nothing to do with manners... if u got manners u wont say people cheapskate liao little boy...

then is those people who complaint got problem. But doesn't mean that Ts should ask their friend why need to give angpao? Read his previous replies lol.

u can give them a loaf of homemade bread... but why must ang pow lar....

Manners as in asking your friend y need pay angpao,jeez... For the sake of reply

Then you should try for your next wedding invite.

i get ur meaning, just now read wrong liao la. Manners is not related to money.... u do not have to give money to show manners.....

read la boy.... already married, sign church and blah to honeymoon liao... i dont want to burden my friend.

Ok la up to you...

eh this is not rude, if she dont have the intention of taking advantage of this wedding dinner to earn money or cover back her own cost, she wont feel anything. So i know she held this for 面子，so pay lor....

The fucking worst is there are some couples even expect to make a profit from the ang pow money after footing the restaurant bill.

Ptui!

TS is right

Y is it compulsory to expect getting angpow from ppl u invite?

Angpow is suppose to be a blessing not a compulsory gift to sponsor a grand wedding which u cant afford but thick skin wanna have it. And this wedded couple forget that wit this angpow, it can sponsor their wedding.

Wedded couple should be happy that the ppl are coming for their wedding to share their happiness with them. Not expect "sponsorship" in return

Ppl mindset hv to change and think that this angpow blessing culture has evolve to something as compulsory already.

Look at the indian and malay wedding. SHow ur face to their wedding, they happy adi without asking for "sponsorship". That is the beauty of wedding. To share your wedding bliss with ppl you grew up wit. Not expect ppl to leave the wedding wit "sponsorship"

If i know any of my frens who cant afford to attend my wedding, i will juz gladly tell them no need angpow, juz come and enjoy my wedding cuz i want u come.

plz note: dun u think it is ridiculous for ppl to think whether they can AFFORD to attend a wedding especially when they hv financial difficulties? Y do we need to burden ourself by thinking can afford or not? Wedding should be the wedding couple efforts n worry, not the attendees!

Might as well dont put. Save $50

First wedding i attended, three of us share bought a rm50 present
Dont know the rules that time

Lol

Popcorn and coke ready

Pls continue

Tq

i wont be tricked ngeh3 u know wat i mean

my 1st fren wedding ( during f6) 1 fren ask how much u guys going to give angpow.. 1 say give RM100.. we all like fuuuuuuuuuuuuu.. f6 student u siau a... where to get the money.. i say RM20 top then other say RM50 very give face liau..

Then dont pay.

Type tldr for what???

LoL.... Its not easy to break the tradition
Anyway, marriage is a blessing.... Ang pow is just a token of gift.... Unless u intend to buy electrical goods, bed, pillow,or anything to the couple

Ang pow replace goods gift as a matter of facts

At reception chi mui hv a list of name of attendees, you go they tick your name and ask you sign on a large card on table then they check your ang pow got write name or not if NO they'll write your name down.

Refer to comment below.