Friend, it's better if you dont go for your best friend. Why? Like the rest had mentioned before.. the chances are 50-50 and if you fail, you will fail hard...

I've been in your shoes before. The precious lesson I've learnt is that: Never EVER fall in love with your best friend. A friend is suited to stay as friend.. and not more than that. I dunno if you heard this term but in Malay they call it "Teman Tapi Mesra". Close but only as friends.

Right now my principle is: Falling in love with a complete stranger..coz the time you need to unravel her is considered an adventure, thrill, mystery, etc etc.

Being rejected is common. This is because you dont always get your prize in your 1st try. Normally, you would get in your 2nd, 3rd, 10th, or even 100th try. The way I see it is that if you were rejected, that means you are given the chance to EVALUATE yourself; which part do I lack of? Looks? Communication? Body figure? Where did I go wrong? etc etc. After you have evaluated yourself, then you will come back strong after that.

What to do if you dont want to get rejected? Then you must research on her a little; see the signs that she is giving you, how she treats you compared to other friends, does she shows concern to you, etc. But there are times when you can misinterpret the signals so becareful!


Just my 2 cents bro. Good luck!