they expect u come is pay for ur own food and see them wear princess dress and faces.. so means they held this wedding dinner is for face only... not the true meaning of sharing the happy moment....

haha guys tokok for fun, end of the day guys think logically and give, then received another bomb then cabut cepat lariiiiiiii........

he speak right infront of u? thn u say 2 him u very poor n desperate mer?
actually in the end ur own who is the 1 tat want gip little but scare no face thn butt hurt tis n tat

Counter back.. u need angpow money to cover ah??

When your friends invite you to their birthday parties , you don't give them presents ? Afterall, using your logic, they invite you while must you give them presents.

haha,
chinese culture, indeed use ang pau to cover back de. XD

hahahahah

may be youngster can start not to put tables liao. XD

jz a ceremony then ok liao.

seem open tables so mafan.

do honey moon and ceremony.

problem solve. XD



macam western culture. cocktail will do

Walao bloody distanced relatives and they dare to kecoh little.
Ya, They expect us to pay. Bloody retarded logic.

u give them present it can be handmade and no min value set.... afterall u use logic, why go wedding dinner must pay with market price?

well then just go with what you think it's worth while... if you don't go then an ang pow in return as a token appreciation on invitation won't hurt good luck

eh eh this nice one!

who say must?

What a cheapskate

Better don't have friend like u
Mempersiasuikan

Correct . Nobody says its a must. She herself scared malu if she give lower than market rate.

2nd

yalo, so cheapskate.... cos u must be the type spend money like water. plus u still studying if not mistaken....

malu then put more lo. XD



put newspaper also can. XD

put "toll hike" head news. XD

my friend say must lor..... owai,....

a chinese wedding dinner is supposedly a ceremony to show to ur frens and relative that u are married, who is ur wife. It's just like a stage for u to tell ur frens and family, hey guys, she is my wife, we baru marry.

So in return, those that attend usually help back the bride la, financially. U think cheap kah mau do wedding dinner. Those that attend is the bride's fren and family ma. So u help me, I help u la.

Bride treat u as his relative or fren, baru invite u go. So u help him back and repay little for the dinner lo. it's common courtesy for a chinese wedding dinner. Up to u how much u wanna pay.

just from the bride's pov, this dinner is to let my frens and relative noe that I have married this gal.

from the guest's pov, ok la, the bride respect me as his frens/family, appreciate his effort to invite me, hence help with the dinner bill lo.

ok, this explanation good. the last sentence .... so now its worth the money to give them hehe