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post Apr 15 2015, 12:35 PM

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QUOTE(KuzumiTaiga @ Apr 15 2015, 03:37 AM)
90%. I have a lot of relatives  and friends who are dating/converted/married Muslims. Though we may not be at the end point of their saga yet, but judging by how it started and how it's currently progressing, it's pretty shitty and have little chance of it being a happy ending. Parents disown, fight over custody of children, friends go away, neighbours talk shit, don't want to puasa and end up tainting Islam, starts bashing parents' religion, don't want to take parents to temple for Cheng Beng prayers, fight with siblings, always inciting hate against family members who eat pork or McDonald's,

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true. ended up separated.
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post Apr 15 2015, 12:40 PM

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QUOTE(mf_yamato @ Apr 15 2015, 07:32 AM)
Rukun Nikah

1.      Pengantin lelaki (Calon Suami)

2.      Pengantin perempuan (Calon Isteri)

3.      Adanya Wali

4.      Dua orang saksi lelaki

5.      Ijab dan Qabul (akad nikah)
Syarat-Syarat Sah Nikah

a) Syarat-Syarat Bakal Suami
1.      Islam

2.      Lelaki yang tertentu

3.      Bukan mahram dengan bakal isteri

4.      Bukan dalam ihram haji atau umrah

5.      Dengan kerelaan sendiri (tidak sah jika dipaksa)

6.      Mengetahui wali yang sah bagi akad nikah tersebut

7.      Mengetahui bahawa perempuan itu boleh dan sah dinikahi

8.      Tidak mempunyai empat orang isteri yang sah dalam satu masa.
b) Syarat-Syarat Bakal Isteri
1.      Islam

2.      Bukan seorang khunsa

3.      Perempuan yang tertentu

4.      Tidak dalam keadaan idah

5.      Bukan dalam ihram haji atau umrah

6.      Dengan rela hati (bukan dipaksa kecuali anak gadis))

7.      Bukan perempuan mahram dengan bakal suami

8.      Bukan isteri orang atau masih ada suami
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post Apr 15 2015, 12:53 PM

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QUOTE(deodorant @ Apr 15 2015, 09:15 AM)
Has there even been a single confirmed case of born malay Muslim allowed to murtad? I thought the only successful cases are non meleis / Muslims who converted to Islam for marriage but then still makan babi and minum arak and never sembahyang then only jabatan allow.
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They have to keluar Malaysia after they murtad.
Lina Joy is most famous case cos she went to the courts.

Another lesser known is Yeshua Jamaludin, they even arrested him under ISA. The moment his lawyers managed to get him released he keluar to western country.
There are others like him but officially, in Malaysia, they are muslim.

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post Apr 15 2015, 12:55 PM

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QUOTE(deodorant @ Apr 15 2015, 12:35 PM)
Lazy to Google, wasn't her case was inconclusive, she tried to go to non civil courts to get her religion changed but civil courts said no can do, then she gave up and left the country?
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Basically like this. With regards to religion, a muslim must go to syariah court to apply if she/he no longer wants to be a muslim. Many cases blown out of porpotion because they go to civil court straight which have no authority in this type of cases.

Technically and legally a muslim is able to hand over their muslim/malay status via the syariah court. I don't say it's easy but doable.
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QUOTE(aliesterfiend @ Apr 15 2015, 12:55 PM)
Technically and legally a muslim is able to hand over their muslim/malay status via the syariah court. I don't say it's easy but doable

And again I ask. Technically and legally sure, but has there been an ACTUAL case of a born malay Muslim managed to go through the system and change his/her religion on IC?
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post Apr 15 2015, 01:03 PM

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No, must convert, what do you think my religion can play play one ah? God also facepalm to see this kind of mixing.
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post Apr 15 2015, 01:10 PM

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QUOTE(deodorant @ Apr 15 2015, 12:57 PM)
And again I ask. Technically and legally sure, but has there been an ACTUAL case of a born malay Muslim managed to go through the system and change his/her religion on IC?
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In 2011, 135 out of 686 were approved. I'm not sure out of 135 how many are born malay/muslim. I am also wondering why since people always claiming religion is a personal matter why then they do need to advertise their conversion to public ? I accept it's logical here from non-muslim to convert to muslims because they can get the bumiputra status for whatever it's worth but from muslim to non-muslim, what for ? So that they can eat in public freely during ramadan ? Why does have to make some sort of 'almost' political statment when they already believe that religion should be private ?

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post Apr 15 2015, 01:11 PM

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post Apr 15 2015, 01:20 PM

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Aiya why so many nonsense and hearsay in this thread. People can't read issit?

QUOTE(Xefron @ Apr 15 2015, 08:35 AM)
A Muslim man is allowed to marry a Christian woman(without the need of converting), but a Christian man is not permitted to marry a Muslim woman.But u can't do this in Malaysia.
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You're almost right. Certain states have their own fatwa on this.
Perlis for example, allow this. Fatwa from Perlis

I've answered many similar question regarding this in the past.

