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Serious Dear All : "I'm falling for my best friend.", Moral : Learn from my downfall

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post Aug 12 2010, 09:03 PM

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Hey Evangelista, you want to come for our gathering or not?
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post Nov 20 2010, 04:45 PM

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QUOTE(mouse_king @ Nov 20 2010, 12:21 PM)
Well... first thing first, give me a high five :')... I was once in your shoe... you know, girl can go close to a guy you know, SO CLOSE that you sometime can even feel that she wants you... but the fact of the matter is this, though it's cruel... GIRL TENDS TO BE SHY IN FRONT OF THE GUY SHE LIKES... girls think a lot, they'll think of how the boy will think of her, will the boy think that she's a slut of something, will the boy notice that she is adorable or something... AND GIRL WILL ACKNOWLEDGE THE FIRST HINT WHICH THE GUY SHE LIKES GIVE HER... so, meaning that, if you wanna know whether she's on to you or not... here's some example:

SHE LIKES YOU
You: Hey, you know, lately I feel that I need you in my life.
Her: Really? Wei ~~ don't play lah... don't sweet talk here la
You: I'm serious... I've been thinking about that lately...
Her: Actually I think you treat me so good that I think I can trust you loh
SHE THINKS THAT YOU'RE HER BEST FRIEND
You: Hey, you know, lately I feel that I need you in my life.
Her: Sure or not?? Me where got good... I very naughty de.
You: I'm serious... I've been thinking about that lately...
Her: Of course you need me lah!! If not ar, who want to listen to your joke, hahahaha!!!

Can see the difference wink.gif... You can actually sense it from the first reply... if a girl likes you, she'll be sensitive toward every word that you say... another good example is:
SHE LIKES YOU
You: I just met this girl, wow, she's so wonderful.
Her: Really?? Gong xi gong xi wor!!!
You: Thank you! I'm so happy...
Her: Welcome... why she so special?? Got big eyes ar??

SHE THINKS THAT YOU"RE HER BEST FRIEND
You; i just met this girl, wow, she's so wonderful.
Her: Really?? Gong xi gong xi wor!!!
You: Thank you! I'm so happy....
Her: Happy for you ler... she must be very sexy one right. Of course lah, I know your taste 1.
Hope all this will help everyone here smile.gif
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from my experience, if the girl likes you and you say you are with some other girl or you wana date some other girl, the girl who likes u might make some disparaging remarks to cover up, eg:

"wah, who would want you o?"
"u sure cannot get her one lar, she is so pretty"
etc
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post Nov 21 2010, 12:32 AM

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QUOTE(mouse_king @ Nov 20 2010, 08:26 PM)
well... it's just an example smile.gif... but normally if you wanna test a girl, this is what you say right...


Added on November 20, 2010, 8:32 pm

well, at the sametime how can you know whether it's the right time or not?? 1 month can be too fast for some girl while others may say 3 months may be too fast...

yeah, that is to test the girl... you know, confessing is like hinting and guessing game if you don't want to end up in a awkward situation... we purposely confess the feeling in front of you and see your reaction and from there we guess whether you have interest or not...

girls are very complicated and very hard to understand... you girls can appear so friendly and yet you call us Best Friend Forever... you know what's the most hurting thing for guy??... is UNABLE to confess to their girl when you know that you love her very much... we don't wanna spoil the relationship as well... we know that if we confess, the girl will say, "sorry, we are just friend"... then everything will turn awkward, then before we realise, you'll tell us "why don't we just stop talking to each other?"... ain't that suck ???

why don't you suggest on how a guy confess to a girl??
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Personally what I do is I don't date inside my friend circle. Makes for less drama that way I find, and if I can't get the girl things are less awkward.
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post Nov 21 2010, 12:57 AM

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QUOTE(peachie-momo @ Nov 21 2010, 12:51 AM)
Isn't it best to search for partners around friends?? You get to know her and know more about her
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I see what you mean, you got a point there as well. It's just that I've seen some ugly results happening from this, and so I'm a bit wary of this.
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post Nov 21 2010, 01:31 AM

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QUOTE(peachie-momo @ Nov 21 2010, 01:06 AM)
So, Noob13 advice apply. It's just like what he write. You can see whether she/he is interested in you or not, if no, then you can act nothing happened and back to normal mode
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Hmmmm, but sometimes it's not as easy to tell as all that. Especially if one is not all that experienced. Like I used to fetch a girl back often so she thought I was interested in her and then asked my friend to pass her confession to me. Misunderstandings can happen see.

QUOTE(Deadlocks @ Nov 21 2010, 01:14 AM)
Why haven't people did it like in the movies?

Collaborate with friends a fake scenario where the guy's friends are approaching the girl and let the hero save the day, LOL.

Remember to ask your friends to wear masks, lest the girl can recognize them when you bring her out. laugh.gif
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HAHHAHAHAHAHAA I actually thought of that as well!
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post Nov 21 2010, 01:51 AM

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QUOTE(peachie-momo @ Nov 21 2010, 01:34 AM)
shakehead.gif I think I misunderstand myself. The one I'm crushing did those too and I fall for him because of those acts  doh.gif

This clearly shows he's just not interested in me  doh.gif
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you gotta differentiate. if some other guy picks you and he looks disappointed, then he likes you. if he looks relieved then sorry lo
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post Nov 21 2010, 02:13 AM

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QUOTE(peachie-momo @ Nov 21 2010, 02:07 AM)
Ooookkkaaayyy~ There is another guy who picks me up some times, the one I'm crushing on will tease me with him  doh.gif ask to chase me  sweat.gif and ask me to sharpen my driving skill so I can fetch the 'another' guy in future. wtf~

Then I just act dunno and say "Me and him IMPOSSIBLE!!!" then he'll go on asking why why why  doh.gif

So what does this means?? Nothing right?? ridiculous right??
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here got two possibilities. 1 is he just likes to kacau u only, maybe he sees that you and the guy are suited in some way. the second possiblity is that he actually likes you but is not sure whether u feel the same way back or not, like justnow the post where u said that the girl sees that i like another girl so she says these kind of things to cover up. GUYS CAN ALSO DO THE SAME THING MA!
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post Nov 21 2010, 02:21 AM

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QUOTE(peachie-momo @ Nov 21 2010, 02:17 AM)
1st possibilities: He said that because every time something HUGE bad things happened, it's always because me and that guy. Or whenever that guy bad mood, I'm always there then will kena fire sometimes  sweat.gif

2nd possibilities: That's what my best girl friend said.  sweat.gif But,  shakehead.gif don't really give myself much hope. And, yeah. I like him but not making any move
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no you gotta make your move or you will keep thinking back "if i had made that move then maybe i might be happily with him now". the thing is you have to make your move in a smart way. if you barge in like a pickup truck and tell him you like him, might be awkward if he doesnt feel the same way, though if he does its PROFIT on the spot.

what you gotta do is to subtly hint to him like saying "hey, i wanna go ____ (insert name of occasion) but nobody to be my date. if he acts shocked you can always say its a "friend date" cos the word "date" is really ambiguous nowadays

 

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