Why is it so difficult to say "hi"
Why is it so difficult to say "hi"
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Jan 28 2015, 07:09 PM, updated 11y ago
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So here is the story. I happened to be in the same class with her for three years consecutive before in High School. Until Form 5, I only would just talk to her a little bit. I have secretly crush on her, after graduate we have no connection already. Although I have her phone number and FB, I didn't chat with her AT ALL!! I think maybe it is more convinient to chat with her personally. In these two years, she already have a boyfriend but I am still single. I don't know where she is until last week.... I Found her working at UNIQLO. She is working with one of my male friend too from the high school. I'm really suprised. When I walk inside, I said hi to my male friend and I talk to him abit, then I turned to her and we looked at each other eyes. I tried to say "Hi" to her, but I don't know why all my nerves pull me back from saying that. Once I walked out the store, I immediately regret it but I CAN'T DO IT
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Jan 28 2015, 07:10 PM
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Hi.
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Jan 28 2015, 07:11 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:11 PM
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wat high skol ni, why all end up kerja uniqlo
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Jan 28 2015, 07:12 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:12 PM
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105 posts Joined: May 2009 From: palaoxko |
username macham pandan je
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Jan 28 2015, 07:12 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:13 PM
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he who hesitates,
masturbates. |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:14 PM
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smile n say hello.. then bye
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Jan 28 2015, 07:14 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:14 PM
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pandan , hi pun x berani
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Jan 28 2015, 07:14 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:15 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:16 PM
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pandan == ?
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Jan 28 2015, 07:17 PM
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181 posts Joined: Nov 2007 From: Malacca / Kuala Lumpur |
Dia uniqlo..u plak McD SG ke?
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Jan 28 2015, 07:17 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:17 PM
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which uniqlo... pavillion there? hehe..
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Jan 28 2015, 07:18 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:19 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:19 PM
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lmao living up to your username dude.
mom kept your balls ah? |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:19 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:20 PM
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I say hi every day on wechat... Not a single reply
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Jan 28 2015, 07:20 PM
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lol hi also cannot
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Jan 28 2015, 07:22 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:23 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:23 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:23 PM
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Say hoi! Hoi ya hoi!
Or... kamate kamate hora hora! Lol |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:23 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:24 PM
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No balls... you really doesnt deserve her at all.
When youll be in Sg afterwards. Youll be regretting this moment everytime you think abt her until she married... |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:24 PM
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Some boys are just meant to be losers
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Jan 28 2015, 07:24 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:25 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:26 PM
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Are u lesbian?
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Jan 28 2015, 07:27 PM
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She is fuking your guy high school friend. Conlanfirm
gg TS |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:27 PM
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QUOTE(babyqueen123 @ Jan 28 2015, 07:09 PM) So here is the story. I happened to be in the same class with her for three years consecutive before in High School. Until Form 5, I only would just talk to her a little bit. I have secretly crush on her, after graduate we have no connection already. Although I have her phone number and FB, I didn't chat with her AT ALL!! I think maybe it is more convinient to chat with her personally. In these two years, she already have a boyfriend but I am still single. I don't know where she is until last week.... I Found her working at UNIQLO. She is working with one of my male friend too from the high school. I'm really suprised. When I walk inside, I said hi to my male friend and I talk to him abit, then I turned to her and we looked at each other eyes. I tried to say "Hi" to her, but I don't know why all my nerves pull me back from saying that. Once I walked out the store, I immediately regret it but I CAN'T DO IT go again one day. purpose act like you wanna shop therethen say hi lah. |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:27 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:29 PM
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hi beach
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Jan 28 2015, 07:31 PM
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Asian.. we all very paiseh
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Jan 28 2015, 07:33 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:36 PM
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Hi
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Jan 28 2015, 07:38 PM
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Hi.
See? So simple! Ayam don't know you sked apa |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:39 PM
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746 posts Joined: Aug 2011 From: Lowyat.net |
bola sudah hilang kat mana?
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Jan 28 2015, 07:40 PM
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Start with small talk la. Don't just keep quiet else she think ur a weirdo.
Not everyone is born with communication skills. We acquire them as we grow. |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:41 PM
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Don't think, just talk/sms.
Better than being a chicken wuss |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:42 PM
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Hi
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Jan 28 2015, 07:49 PM
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You have nothing to lose.
Go to the shop, pretend to get attracted to a shirt but actually just want to approach her. When you are near her, say hi and smile. Maybe then ask her how she has been doing so far, working in uniqlo must be interesting (pretend to be amused at the benefits she gets), is it easy to layan customers at uniqlo? blah blah blah. Before parting wish her the best sincerely. Hopefully you give her a good impression. Or if you berani, you ask her out for supper tonight, say you belanja her. Good luck bro. |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:49 PM
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Babyqueen in love with another girl?
