him a chance.

Someday when he is able prolong the sex session to 1 hour, U'll regret.

This post has been edited by beahappyman: Oct 15 2015, 02:10 PM
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post Oct 15 2015, 02:07 PM

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QUOTE(Chlvo3 @ Oct 15 2015, 01:53 PM)
advice to Doctor lately. The medicine Doctor given not much effect. If he take the medicine, it may delay his ejaculate to 1 or 2 pump only. If not take the medicine, it is totally cum b4 penetrate.
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Did you consult a legit doctor?

Pretty sure after a dose of some legal drugs which I am not allowed to type here, I don't think anyone will cum after 2 pumps laugh.gif


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post Oct 15 2015, 02:18 PM

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QUOTE(Chlvo3 @ Oct 15 2015, 01:48 PM)
At first second time was ok but it was long time ago, can't recall back well. After that, thing go worst.
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the first few times ok maybe is too nervous also.
some guy, when nervous, cant even get it to stand up, but for some, they can stand but takes a long time to shoot.
so maybe the first few times, he is nervous until take long time to shoot. now he is more comfortable, his weakness in tahan lama shown.

my friend (male) already got 1 baby, but just recently he confessed to me that he also start to PE, like maybe 30secs or less shoot already.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:01 PM

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possible that he may not interested to have sex.
so just choose to shoot it fast then no need to continue.
try talk with him if that so.

This post has been edited by jackal75: Oct 15 2015, 03:02 PM
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:01 PM

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walao, I don't know got such thing .... without even touching, already done .....
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:03 PM

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QUOTE(madcow1 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:01 PM)
walao, I don't know got such thing .... without even touching, already done  .....
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got. maybe you never heard of it because most ppl that encounter it is too shy to tell it around.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:12 PM

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QUOTE(jackal75 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:03 PM)
got. maybe you never heard of it because most ppl that encounter it is too shy to tell it around.
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yeah, but I don't agree on how this thing should affect their relationship ....


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post Oct 15 2015, 03:15 PM

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QUOTE(Chlvo3 @ Oct 15 2015, 08:20 AM)
My bf at earlier age 30, he having pre ejaculation problem. This making our relationship getting worst day by day. He has been seeing Doctor, problem not solving after taken the medicine. We are getting apart. Im stress to make love with him. It is suffering when after foreplay but couldn't go further more. He is stress too. Many times we are trying but fail , we are not happy, disappointed & keep quiet to each other. Make love is a sweet, sexy hot & romance bed activities for a couple. It is essential in a couple / marriage life. Don't you think so? 😢😢😢 What should I do?
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Maybe he just love you too much ..

Happenes to me when the girl im doing with , i sayang her a lot .


Sometimes , when i bang girls i dont find so attractive , can last for hours.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:46 PM

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QUOTE(madcow1 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:12 PM)
yeah, but I don't agree on how this thing should affect their relationship ....
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For you maybe not.
But didn't TS already tell why it affecting their relationship.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:46 PM

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QUOTE(beahappyman @ Oct 15 2015, 02:06 PM)
Having PE problem in a relationship may cause a lot of damages. I understand you, TS. It's essential that every couple should have a fulfilled and satisfied Intimate relationship. How long have this been going on? 1 month? 6 months? I think you should suggest your boyfriend to masturbate every day to control his duration of orgasm. Practice everyday e.g. today, try to masturbate 1 minutes. 2nd day, 2 minutes. 3rd day, 3 minutes. Until he is able to last his cumshot until 5 minutes or more. Later then he goes into real sex with you. Be supportive to him.

In my case, it's the other way round. Before being in a relationship, I had been single for 2 years. And over the past two years i had been masturbating like mad, downloading different porns(JAV) everyday until I can't find excitement in real sex. When I was engaged in real sex, I can't get orgasm but self-masturbate. Sometimes the sex session lasted 40 minutes, still I didn't ejaculate. My gf turned exhausted and started to think that whether she is not attractive to me. It took me 1 month to adjust such excitement of my sexual desire until I'm able to get myself orgasm within 20mins.

Everyone has sex problems. Give him a chance.

Someday when he is able prolong the sex session to 1 hour, U'll regret.
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Happy to heard you can adjust urself flexible as you want & it is work on you. My bf did masturbate & he told me it can last longer b4 he cum. But when come to real sex, he said it is too warm inside & he lost control in 1, 2 second.
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QUOTE(Chlvo3 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:46 PM)
Happy to heard you can adjust urself flexible as you want & it is work on you. My bf did masturbate & he told me it can last longer b4 he cum. But when come to real sex, he said it is too warm inside & he lost control in 1, 2 second.
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did you cum a lot when he go in?
sometime, too dry can cause him uncomfortable.
can try consider put on some lubricant.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:51 PM

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QUOTE(Chlvo3 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:46 PM)
Happy to heard you can adjust urself flexible as you want & it is work on you. My bf did masturbate & he told me it can last longer b4 he cum. But when come to real sex, he said it is too warm inside & he lost control in 1, 2 second.
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hmm, use condom?
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few technique

1) jelqing - like squeeze cow nipple to force the milk out
this is done with the shaft partially harden
2) consume health drink like tongkat ali or bazi alcohol to increase blood flow
3) do more physical activity
4) stimulate more on the head with either listerine or toothpaste, so when intercourse it wont be so much stimulated
5) when intercourse, try do and stop to prolong the duration
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:53 PM

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QUOTE(Chlvo3 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:46 PM)
Happy to heard you can adjust urself flexible as you want & it is work on you. My bf did masturbate & he told me it can last longer b4 he cum. But when come to real sex, he said it is too warm inside & he lost control in 1, 2 second.
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Is he uncircumcised?

If yes, I would suggest him to go for circumcision. It will reduce its sensitivity.

After all, he can last the sex session longer.

This post has been edited by beahappyman: Oct 15 2015, 03:54 PM
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QUOTE(Chlvo3 @ Oct 15 2015, 10:29 AM)
Sometimes none. Sometimes 1,2
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he climaks upon ejecualtion or not climak

if climak upon 3 stroke when eject, its fast climaks, not PE



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