um currently 26 and getting merid next year

Monthly income RM3211.25(after EPF and SOCSO)

makan2-not fix.i makan whatever i like
house rent - 300
car- 400
petrol - 150 (i use bike to work. rarely by car.)
parent - 200
aunty - 200(as my aunty is the one who raised me from form 1 to 5)
internet and phone - 150

total 1250 without makan2 as i dont fix what amount for makan.

let say i wanna save rm1000-1500 per month? can survive with that?
this one didnt include entertainment. guess i need to cut entertainment until next year

This post has been edited by kaizor11: Apr 18 2014, 10:32 AM

your GF 0 maintenance fee?

bini ko tinggal mana bro , ke bagi mkn maggie je hari2 ?

currently not so much.as she currently final year of USM in kelantan as im in KL.

mana kawin lagi bro

Boleh, tapi tak cukup. Sedia 30k-40k untuk kawin.

rumah tarak, kerata belum habis settle
mau kahwin?

Lupa pulak hantaran 15k..
mati la

rumah boleh sewa..kalo mau tunggu bli rumah smpai bila pon tak kawin.

This post has been edited by kaizor11: Apr 18 2014, 10:07 AM

simpan duit untuk kawin

stupidest thing to do

thing is, if you think about it the whole marriage thing is a scam

stupid girls falling for it

Aku dalam proses tu. ETA bulan 9. Kurang lagi 20k.

next year u kawen?
mcm xsempat je kumpul duit...
yg mn blh cut...
u cut la...

dia mintak hantaran brapa bro? 15k?

tu pon belum kira cincin belian n mas kawin...

lu punya kenduri lagi...

mau hangus 30k lebih...



This post has been edited by almertfrenzy: Apr 18 2014, 10:11 AM

yo..15k la.ikkutkan dia nk taruk 10k ja.tp parent dia nk 15
nk buat mcm mana

This post has been edited by kaizor11: Apr 18 2014, 10:11 AM

next year n plg awal bulan 9 la

can...1k per month...by next year you get 12k+

hantaran 15k?! glup. ni campur gst ke apa? now that i think about it. bersyukurlah hantaran aku tak byk camtu.

tapi nak kawin punya pasal. aku end up buat personal loan. tapi nasihat aku, jangan buat bro. hahaha. leceh komitmen 5 tahun tu. tapi alhamdulillah. rezeki lepas kawin murah bro. sgt2 murah. aku doakan semoga ko pun dpt yg sama.

planning 1k per month min la..if can save more i will save more.hopefully its is enough

This post has been edited by kaizor11: Apr 18 2014, 10:14 AM

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This post has been edited by kaizor11: Apr 18 2014, 10:14 AM

Gila. My pay at 6k to 7k pun tak cukup. You still want to marry. Good luck to you.

bakal wife org mana ni? amboih takleh nego.

kalu ikutkan how much ur sallary pn tk ckup

gila la 3k oredi mau kahwin...

You will probably go bankrupt if you get divorced

enough if u wat sederhana sje ..x perlu membzir ...ikut kemampuan u

ada org ckp buat loan..tp aku pkir kalo boleh tknak la kawin buat loan

1k-1.5k lu saving kira bley la kot until tahun depan...

ni kira ikat perut habis...

org selangor bro..parent cakap dia daughter bakal doktor.so cannot murah2..i kenot say anything la

This post has been edited by kaizor11: Apr 18 2014, 10:17 AM

better kawin la dri terjebak dosa kelak

1 more thing...save so hard for a wedding not worth

i would take the money go honey moon better...if you got no friend or close relative la

Struggle betol nk mendirikan masjid ni

30k consider cheap (somemore hantaran 50% ..can claim back in future)

according to chinese standard

congrats on ur plan getting merrid. elakkan maksiat, kahwin itu mudah. kalau niat baik tuhan tunjuk jalan.

dalam ASB 0 ke? nanti dapat dividen and bos bagi bonus lagi cukup la tu.

my fren next month kawin hanran 8k je.untungla

stendet dilemma laki melayu.

my basic expenses per mo oredi 3k...hw u can kahwin i also kenot brain...

my girl's dad ask when we wanna kahwin n i told her 'tunggu bisnis abg maju dulu"

aiyooo ...... wtf la parent like that ..can i ask u smthng ... no offence bro but is it her parent org kampung one

Better tunggu 2 tahun lg bro..

hopefully bonus will help la.last dec got 2 month bonus for 2013..hopefully this year same la

Tahniah bro!
jangan takut pasal duit ni. rezeki lepas kahwin ni lain skit and boleh elak dosa
bersusah-susah dahulu, bersenang-senang kemudian!

pancut dalam.
preganat.
free.

that's the problem with parent nowadays. the higher the certificate the higher their demand
what's the problem if she's going to be a doctor, a clerk etc in the future got to do with the hantaran amount?

