dont give stupid reason to justify your view. Giving big ang pows on dinner is equivalent to giving bribe when doing in business.

it is a good thing though to think for everyone but most woman would want a grand wedding dinner to show off to their friends. The culture is long outdated and should be phased out long time ago. Japan used to celebrate new year the same date with chinese new year but they have moved away from it and reduced unnecessary burdening culture which explains how they progress so well in a society. Guys in malaysia are too weak and sissy to say no to their newly wed wife for fear of being dump for refusing to held a grand dinner. Such is the pitiful state of our society.


This post has been edited by tankerbell12345: Oct 14 2015, 07:44 PM

why not donate the money to the poor people and orphan children instead of go waste on unnecessary nonsense ? The one who is selfish is you who would only care your self image more than anything else. There are so many unfortunate people which for them the small amount of money is life and death them. Many people such as in china depends on measly amount of pay from their hard work to put food on the table so that they could continue to live and hopefully change their fate to better living conditions tomorrow.