So you're a lesbian? |
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Jan 28 2015, 07:50 PM
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Ask ur fren, i want uniqlo staff discount to buy things
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Jan 28 2015, 07:50 PM
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syukur only 1 syllable..
imagine meleis has to said assalamualaikum.. |
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Jan 28 2015, 08:11 PM
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QUOTE(billylks @ Jan 28 2015, 07:49 PM) You have nothing to lose. Nice approach will try it out this weekend thanks broGo to the shop, pretend to get attracted to a shirt but actually just want to approach her. When you are near her, say hi and smile. Maybe then ask her how she has been doing so far, working in uniqlo must be interesting (pretend to be amused at the benefits she gets), is it easy to layan customers at uniqlo? blah blah blah. Before parting wish her the best sincerely. Hopefully you give her a good impression. Or if you berani, you ask her out for supper tonight, say you belanja her. Good luck bro. |
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Jan 28 2015, 08:13 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 08:15 PM
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hi
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Jan 28 2015, 08:25 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 08:26 PM
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need drillz of her so that /k/ can giv better advice
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Jan 28 2015, 08:29 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 08:46 PM
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u are too beta. be alpha abit ma.
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Jan 28 2015, 09:01 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 09:13 PM
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Well, it depends on how you pronounce the word hi if you know what I mean
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Jan 28 2015, 09:15 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 09:20 PM
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Ts pandan
Look but no say hi = ignore = she might think u're rude or uninterested.. To make amend, maybe try to message hi in fb or whatsapp and see her respond first.. Good respond will auto give u confidence to say hi next time.. |
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Jan 28 2015, 09:56 PM
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QUOTE(Yonglee @ Jan 28 2015, 09:20 PM) Ts pandan Ya, thx for that, but I never msg her b4, a bit nervous thoughLook but no say hi = ignore = she might think u're rude or uninterested.. To make amend, maybe try to message hi in fb or whatsapp and see her respond first.. Good respond will auto give u confidence to say hi next time.. |
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Jan 28 2015, 09:57 PM
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Jan 29 2015, 12:19 AM
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its valentine soon, do it or just regret.
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Jan 29 2015, 09:39 AM
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Go rent one settle
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Jan 29 2015, 10:16 AM
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First question; what is your intention of approaching her?
Second; is she still single or is she still with the other guy? In any case, just walk right up and take the first approach. Regardless of your intention of pursuing her or just to make friends, you should take the lead. Say hello, start topics that will be relevant to her or throw a couple of general topics to kick-off a conversation. Treat it casual, and you will be fine. This post has been edited by Kevmeister: Jan 29 2015, 10:17 AM |
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Jan 29 2015, 10:33 AM
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U are so cute.
Enuff of acting cute, go there and talk to her. Have no idea how? Talk to your friend 1st, bring him out for a movie or so, once she's around invite her too |
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Jan 29 2015, 02:17 PM
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Jan 29 2015, 02:17 PM
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QUOTE(Kevmeister @ Jan 29 2015, 10:16 AM) First question; what is your intention of approaching her? 1: I have a crush on herSecond; is she still single or is she still with the other guy? In any case, just walk right up and take the first approach. Regardless of your intention of pursuing her or just to make friends, you should take the lead. Say hello, start topics that will be relevant to her or throw a couple of general topics to kick-off a conversation. Treat it casual, and you will be fine. 2: She do have a boyfriend |
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Jan 29 2015, 02:19 PM
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Jan 29 2015, 05:01 PM
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is she so pretty that you cant even say hi?
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Jan 29 2015, 06:07 PM
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Jan 30 2015, 03:24 PM
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TS PANDAN DESWAI
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Jan 30 2015, 03:34 PM
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TS, ignore the no balls, pandan etc. They also have approach anxiety, it's normal TS. Try saying hi once. For the first time, she might see u like an awkwardist pandan, but don't worry because you'll get comfortable with it in the long run (if you keep practicing)
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Jan 30 2015, 04:03 PM
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Jual mahal tips
1. Keep going back to the shop, find that guy, ask him out for lunch..den purposely walk beside her (pray that the guy asked the girl along), then u say "okay la cincai la go makan together". 2. During lunch don't really bother the girl and just talk to the guy and occasionally tease the girl. 3. she will attrak to u and soon u 2 will get together 4 valentines. inb4 - u can talk kork |
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Jan 30 2015, 06:13 PM
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Going to Singapore? Check out the chick there.
IMHO, there are tons of fish out there. Take your time, pick the right one. My 2 cents. |
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Jan 30 2015, 07:02 PM
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QUOTE(Blackdawn @ Jan 30 2015, 04:03 PM) Jual mahal tips Sure can bo? XDDD1. Keep going back to the shop, find that guy, ask him out for lunch..den purposely walk beside her (pray that the guy asked the girl along), then u say "okay la cincai la go makan together". 2. During lunch don't really bother the girl and just talk to the guy and occasionally tease the girl. 3. she will attrak to u and soon u 2 will get together 4 valentines. inb4 - u can talk kork |
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Jan 30 2015, 07:03 PM
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Jan 30 2015, 11:16 PM
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QUOTE(Encik Aduka @ Jan 30 2015, 03:34 PM) TS, ignore the no balls, pandan etc. They also have approach anxiety, it's normal TS. Try saying hi once. For the first time, she might see u like an awkwardist pandan, but don't worry because you'll get comfortable with it in the long run (if you keep practicing) Thanks for your advice bro |
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Feb 1 2015, 12:20 AM
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Its easy to say hi
Its hard to continue after that Hi. |
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Feb 1 2015, 06:14 PM
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QUOTE(babyqueen123 @ Jan 29 2015, 02:17 PM) 1. According to 2, then you should just try to be her friend for now. Like my previous suggestion, just talk casually and don't make yourself sounding too nervous, and neither should you sound cautious. Just play it cool, treat her like a friend. It's hard, but it's a start.2. If that's the case, refer to 1 |
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