Its all about status

but anyway best of luck bro

stay in kg.but her father work as MAS engineer/technician.not so sure

glupp. doktor betul ke doktor phd? iskk.. try ar nego leklok. ckp ngan dia kalau bayo mahal2 nanti anak ko tak reti masak tak reti kemas umah. takleh beranak apa guna. hahaha. kasar giler. anyway. biar ko mampu. bukan sampai biar ko merana nak kumpul duit tu.

yesza.

patotla mau cepat kahwin. ok ini wa approve. xde duit xpe stay wit family first

duit hantaran tu parent dia mintak untuk majlis kenduri dia nanti. bukan depa nak p joli pon huhu..

doktor betul la.currently in final year MEDIC at usm kelantan

save hard u only can barely kahwin..but jangan lahir anak ya.
takde 1m jangan ingin anak boleh masuk U.

u need to be ostad to lower down the standard price

takut lambat2 doktor lain kebas as im not doktor anyway

i think kelantan expenditure for kawin still so small, why pening kepla. anyway she not a real doctor until complete after so many years in hospital.

make sure focus to perkembangkan ur career/bisnis jgn ingat nk buat anak je. laki kena sukses.

just study in kelantan bro.org selangor

wow much higher income then me

anyway congratulations

boleh bah kalau ko

Biasanya kalau kelantan or kadang2 terengganu duit hantaran akan jadi duit mas kawin....nego la supaya hantaran jadi mas kawin....leh wat modal lepas bernikah tu tapi bergantung pada wife kau la..sebab itu duit die

Haihhhhhh...berzina lebih murah sekarang daripada bernikah....

Nasihat aku...jangan ambik loan....tgk cite pramle bujang lapok....anak da 3 pon duit ceti tak abis bayau...hahahahah

This post has been edited by lastongas: Apr 18 2014, 10:31 AM

Hantaran ni biasa brapa percent dpt kat bini?

Kalau byk aku suggest wang hantaran ko tipu sket. Pinjam dkt sedara bahagian utk bini ko pastu bila dh kawin byr balik lump sum.

Pastu byr instalments kat bini bulan2 lepas kawin

kalau dh jodoh xde kemana

lgpun, lepas kawin sok tanggungjawab termasuklah bab kewangan semua kt bahu hang tau...bkn bini 'bakal' doktor hang

tkpe la.atlest boleh share expenditure or wanna buy house later. if she doesnt want to share aku ketuk kang

extra each month go genting try luck , so let say 12 month , must have luck in one of it

lel

later tk sempat kawin .lel

Ini macam jual anak je

aku suggest kau buat kenduri budget rather than focusing kumpul duit banyak2 then grand wedding

sebenarnya nanti lepas kawin lagi banyak nak pakai duit, kalau grand wedding lepas tu takde duit, fuu payah

kawin lari je.....da menikah baru bagitahu and register...

kna jimat la..bertunang last month pn aku hbs hampir 4k

Every year the expenses naik. Last time got rm700-800 per table, now 1k+, next year naik lagi. Fuhh

Ts, ur gf baru graduate then wan kahwin dy?

try la buat bro, aku cabar kau
sekali dapat perempuan lawa seksi pandai masak pandai mengaji, mak bapak dia kasi hantaran 20k + kenduri 30k pun kau sanggup ambik
ingat boleh tahan?

jgn kawen lagi la.

tak cukup tu.

ramai lelaki muslim lupa. dah kahwin, kena bg nafkah kat bini. kena bg duit untuk beli keperluan harian macam makanan, pakaian, etc. nafkah & duit belanja tak sama. ramai igt dua benda ni sama.

memang la, bini tu boleh setuju utk sama2 byr bil bulanan. ini kes bini pon kerja. tapi, kalau dia kerja, pastu dia halalkan duit dia utk buat belanja keperluan harian. nafkah bini tu, masih kena kasi. bukannya buat2 lupa, tak kasi.

