QUOTE(1stLaksamana @ Jul 21 2007, 11:45 PM)
yes, if you want to be just average like everyone else, you will not become rich.
when i do things, i ask myself, is it financially smart to do this? and is it worth it?
do you really need to drink premium coffee aka coffeebean? or eat at steak restaurants, smoke, drink, go clubbing often or buy that fancy branded shirt?
want to be above average comes with a sacrifice.
I'd think when we gauge ourselves against others in defining average, it's already a wrong assessment process at the first step. Say you spend less than your peers, how do you know they are not actually spending ABOVE averagely and so making you actually just, average?
When you ask yourself "when you do things if it's financially wise", good, that's all that's required. Many become rich by living frugally, and many become rich by paying little attention to their spending habits. I'm not saying the latter is better; my point is most time should be spent in growing your portfolio, and if in the meantime you can delay the gratifications, you can live simpler, good. If you want to spend more, then find more income to supple that.
Added on July 27, 2007, 10:34 amQUOTE(ah_suknat @ Jul 23 2007, 04:13 AM)
1).if Bill Gates is your house mate and he counted every single cent with you, how would you feel as his house mate?
2).if everyone want to get out of the 9-5 job and want to become boss, who want to work for you?
3).what is the meaning of getting loads of money? is it for a good retirement? so you can enjoy life? is it worthwhile to spend 45 years to work work work and spend less than 10 years to enjoy? what is the true meaning of enjoying life? is it getting a big house and fast car? or is it spending quality time with your family and kids?
Added on July 23, 2007, 4:16 ami know these questions sounds naive, but the only answer i can get is "depends".
aren't the answer to any question is "it depends"?
This post has been edited by meejawa: Jul 27 2007, 10:34 AM