wah i can comfirm u sure not rich cos u spend money like water. good for u when u die also no money to buy kubur or fee to burn ur ashes... kasi reput in longkang only OWAI.....

This post has been edited by HoneyPink: Oct 14 2015, 08:04 PM

True true..

I show u alll a good wedding

sudah berpunya and still kena asked go ji mui... cos she want pretty girl to be her ji mui OWAI....

that wedding ang pow is to cover the wedding dinner...

why not donate the money to the poor people and orphan children instead of go waste on unnecessary nonsense ? The one who is selfish is you who would only care your self image more than anything else. There are so many unfortunate people which for them the small amount of money is life and death them. Many people such as in china depends on measly amount of pay from their hard work to put food on the table so that they could continue to live and hopefully change their fate to better living conditions tomorrow.

then don't go la. no need to bisign banyak banyak. let me guess end of the day after all the pot peh pot peh here you will end up going too.

i believe many ppl here are not strong in their conviction or friendship. if you are convicted and believe in your relationship with you buddy, you give rm10 also ok. but no you rather think badly of the other party and try to decipher what they would perceive you when you give rm10. pada hal they ok only...

tradition?
perception on tradition also is when u are rich, people expect u to gip bigger amount. if not people will complain : eh he so rich oh, how come only rm100.
so u rich one, u gip at least rm500 per invitation ar?

i can always don't go,.. apa susah ??

if malay can taichi la.. chinease can mah?

its chinese tradition and estimate how much is it worth for the dinner, where it is held, etc... for a decent family, it should cost them around RM1k per table, if 10 people allocated to a table then RM100 each... so if 2 of you go then RM200 lor... you will still get people who doesn't pay or pay less, this will be written down in their list, even worse if you give ang pow without name on it, as this will be taken as someone did not pay, the nameless ang pow will be classified as bonus... becareful of karma, what goes around comes around.

Gals like to bising, tokok pandai.

Can.

Still remember my mom give 288 so we 5person is 1k+- .
Then the relative bising say why so little.. (heard nto from them but by other relative).

bkn laki suka tokok more than gals meh?

that's why i don't plan any wedding dinner or invitation

Those afford to do wedding in high class expense way they afford to pay. So u just give watever angpow money u wan..

Those aiming for angpow to cover the wedding expenses. . Good luck n shame on u

This post has been edited by yahiko: Oct 14 2015, 08:17 PM

haha, traditional mah. XD

chinese very good in calculation de. XD

i didnt held wedding dinner so i wont have karma. i dont like to susah people to come sit and eat and do nothing... sudah pernah try so i know how its feel..... feel terribly bad... sit until my butt also become pancake... and keep eating so boring.... food also biasa biasa sahaja......

Guys tokok for fun, end of the day guys think logically and will give the ang pau because we think with our brains.

Mean while ......

yuh. but if in kampung. u put rm10 ang pau..........

tomorrow whole kampung will know this liao. XD