Well... first thing first, give me a high five :')... I was once in your shoe... you know, girl can go close to a guy you know, SO CLOSE that you sometime can even feel that she wants you... but the fact of the matter is this, though it's cruel... GIRL TENDS TO BE SHY IN FRONT OF THE GUY SHE LIKES... girls think a lot, they'll think of how the boy will think of her, will the boy think that she's a slut of something, will the boy notice that she is adorable or something... AND GIRL WILL ACKNOWLEDGE THE FIRST HINT WHICH THE GUY SHE LIKES GIVE HER... so, meaning that, if you wanna know whether she's on to you or not... here's some example:

SHE LIKES YOU
You: Hey, you know, lately I feel that I need you in my life.
Her: Really? Wei ~~ don't play lah... don't sweet talk here la
You: I'm serious... I've been thinking about that lately...
Her: Actually I think you treat me so good that I think I can trust you loh
SHE THINKS THAT YOU'RE HER BEST FRIEND
You: Hey, you know, lately I feel that I need you in my life.
Her: Sure or not?? Me where got good... I very naughty de.
You: I'm serious... I've been thinking about that lately...
Her: Of course you need me lah!! If not ar, who want to listen to your joke, hahahaha!!!

Can see the difference ... You can actually sense it from the first reply... if a girl likes you, she'll be sensitive toward every word that you say... another good example is:
SHE LIKES YOU
You: I just met this girl, wow, she's so wonderful.
Her: Really?? Gong xi gong xi wor!!!
You: Thank you! I'm so happy...
Her: Welcome... why she so special?? Got big eyes ar??

SHE THINKS THAT YOU"RE HER BEST FRIEND
You; i just met this girl, wow, she's so wonderful.
Her: Really?? Gong xi gong xi wor!!!
You: Thank you! I'm so happy....
Her: Happy for you ler... she must be very sexy one right. Of course lah, I know your taste 1.
Hope all this will help everyone here

hahaha... well, not boasting but I for one who got all those "sorry we are just friend" bullshit all the time... so I more or less tend know what the hell is going to happen by reading the messages

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Added on November 20, 2010, 4:49 pm

yup that apply too... but remember, girls won't be that obvious 1... if she's doing that, obviously she is trying to ask you not to tackle her right... you got some good input here too , it's just that, always remember that girl are not obvious 1... they expect you to realise what they are trying to say

well, at the sametime how can you know whether it's the right time or not?? 1 month can be too fast for some girl while others may say 3 months may be too fast...

yeah, that is to test the girl... you know, confessing is like hinting and guessing game if you don't want to end up in a awkward situation... we purposely confess the feeling in front of you and see your reaction and from there we guess whether you have interest or not...

girls are very complicated and very hard to understand... you girls can appear so friendly and yet you call us Best Friend Forever... you know what's the most hurting thing for guy??... is UNABLE to confess to their girl when you know that you love her very much... we don't wanna spoil the relationship as well... we know that if we confess, the girl will say, "sorry, we are just friend"... then everything will turn awkward, then before we realise, you'll tell us "why don't we just stop talking to each other?"... ain't that suck ???

why don't you suggest on how a guy confess to a girl??

Or you can suddenly hug the guy, never let go, and HOPE he's not too stupid to figure out what you're feeling.

It's okay not to have guts, but why are you copying whatever I said about n00b13 LOL.

Right, every word was the same except for the "natural" part.

Like a Proton Inspira.

Personally what I do is I don't date inside my friend circle. Makes for less drama that way I find, and if I can't get the girl things are less awkward.

I see what you mean, you got a point there as well. It's just that I've seen some ugly results happening from this, and so I'm a bit wary of this.

Hmmmm, but sometimes it's not as easy to tell as all that. Especially if one is not all that experienced. Like I used to fetch a girl back often so she thought I was interested in her and then asked my friend to pass her confession to me. Misunderstandings can happen see.

you gotta differentiate. if some other guy picks you and he looks disappointed, then he likes you. if he looks relieved then sorry lo

here got two possibilities. 1 is he just likes to kacau u only, maybe he sees that you and the guy are suited in some way. the second possiblity is that he actually likes you but is not sure whether u feel the same way back or not, like justnow the post where u said that the girl sees that i like another girl so she says these kind of things to cover up. GUYS CAN ALSO DO THE SAME THING MA!

for me, if a guy does that to you, he has no other intention that just be your friend... sorry girl, guess it's too straight forward... no one will give up their love to others without a proper fight... by saying this, he's encouraging you to get him...

chill ... one thing that you need to understand... you don't have to change anything in order to change something... what I mean is, just be who you are toward him and at the same time do not constraint yourself with limited choices ...