well, having sex before/after is totally same. once having sex, you'll get pregnant if didn't wear armor. so, once the bullet hits in, human will come out. once another human appear, expenses will increase..... so, if you got $$$$, you can have sex before marriage. if you dont have $$$$better dont think about it cause no $$$ can't buy condom.... can't buy condom, can't breed your sperm....

i blame the media, the messages we receive from most TV shows and movies these days tells us "everyone is doing it." so lets do it!

but it all comes to moral values, ppl cant stop u from having sex, even the poor parents who didnt realise that their daughters/sons is having sex right under their nose.

my honest advise, if u wanna do it, do it with a lil bit a respect to ur body and soul. dont just do it to satisfy others or brag about it at the end of the day. just ask urself "do i really want to do it?"

for me its fine,if both want it no prob 1,make sure take precautions b4 goin that far,must make sure brain is on the head nt at ahem ahem place.Think b4 doin it.Btw my advise sex will make ur bond with ur partner stronger/could also destroy it.Better be casual.

This post has been edited by S4PH: Jan 31 2008, 03:04 PM

hmmm.... i agree to that.... but some ppl dont even know the problem once having sex. they'll know and regret once do it. so, i can't give any comment at it...

usually sex screws everything up unless she/he is a f**k buddy

now 2008 d lol.. no more 2007.. so having sex is normal d..

Depends lah.
If mutual consent and no complain,
why not having some fun and the same time understand your partner more?
Malaysians always have the perception that sex is always bad things.
Actually it is one part of our life and sometimes we just need it.

Sex is a normal thing in our life. the problem is getting pregnant and need to feed another child. if you've became a dad at age of 15, how are you going to feed your child? ask your mum and dad to feed it for you and how are you going to get the capital to marry that girl? ask your dad to borrow you some capital??? it's not wrong to have sex if you have enough capital and food supply for your next generations.......

how to look through out a gal is virgin or nt ?!!

look dee see no road... ask....

*** , paiseh mar if wan ask =X , how to look it out ya

IMHO, there's no way to SEE if the girl is virgin or not..just as there's no way to SEE if a guy is virgin or not also mar..

if you wanna know the girl is virgin anot JUST look at her P***Y whether theres is a piece of thin skin covering the hole anot ( called HYMEN ) donno then go google it if theres no hymen means the girl have been ehem or masturbating herself or break during intensive exercising ~~ and if you see blood flowing out from her P***Y when you F**K her then you are lucky coz your GF is Virgin and you have just break her virginity lol

lolx , i mean nt inside da hole ... outside outside~

come on lah, there's no way to see from the outside, and y do u care if she's a virgin or not, if she's a good person and loves u and not everyday go clubbing one. the most important point is her character, and if she loves u or not. if she's a virgin and her character is not that good and doesn't suit your requirements, what's the point? (except that u're a playboy and wanna fxxk every girl u see)

this year already 2008 loh, who cares about virginity!!!!!!!

nowadays evyone talking abt sex, sex and sex


MEANS THAT"S LIFE WITHOUT SEX IS SUCK!!!

yea! lif emust full with sex hahahahahaha
joking =X

ooo F**K every girl you see~ i like that statement

did u like got rejected while trying to do your girl?

seriously. i feel bad for you.