Man, I am in the same condition now. Though I have confessed to her, just that, I said, don't say anything. I actually treasure more of the friendship rather than the new feeling of love. Shea god listener and gives nice advice. We click together.

By being a couple I am afraid that I'd loose her if something goes bad. She's open minded about this. 3 guys have confessed to her, rejected, cause she said she's not ready for love yet. I'm the closest to her; most of her friend said so.

Then again I do from time to time, tell her "I love you.". It has double meaning though, love as a friend and love as a man. She loves me too she said, as a friend for now.

I think I am comfortable to what is going on now, just that sometimes, it feel hard since the feeling of wanting to be more than friends is boiling up... I think somewhere in my heart is still want more. Damn I am greedy.

Then again, I don't think I am ready to couple. Such conflict.