QUOTE(kron_ka @ Jan 24 2015, 08:42 AM)
Yeah spot on, she is an introvert but she is well like in her office. The people there trust her because she can do her work and she is friendly. Well no longer my gf, haha, ex.
I think even want to initiate only tough, its like taking a machine gun and shooting into the bushes, hoping to kill a rabbit for food. She's also at fault for not producing enough chemistry.
So next time, is to figure out how to speak to anyone, ie, male and female. Practice public speaking in front of your friends and colleagues, even your family member. Telling improptu jokes is the best way to build up conversational skills.
Ah, you can't fault your ex gf for her lack of chemistry...You need to build up your charisma first.
QUOTE(kron_ka @ Jan 24 2015, 08:50 AM)
I used to go alone to church. So just to test, you usually go upstairs or downstairs? If downstairs you are the type that like the atmosphere.
For me I like to listen to hymms and the congregation sing out aloud. Just a piano will do. I just can't take the drums and the bass guitar. It feels like a concert. I understand that its done for a wider audience. Baptists churches have been losing young members to more progressive churches. Sometimes the loud music drowns out the voice of the singers and the congregation.
Are you from Penang? You sound familiar.
I used to go to DUMC. Not anymore. Usually if a church has two levels, I would go sit in downstairs near the centre. Yeah, I like the atmosphere but most important is the sermon.
I don't like loud drums and guitar too. I prefer hymns, but most churches that have hymns are Roman Catholic and Anglican.
So far my church is just nice. I like it, the pastor's sermon is simple but yet complex at times even I can understand it. I can download the sermons whenever I want to, in case I missed it. hahaha...
I'm from KL.