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Serious Dear All : "I'm falling for my best friend.", Moral : Learn from my downfall

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clivengu
post Jan 26 2007, 12:23 AM

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Haiya.. forget about it. Let go la..Ha ha. no kidding.

I have been through such trouble b4.. almost similar with yours. Guys often get fall in love with their close Girl Friends. I donno why. But this kind of relationship is very difficult.

If the girl does not feel the chemistry. U will have 0% chances. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS.. "I CARE FOR HER, I TREAT HER WELL.. SHE SHOULD KNOW THAT I LOVE HER... WHY CANT SHE ACCEPT ME?"

She will answer " I ALWAYS TREATED U AS MY BEST FRIEND. WHO ALWYAS TAKE CARE OF ME. I TREATED YOU LIKE MY BROTHER..."

oh..tats sounds hurtful..but is so common. ha ha. Girls prefer guys who are more Mysterious, Unexpected, and Challenging. Not Friends who are Helpful and always around. Illogical and doesnt make sense huh?

But there is no harm for you to try confess to her now. Dont wait. It is better than when u see her dating with other guy, only then u confess to her.. TOO LATE. HEHE.. tats wat happen to me last time. But dont pressure her. Make it more informal and casual when u confess. Or u'll scare her for the rest of the time. Accept watever decision she made, and dont cry over it. Is not use. Flirt with her and not treat her like a friend. Instead treat like like a spoil Child. Tat will work better.

 

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