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post Sep 8 2014, 05:39 PM

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QUOTE(Raymond Lam @ Sep 8 2014, 04:36 PM)
At least u break up sure direct talk properly ok we break. But i really cannot imagine she can be so cruel and evil already together with another dude. Expected hug and kiss.  cry.gif
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lol dream on kiddo

pls do expect more of this shit, lol
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QUOTE(archilles89 @ Sep 8 2014, 05:31 PM)
Your statement only applies to people who are able to mingle easily. I bet you have lots of friends and you almost always never spent a weekend alone. Am I right? Some people are not as lucky. What I would give to have friends wanting to go out with me every other weekend.

This is all that I've been thinking. Work or gaming, awake or asleep.
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The opposite. I am a lonely ranger. Though I stay with my family, but I work alone and I spend my weekend alone.
I am speaking from my own experience. Similar to TS, many years ago I went into a relationship with this girl and was dump and to my surprise within a month she quickly move on to someone else (even though she got dump later and call that guy a jerk and been staying single until today, I guess that's karma?). Fast forward until today, same thing happen to one of my female friend (mind you we are not even in a relationship). She will come to you to satisfy her curiosity and all until she found someone else that is much more well verse in the topic of her interest, she just stop talking and even if she speak her topic is always revolving around that guy. I have been following her FB for awhile now, and sooner later the same fate happen to that guy and she quickly move on to another guy and another guy and another. In short, they just never stay with the same guy.

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post Sep 8 2014, 05:40 PM

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much concerned. wow. hodor hodor
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QUOTE(BeastB @ Sep 8 2014, 04:35 PM)
Congratulations...you just found out you were dating a cheap whore.

This is the time to enjoy dumbass....imagine if you ended up marrying her. Dodged a bullet son.
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post Sep 8 2014, 05:41 PM

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QUOTE(archilles89 @ Sep 8 2014, 04:35 PM)
Don't provoke la pitty the ayam.

I have no good advice for you bro since I am also dealing with sort of similar problem. We've been together 5 years liao suddenly break up.
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breakup no sudden one la. its either u at fault or she at fault. just the matter of when you realize , its too late.

hope u feel better mang.
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post Sep 8 2014, 05:42 PM

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QUOTE(Raymond Lam @ Sep 8 2014, 04:32 PM)
Story is like this. I want make it simple because my heart very pain now.

I argued with my gf. Then cool down 1-2 weeks. In between the time she blocked my FB and Call. I suspected something weird actually but didnt bother much.
Then today i used another FB account to login and check her FB to found out that she is having another bf now. My heart suddenly pain till F die.

Few weeks ago we just having intimacy sweetly and good, then argued abit and within few weeks she found another bf secretly. You know how pain is my heart now? What should i do? My heart too pain and geram! How can she like that?
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shes sucking someone new cork everynight. and she open wide for him. ....probably backdoor in the next level....LOL
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post Sep 8 2014, 05:43 PM

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QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Sep 8 2014, 05:39 PM)
The opposite. I am a lonely ranger. Though I stay with my family, but I work alone and I spend my weekend alone.
I am speaking from my own experience. Similar to TS, many years ago I went into a relationship with this girl and was dump and to my surprise within a month she quickly move on to someone else (even though she got dump later and call that guy a jerk and been staying single until today, I guess that's karma?). Fast forward until today, same thing happen to one of my female friend (mind you we are not even in a relationship). She will come to you to satisfy her curiosity and all until she found someone else that is much more well verse in the topic of her interest, she just stop talking and even if she speak her topic is always revolving around that guy. I have been following her FB for awhile now, and sooner later the same fate happen to that guy and she quickly move on to another guy and another guy and another. In short, they just never stay with the same guy.
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Are you going to stay out of relationship forever? Maybe you still haven't found the right one.
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post Sep 8 2014, 05:44 PM

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QUOTE(jimmybcmy @ Sep 8 2014, 05:43 PM)
Are you going to stay out of relationship forever? Maybe you still haven't found the right one.
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I know I want to be with someone but reality is, I found it hard to trust someone.
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post Sep 8 2014, 05:54 PM

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QUOTE(jimmybcmy @ Sep 8 2014, 05:36 PM)
Wait till you meet the right one, life is full of surprise..don't give up easily.
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I hope so, but susah la bro, my office all makcik pakcik. Nak jumpa orang baru macam mana....