SUMMARY
Islam (general)
- Muslim man allowed to marry Christian or Jewish(because Muslim also believes in Torah & Bible) woman
- Non-Muslim man will never be able to marry Muslim woman without converting

Malaysia specific
- Muslim man allowed to marry Christian or Jewish woman in some state (sadly many Muslim also didn't know this)
- Non-Muslim man will never be able to marry Muslim woman without converting
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post Apr 15 2015, 01:23 PM

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QUOTE(petirbuas @ Apr 15 2015, 02:20 PM)
Aiya why so many nonsense and hearsay in this thread. People can't read issit?
You're almost right. Certain states have their own fatwa on this.
Perlis for example, allow this. Fatwa from Perlis

I've answered many similar question regarding this in the past.

SUMMARY
Islam (general)
- Muslim man allowed to marry Christian or Jewish(because Muslim also believes in Torah & Bible) woman
- Non-Muslim man will never be able to marry Muslim woman without converting

Malaysia specific
- Muslim man allowed to marry Christian or Jewish woman in some state (sadly many Muslim also didn't know this)
- Non-Muslim man will never be able to marry Muslim woman without converting
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But I know you mean Ahli Kitab. Pada dasarnya harus. Tapi in Malaysia both need to be Islam only the nikah can be halal.
If you want merid with them , they need to still beriman pada Allah dan pada rasul-rasul . They must be who follow the original taurat & injil . Not a new testament.

Syarat Sah Nikah
Syarat bakal suami

Islam
Lelaki yang tertentu
Bukan lelaki mahram dengan bakal isteri
Mengetahui wali yang sebenar bagi akad nikah tersebut
Bukan dalam ihram haji atau umrah
Dengan kerelaan sendiri dan bukan paksaan
Tidak mempunyai empat orang isteri yang sah dalam satu masa
Mengetahui bahawa perempuan yang hendak dikahwini adalah sah dijadikan isteri

Syarat bakal isteri
Islam
Perempuan yang tertentu
Bukan perempuan mahram dengan bakal suami
Bukan seorang khunsa
Bukan dalam ihram haji atau umrah
Tidak dalam idah
Bukan isteri orang

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QUOTE(rekaito90 @ Apr 15 2015, 01:23 PM)
But I know you mean Ahli Kitab. Pada dasarnya harus. Tapi in Malaysia both need to be Islam only the nikah can be halal.
If you want merid with them , they need to still beriman pada Allah dan pada rasul-rasul . They must be who follow the original taurat & injil . Not a new testament.

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That would be major oversight by Perlis wouldn't it? What you're saying is true for most states, but definitely not Perlis. To be specific, Perlis have differing views on how to define Ahli Kitab.
Dr Asri start this during his first stint as Mufti. Dr Juanda Jaya continue with same opinion. Now Dr Asri is Mufti again, he's still firm on this definition.

Differing opinion between Mufti is no big deal, Islam celebrate that as long as it doesn't contradict Quran. So Perlis Mufti view on this are definitely acceptable.
Rukun you highlighted is standard rukun given out by Majlis Fatwa Kebangsaan. So there is no question about 'Halal'ness or 'Haram'ness of this marriage. Perlis fatwa says its Halal, so its Halal there.

You'll see more example in East Malaysia. Lots of Muslim men marry non-Muslim women, and Malaysian civil & syariah law respect that legal union. I know because I befriend few of these couples.

Note: This is one of the issue that I highlighted during open discussion with Jabatan Agama few years back, when there's an idea by some narrow-minded group to disallow non-Muslim from entering mosque few years back.
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QUOTE(petirbuas @ Apr 15 2015, 02:50 PM)
That would be major oversight by Perlis wouldn't it? What you're saying is true for most states, but definitely not Perlis. To be specific, Perlis have differing views on how to define Ahli Kitab.
Dr Asri start this during his first stint as Mufti. Dr Juanda Jaya continue with same opinion. Now Dr Asri is Mufti again, he's still firm on this definition.

Differing opinion between Mufti is no big deal, Islam celebrate that as long as it doesn't contradict Quran. So Perlis Mufti view on this are definitely acceptable.
Rukun you highlighted is standard rukun given out by Majlis Fatwa Kebangsaan. So there is no question about 'Halal'ness or 'Haram'ness of this marriage. Perlis fatwa says its Halal, so its Halal there.

You'll see more example in East Malaysia. Lots of Muslim men marry non-Muslim women, and Malaysian civil & syariah law respect that legal union. I know because I befriend few of these couples.

Note: This is one of the issue that I highlighted during open discussion with Jabatan Agama few years back, when there's an idea by some narrow-minded group to disallow non-Muslim from entering mosque few years back.
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Is it? I'm not sure how to consume this but if you are already disscuss with jabatan etc then who am I to object back . But if I am sure, Ahli Kitab who is belief in Injil and Taurat ( This is about the correct view on Ahli Kitab , should be this way) when before the Jew convert it to old testament bible and new bible. If the person already belief that Isa is the son of god then he/she not already Ahli Kitab.

