Why is it so difficult to say "hi"
Why is it so difficult to say "hi"
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Jan 28 2015, 07:09 PM, updated 11y ago
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So here is the story. I happened to be in the same class with her for three years consecutive before in High School. Until Form 5, I only would just talk to her a little bit. I have secretly crush on her, after graduate we have no connection already. Although I have her phone number and FB, I didn't chat with her AT ALL!! I think maybe it is more convinient to chat with her personally. In these two years, she already have a boyfriend but I am still single. I don't know where she is until last week.... I Found her working at UNIQLO. She is working with one of my male friend too from the high school. I'm really suprised. When I walk inside, I said hi to my male friend and I talk to him abit, then I turned to her and we looked at each other eyes. I tried to say "Hi" to her, but I don't know why all my nerves pull me back from saying that. Once I walked out the store, I immediately regret it but I CAN'T DO IT
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Jan 28 2015, 07:11 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:12 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:14 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:16 PM
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pandan == ?
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Jan 28 2015, 07:18 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:19 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:19 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:23 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:25 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:27 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 07:33 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 08:11 PM
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QUOTE(billylks @ Jan 28 2015, 07:49 PM) You have nothing to lose. Nice approach will try it out this weekend thanks broGo to the shop, pretend to get attracted to a shirt but actually just want to approach her. When you are near her, say hi and smile. Maybe then ask her how she has been doing so far, working in uniqlo must be interesting (pretend to be amused at the benefits she gets), is it easy to layan customers at uniqlo? blah blah blah. Before parting wish her the best sincerely. Hopefully you give her a good impression. Or if you berani, you ask her out for supper tonight, say you belanja her. Good luck bro. |
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Jan 28 2015, 08:13 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 09:01 PM
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Jan 28 2015, 09:56 PM
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QUOTE(Yonglee @ Jan 28 2015, 09:20 PM) Ts pandan Ya, thx for that, but I never msg her b4, a bit nervous thoughLook but no say hi = ignore = she might think u're rude or uninterested.. To make amend, maybe try to message hi in fb or whatsapp and see her respond first.. Good respond will auto give u confidence to say hi next time.. |
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Jan 28 2015, 09:57 PM
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Jan 29 2015, 02:17 PM
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Jan 29 2015, 02:17 PM
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QUOTE(Kevmeister @ Jan 29 2015, 10:16 AM) First question; what is your intention of approaching her? 1: I have a crush on herSecond; is she still single or is she still with the other guy? In any case, just walk right up and take the first approach. Regardless of your intention of pursuing her or just to make friends, you should take the lead. Say hello, start topics that will be relevant to her or throw a couple of general topics to kick-off a conversation. Treat it casual, and you will be fine. 2: She do have a boyfriend |
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Jan 29 2015, 02:19 PM
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