Hi Coco, glad you're enjoying the thread. Here are the answers to your questions.

QUOTE(cocobunana @ Feb 11 2015, 08:20 PM)
1. I worship guanyin, tu di gong, and perhaps (not sure) tian gong? (a small lantern hanging outside with a slot for jossticks). my question would be, what language do I use to communicate with the gods? any gods to be precise. should i converse with the language I'm more comfortable with (english) or the language I feel that it's more right? (chinese, but so-so only)
The small lantern would, indeed, be a makeshift altar to Tian Gong.
A sincere prayer by a pious, virtuous person can transcend language barriers of any sort.

QUOTE(cocobunana @ Feb 11 2015, 08:20 PM)
2. those spirits whom wander around us, are they like, under some sort of proabation? like the 49 days thing you mention but under the surveillance of certain being. or to settle unfinished business? maybe waiting for the gods to guide them?
If a person dies suddenly or unexpectedly (i.e. in an accident or through foul play), their passing may be overlooked or undetected, thus resulting in their soul not being collected as it normally would be. Also, those who die violent deaths may find themselves bound to the place where they died, unable to leave unless they are collected, or unless the relevant rituals are performed to release them.
Other souls are under probation, yes, as you've suggested. Others are fugitives, perhaps escapees from Hell or elsewhere. Others are performing spiritual cultivation on earth, perhaps in the service of one or more gods. And there are others who are not the souls of the dead, but supernatural creatures who may have never even been human to begin with.
QUOTE(cocobunana @ Feb 11 2015, 08:20 PM)
3. hell's scenery. is it like how it is depicted since the ancient times? a fire burning area? I read the so called "penang hell trip" article, the participant said it's random images of area on earth such as shopping malls and whatsoever,but those area are said to be empty (sounds kinda far fetch) also the colour red will always come across my mind when something related to the realm is being mention. or perhaps its some sort of cave like area? dark, but voices of the deity and the other souls around? butttttt it's probably a one-way-to-find-out question eh?
Hell is traditionally depicted as being located deep underground (the Chinese name for Hell, di yu/地狱, literally means 'prison of the earth'), but it is very vast, way more vast than the subterranean regions of the earth could ever encompass. It should more appropriately be regarded as a separate dimension in its own right - if you play Dungeons and Dragons, the Shadowfell would be a good analogue.
There are many zones in Hell. Some of these are boiling infernos, others frozen wastelands. The terrain and scenery are very varied, depending on where you are. It is said that some zones can even be tailor-made to suit the punishments of individual sinners.


QUOTE(cocobunana @ Feb 11 2015, 08:20 PM)
4. the story of the hell gate being open during the seventh month. Is it because of some mother's love story which I heard before? my mother's friend who posses the third eye said that the number of spirit wandering during that month is no different than the rest of the year, is it true? how is the hell gate being filtered?
The origin of the Gates of Hell being opened during the Seventh Month lies in the story of Maudgalyāyana, also known as Mu Lian/目连. He was one of Buddha's first disciples, who journeyed to Hell and discovered his departed mother in a state of starvation as a result of being miserly and mean-spirited when she was alive - she was now a hungry ghost, one of hundreds.
Mu Lian developed a means to offer food to the hungry ghosts, as well as to contribute to their eventual salvation by providing charity to monks and the needy, thus accumulating merits on their behalf (the Ullambana). This eventually evolved into the beliefs surrounding the Hungry Ghost Festival, in which the prisoners in Hell are let out during the Seventh Month for a temporary reprieve, to partake of food offerings provided by their loved ones and good Samaritans alike.

The spirits are guarded, of course, to prevent them from escaping or otherwise causing havoc. But the Hell deities can only do so much, of course. Mishaps do happen, unfortunately.
Those with the second sight get sensitised to the sight of spirits. Whether it is the Seventh Month or otherwise may thus make no difference to your mother's friend at all.
QUOTE(cocobunana @ Feb 11 2015, 08:20 PM)
Also, I guess the story my teacher told me, where she heard sounds of chain from her neighbor house and only to found out the next day the neighbor pass away would be the sound produce by the black deity?
Li Ya Pek, the Black Ghost, does indeed wield magic chains, which he uses to bind his prisoners with.
This is me dressed up as him, by the way.