QUOTE(Opakut Fan @ Sep 8 2014, 05:37 PM)
Life still goes on, get another GF.
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Susah bro, refer above.

QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Sep 8 2014, 05:39 PM)
The opposite. I am a lonely ranger. Though I stay with my family, but I work alone and I spend my weekend alone.
I am speaking from my own experience. Similar to TS, many years ago I went into a relationship with this girl and was dump and to my surprise within a month she quickly move on to someone else (even though she got dump later and call that guy a jerk and been staying single until today, I guess that's karma?). Fast forward until today, same thing happen to one of my female friend (mind you we are not even in a relationship). She will come to you to satisfy her curiosity and all until she found someone else that is much more well verse in the topic of her interest, she just stop talking and even if she speak her topic is always revolving around that guy. I have been following her FB for awhile now, and sooner later the same fate happen to that guy and she quickly move on to another guy and another guy and another. In short, they just never stay with the same guy.
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Sounds like you want to stay single.
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post Sep 8 2014, 05:55 PM

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QUOTE(roadrunner0 @ Sep 8 2014, 05:49 PM)
Are you even listening to the advise ?

Look at the bigger picture, you are here to seek for a good wife. Apparently she is not, if she the one she will not leave you in the first place.

Few year down the road, you will be laughing at yourself that you spend too much time in heart breaking condition.

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A lot of people say this. But I'm still sad like this yo.. cry.gif
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post Sep 8 2014, 05:58 PM

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QUOTE(archilles89 @ Sep 8 2014, 05:54 PM)
Sounds like you want to stay single.
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The recent incident really made me feel like it.
One small argument and they decided you're a jerk, cut all contact and move on to someone else.
Usually when you have a different set of opinion, you accept their thought with an open heart right? But female they just can't tolerate someone that speak otherwise. They are thinking with their feeling & they don't reason in a logical way.
I am getting so tire of it.

This post has been edited by ListenToTheWind: Sep 8 2014, 05:59 PM
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post Sep 8 2014, 05:59 PM

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QUOTE(archilles89 @ Sep 8 2014, 05:55 PM)
A lot of people say this. But I'm still sad like this yo..  cry.gif
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post Sep 8 2014, 06:00 PM

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QUOTE(Raymond Lam @ Sep 8 2014, 05:59 PM)
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Don't worry, this sad feeling will pass soon. Time heals every wound.
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post Sep 8 2014, 06:01 PM

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QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Sep 8 2014, 05:58 PM)
The recent incident really made me feel like it.
One small argument and they decided you're a jerk, cut all contact and move on to someone else.
Usually when you have a different set of opinion, you accept their thought with an open heart right? But female they just can't tolerate someone that speak otherwise. They are think with their feeling & they don't reason in a logical way.
I am getting so tire of it.
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If I speak, it wouldn't be fair because I am heartbroken. But I see your point. It's when you thought you found that someone, and even she said herself you are the one. And she let go of you with such little effort. I am feeling angry, sad, devastated, all at the same time.

Life's a b!tch.
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post Sep 8 2014, 06:06 PM

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Heart pain see loktor laaaa ***... open thread in /k for wut??
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post Sep 8 2014, 06:08 PM

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Here all doctor wannabe you dare consult?

RIP common sense
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post Sep 8 2014, 06:10 PM

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Plenty of other fish in the sea.

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post Sep 8 2014, 06:15 PM

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QUOTE(ray123 @ Sep 8 2014, 06:10 PM)
Plenty of other fish in the sea.

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post Sep 8 2014, 06:16 PM

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just go get drunk, get laid and move on

forget revenge, its troublesome and maybe got blowback
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post Sep 8 2014, 06:16 PM

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QUOTE(Raymond Lam @ Sep 8 2014, 06:15 PM)
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If she can forget about you in two weeks, she ain't worth much. Move on.

Don't forget to move on coolly though. Use a different number, give her a call and confirm it's off. Then say something like "Well, it's been nice. Bye".

Remember to hang up before your voice cracks.

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