u couple only to have sex???wrong la...couple from the heart..if sumone really care n love u,sex is not a big matter..after get marry u can have what u want.no one can prevent u..sumtimes sumthing good we must wait to get it....THINK UR FAMILY LA BE4 DO IT..if sumthing bad happen???how about ur future n ur family??ecs if the guy dun want to take his responsibility..how??haha

In my opinion, pre-marital sex is fine as long as it's 'one to one' and the reason of doing it is because of passion of love. The word 'make love' is not simply created by man of God, the word "sex" actually means making or enhancing your 'LOVE' with your better half.

I'm very disappointed with the youngster nowadays cause they take it as pleasure and because of curiosity. What so curious about since everyone will have chance to experience it at least once in a lifetime with the one they choose (love with). We are civilize people and every act we do have their own meanings.

And it's fine to communicate with your body when you are in love with that person cause word can't say it all. That's what we call 'Body Language'. The most basic things human does since they exist.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers...

hmmm... u've been a kid b4... i'm sure there were lots of stuff u wondered as a kid... it's juz tat some ppl got wider area of curiousity... but then in general... everybody is curious... when u experience unusual jam in some certain road u will be curious to know wat happen... when u see police covering some area u will be curious and some of u might actualy be anxious to see some dead body...

sex is not the only object of curiousity...
so u asking "wat so curious about..." is juz 2 lame... cuz everybody gets curious...
rite...?

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Added on January 12, 2008, 12:31 amwell... u gotta get exposed to the real world man... it's rojak world out there and as the malay saying "macam-macam adak...." applies to human behaviours...

This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Jan 12 2008, 12:31 AM

I think you never seen outside world before (no offence ), curiosity is common in asian ppl only.So in general, as an mature adult male/female, we know what it is and why it happen.

"sex is not the only object of curiousity...
so u asking "wat so curious about..." is juz 2 lame... cuz everybody gets curious...
rite...?"
That's why I said nowadays many ppl still thinking childishly. Maybe because asian country not expose enough on this kind of things. When you grow up in an environment feel with passion, you won't think that it's new to you anymore.

I second that.

Girls, you better think it over and over again before giving your virginity to your guy cos you will be attached so very much to your guy. It is heart wrenching if you were to lose it to a guy who merely wants to do a virgin. Make sure the guy appreciates and love you because a girl is most vulnerable the first few times of sex.

nowaday all girls which is always hang out hard to find virgin d 1 le..
some girl even just 13years old already lost her virgin..
younger girls are more easy to cheated as my opinion..
those "ah tu ah kao" mouth very sweet untill can get them on bed.. i dont know y they r so pro or they use bad skills.. like using pill or anything etc..

but sometimes girls are more wild than a guy.. depends on the condition also ler..

How many girls reading this thread had pre marital sex?

I think that society now is so corrupted. Sometimes people, especially guys, do it because of the pressures that they receive from their friends who actually did it. I find it sad, really. People don't have self respect for themselves nowadays.

hm i guessed so many had pre-matrital sex for nowadays gal.

u can observe it fr so many shopping complexes all secondary skools students oledi dating.

Dating and having pre marital sex is entirely different actually. There's no harm in dating. Just boy meets girl, girl meets boy, like each other, date.

Pre marital sex might be due to high and raging hormones

true..
because anyhow.. guy loses nothing in the end no matter how you look at it..

cannot say like that also.. myself, i had heard few stories from friend and relatives..
some guys is bad luck coz met cheap girl and the girl already pregnant but the guy doesnt know bout that and the girl trying to have sex with the guy and let the guy hold the responsibility.. many this case happens especially for those clubber girls.. all go out and play sex after drunk and finally found out they already pregnant and they hardworking search for a guy that they likes and they try to get them and finally the guys which is not guilty have to be the child's dad becoz they didnt even know that girl was pregnant not because of their mistake.

poor guy, well, its life. watch u back all the time

don't find girl from club if u want a virgin..

wait outside sekolah kebangsaan if want virgin?

no offence taken and i hope wat i say won be an offence to u 2....

Malaysia is a Muslim country and any "steamy" scenes and actions are prohibited... but any clubbers will feel tat it's normal cuz it's everywhere for them... i'm not talking bout myself or any specific any1... i'm talking bout malaysian in general...

*about me never seen the outside world b4... i dunno... perhaps u r rite... perhaps u haven't seen the world inside out yet... cheers... i've been raised at the other side of the world u r facing...

AhahahAHAHAHAHHahahah!!!! Where the hell did you learn that crap????

outside sekolah kebangsaan also susah mau dapat lo.. if u wan guarantee 100% pure virgin, i can intro u go to any hospital and make booking.. tons of mummy outside there is going to give birth to their child..

That... somehow sounds disgusting....

In the outside world still got many virgins what... Me and my circle of friends still are hahahaha.

wanna meet up?...lolz