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TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:09 PM, updated 11y ago

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So here is the story. I happened to be in the same class with her for three years consecutive before in High School. Until Form 5, I only would just talk to her a little bit. I have secretly crush on her, after graduate we have no connection already. Although I have her phone number and FB, I didn't chat with her AT ALL!! I think maybe it is more convinient to chat with her personally. In these two years, she already have a boyfriend but I am still single. I don't know where she is until last week.... I Found her working at UNIQLO. She is working with one of my male friend too from the high school. I'm really suprised. When I walk inside, I said hi to my male friend and I talk to him abit, then I turned to her and we looked at each other eyes. I tried to say "Hi" to her, but I don't know why all my nerves pull me back from saying that. Once I walked out the store, I immediately regret it but I CAN'T DO IT cry.gif cry.gif . My mood completely changed. I'm thinking about her the whole time. And several times before I go back, I tried to walk back the store again but I don't have the courage. I feel like I'm Coward. Why am I acting like a 5 year old kids who are affraid and resistance to say "Hi".Tommorow I'm going to SG already, should I delayed my trip to go back and say "Hi" again? I'm afraid that I can't do it again. I can't take my mind off her until today sad.gif
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:11 PM

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QUOTE(SUPER-BBC @ Jan 28 2015, 07:10 PM)
BBC
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BBC?
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:12 PM

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QUOTE(makcikmango @ Jan 28 2015, 07:11 PM)
wat high skol ni, why all end up kerja uniqlo
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Come On, it is just sem break b4 waiting for stpm result
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:14 PM

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QUOTE(SUPER-BBC @ Jan 28 2015, 07:13 PM)
BBC = Confidence yo...
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I tried....haizzz
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:16 PM

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pandan == ?
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:18 PM

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QUOTE(SUPER-BBC @ Jan 28 2015, 07:16 PM)
Just say hi if you dont want to be regret...
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Hope I can achieve that haha
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:19 PM

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QUOTE(rekaito90 @ Jan 28 2015, 07:17 PM)
Dia uniqlo..u plak McD SG ke?
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TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:19 PM

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QUOTE(Autocountstick @ Jan 28 2015, 07:17 PM)
which uniqlo... pavillion there? hehe..
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Penang ones
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:23 PM

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QUOTE(loli_yat @ Jan 28 2015, 07:20 PM)
I say hi every day on wechat... Not a single reply
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betul ke?
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:25 PM

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QUOTE(H4XF4XTOR @ Jan 28 2015, 07:24 PM)
No balls... you really doesnt deserve her at all.

When youll be in Sg afterwards. Youll be regretting this moment everytime you think abt her until she married...
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I fell that too.....
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:27 PM

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QUOTE(andriel @ Jan 28 2015, 07:26 PM)
Are u lesbian?
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I'm male la bang
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 07:33 PM

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QUOTE(saintnotsinner @ Jan 28 2015, 07:31 PM)
Asian.. we all very paiseh
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*brofist*
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 08:11 PM

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QUOTE(billylks @ Jan 28 2015, 07:49 PM)
You  have nothing to lose.

Go to the shop, pretend to get attracted to a shirt but actually just want to approach her. When you are near her, say hi and smile. Maybe then ask her how she has been doing so far, working in uniqlo must be interesting (pretend to be amused at the benefits she gets), is it easy to layan customers at uniqlo? blah blah blah.

Before parting wish her the best sincerely. Hopefully you give her a good impression.
Or if you berani, you ask her out for supper tonight, say you belanja her.

Good luck bro.
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Nice approach will try it out this weekend thanks bro
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 08:13 PM

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QUOTE(Lucifer96 @ Jan 28 2015, 07:49 PM)
Babyqueen in love with another girl?

So you're a lesbian?
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Man just name== vmad.gif vmad.gif
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 09:01 PM

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QUOTE(RO Player @ Jan 28 2015, 08:50 PM)
enough said...if wanna serious answer..change to serious kopitiam...
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U know how to change?
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 28 2015, 09:56 PM

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QUOTE(Yonglee @ Jan 28 2015, 09:20 PM)
Ts pandan

Look but no say hi = ignore = she might think u're rude or uninterested..

To make amend, maybe try to message hi in fb or whatsapp and see her respond first..
Good respond will auto give u confidence to say hi next time..
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Ya, thx for that, but I never msg her b4, a bit nervous though
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post Jan 28 2015, 09:57 PM

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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Jan 28 2015, 09:15 PM)
Done smile.gif
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Thx man
TSbabyqueen123
post Jan 29 2015, 02:17 PM

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QUOTE(ah_suknat @ Jan 29 2015, 12:19 AM)
its valentine soon, do it or just regret.
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Lol, she has a boyfriend though
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post Jan 29 2015, 02:17 PM

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QUOTE(Kevmeister @ Jan 29 2015, 10:16 AM)
First question; what is your intention of approaching her?

Second; is she still single or is she still with the other guy?

In any case, just walk right up and take the first approach. Regardless of your intention of pursuing her or just to make friends, you should take the lead.

Say hello, start topics that will be relevant to her or throw a couple of general topics to kick-off a conversation. Treat it casual, and you will be fine.
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1: I have a crush on her
2: She do have a boyfriend
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post Jan 29 2015, 02:19 PM

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QUOTE(Robin Hood @ Jan 29 2015, 10:33 AM)
U are so cute.

Enuff of acting cute, go there and talk to her. Have no idea how?

Talk to your friend 1st, bring him out for a movie or so, once she's around invite her too
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Will try this out this weekend, hope I have the courage to do this flex.gif flex.gif

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