If she's hindu or buddha then also cannot be marriage. Only Ahli Kitab (is the one who believe in Allah and prophets , before Muhammad was born and Al Quran is complete on Muhammad time )

This post has been edited by rekaito90: Apr 15 2015, 02:08 PM
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QUOTE(rekaito90 @ Apr 15 2015, 02:02 PM)
Is it? I'm not sure how to consume this but if you are already disscuss with jabatan etc then who am I to object back . But if I am sure, Ahli Kitab who is belief in Injil and Taurat ( This is about the correct view on Ahli Kitab , should be this way) when before the Jew convert it to old testament bible and new bible. If the person already belief that Isa is the son of god then he/she not already Ahli Kitab.

If she's hindu or buddha then also cannot be marriage.  Only Ahli Kitab (is the one who believe in Allah and prophets , before Muhammad was born and Al Quran is complete on Muhammad time )
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Yes. This is my own interpretation with regards to Ahli-Kitab. Even having this discussion without various muslims from all over the world. However there are those back then who still follow the old Jewish law and not relying on the later Talmudic laws.
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QUOTE(justforly @ Apr 15 2015, 12:58 AM)
is there any exceptional case at all?

I think I just attended one wedding of hb's colleague, Malay Muslim (Malaysian) who married an American mat salleh, and was quite sure he didn't convert as his family is strictly Catholic.
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USA master race is exceptional mah,

including Europe master race too
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QUOTE(aliesterfiend @ Apr 15 2015, 03:22 PM)
Yes. This is my own interpretation with regards to Ahli-Kitab. Even having this discussion without various muslims from all over the world. However there are those back then who still follow the old Jewish law and not relying on the later Talmudic laws.
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Yea exactly, it is said , in fatwa perlis

"Mesyuarat juga bersetuju bahawa maksud Ahli Kitab secara umum ialah ‘orang-orang yang masih berpegang kepada Kitab Taurat dan Injil walaupun kitab itu sudah diselewengkan (Bible, old testament & new testament) sebelum Al-Quran diturunkan’. Tetapi Al-Quran masih menganggap mereka itu Ahli Kitab."

But nowadays mana ada Ahli Kitab dah, if ada I'm not sure where they are, sekarang only Islam (al quran) ,christian (bible) . Syia' is not real Islam, it is completely messed.

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QUOTE(rekaito90 @ Apr 15 2015, 02:33 PM)
Yea exactly, it is said , in fatwa perlis

"Mesyuarat juga bersetuju bahawa maksud Ahli Kitab secara umum ialah  ‘orang-orang yang masih berpegang kepada Kitab Taurat dan Injil walaupun kitab itu sudah diselewengkan (Bible, old testament & new testament) sebelum Al-Quran diturunkan’. Tetapi Al-Quran masih menganggap mereka itu Ahli Kitab."

But nowadays mana ada Ahli Kitab dah, if ada I'm not sure where they are,  sekarang only Islam (al quran) ,christian (bible) .  Syia' is not real Islam, it is completely messed.
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Syiah believes that they are true muslim. smile.gif
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QUOTE(rekaito90 @ Apr 15 2015, 02:02 PM)
Is it? I'm not sure how to consume this but if you are already disscuss with jabatan etc then who am I to object back . But if I am sure, Ahli Kitab who is belief in Injil and Taurat ( This is about the correct view on Ahli Kitab , should be this way) when before the Jew convert it to old testament bible and new bible. If the person already belief that Isa is the son of god then he/she not already Ahli Kitab.

If she's hindu or buddha then also cannot be marriage.  Only Ahli Kitab (is the one who believe in Allah and prophets , before Muhammad was born and Al Quran is complete on Muhammad time )
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Dr Asri argument is, even during Prophet Muhammad time, most Christian and Jews already follow the 'altered' version of the Books(trinity et al). I couldn't find the Youtube video I watched a while back where he explain on this issue, its part of longer ceramah of which the title I already forgotten.

And to clarify, the thing with Jabatan Agama is in regard to general hukum of marriage, so that ruling of non-Muslim barred from entering mosque will not be applicable, ever. I didn't discuss with them regarding Perlis fatwa specifically.
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QUOTE(deodorant @ Apr 15 2015, 01:01 AM)
To register wedding in Malaysia = 100% not possible.
To register wedding outside Malaysia and/or just do a 'customary' ceremony in Malaysia = Sure why not?
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I attended a wedding, malay lady & french guy. They tak suka the conversion bit.. so they KELUAR lor...
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Syiah believes that they are true muslim.  smile.gif
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How can they believe they are true muslim when they hate Muhammad SAW? Lol laugh.gif

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