tu baru utk bini, kalau dah beranak, duit utk anak lagi. mcmana?

kawin la.because we already in relationship for more than 5years
lama2 nanti tak elok pulak

4k? gila lah, saving2 la sikit

jangan ambik hutang untuk kawin
dah le riba, then nanti beban nak bayar makin teruk. raja sehari hamba sedekad

QFTW

slowtalk dgn gf, minta dia sapot part of this (kalau nak rahsiakan dari mak pak pun boleh). instead of kahwin soon after grad, kahwin a year or two after. both sama2 kumpul duit. dia cover sikit kos kenduri, senang sikit cerita.

dan jangan sekali-kali buat pinjaman peribadi. dahlah pinjaman kereta rm400 sebulan (gile apa dengan gaji 3k, rm300 per month boleh la). try mintak loan dari aunty dan parents. slowtalk lama2 boleh la. tetamu diorang jugak yang banyak datang nanti.

ye la.sewa van pn 900 bawak sedara2 datang.aku org kedah.dtg selangor bawak dorg kna la support.kng dorg tknk datang

Parking for future reference

TS, cut your credit card now. Dont be tempted to use CC or personal loan to kahwin. Many people ot themselves in deep dung becos of this. Kahwin mau glamour konon, raja sehari merana seumur hidup!

my parent obviously can help.but i will only ask my father help as last resort.

cukup tu simpan 1300-1500/month, jiwa kena kental dengan dugaan masa kumpul duit kahwin ni, gudluck..1 tahun bro..tak lama…haahhahaha..

I saved at least 1k/month, good thing my in-law gave discount for hantaran hehe. My salary about same as yours last year la. I do OT for several months no holiday even in weekends. Cook my own food, good thing i'm not those who goes out for entertainment much.
Only small gathering at my place, no fancy stuff.
Alhamdulillah no need to take loan, else i'd be shitting myself now lel

Btw with that salary, not enough for 2 people, good luck.

baru tunang je dah 4k, kalau anak orang kaya mak ayah sponser takpe
nak belanje ikut kemampuan ah, kalau tak mampu cut cost je, bende lain kasi burn semua, sedara tu nak datang meh la, tak nak datang sudah, apa orang nak kata lantak lah, point asal nak jimat untuk "ada duit" lepas kawin, bukan "ketika"

need 100k
mana family nak letak muka kalau kenduri cheapskate

said all makcik

kalo dorg tk dtg tkkn family aku 2 3 or je dtg time tu?klo ikkutkan diri sndri mmg tkpe.tp aku kna la jga air muka family gak.

Kena spend 50k untuk beli rumah......kete etc

ini typical mentality org melayu. org nak kahwin. dia nak dtg. pastu mintak sponsor minyak + toll. baik tak yah dtg.

dah la bro. seriously. ure not ready for it.

haha.true.kalo dekat mmg aku tk sponser.ni sbb jauh.tkkn aku nk suruh mak ayah aku je dtg time bertunang?malu la.mana nk letak muka kt bakal mertua nnt

Tu isteri mesti susah ikut lu...
Tapi kalau isteri competition banyak hebat kat luar,
U grab dulu la

better to have a house before getting married. 27 is quite early for a man imo. plus your wife to be is only final year in USM. she can wait till you're 30-ish.

daripada ramai2 tu cuba pi tanya depa hantaran depa berapa?
habaq mai sini berapa average hantaran perempuan sekarang...
mai sini gebang ja watpa

still have no exact date yet..earliest next year on SEPT. kalo tk ckup duit delay la

masa aku tunang dulu sedara datang sendiri, dekat sebab negeri jiran
tapi kalau tak datang pon rombongan dah 2 kereta = 6 orang
kau tunang 3 orang, kau mak ayah pon apa salahnya

nak senang cerita melei kawin mahal sebab nak jaga muka sangat
terima hakikat tebalkan je muka, abaikan je apa orang kata
yang penting lepas kawin nak kene hidup jugak

1st. financially. ure not ready.

2nd. with this type of mentallity from your family. u'll be burning ur own pocket for something u dont have to pay at the 1st place.

malu? air muka?

haih. again. metallity org melayu.

kalau nak procedd jugak, despite not financially ready. buat yg wajib. nikah dan kenduri mengikut kemampuan diri. bukan sampai kena sponsor org kampung, sedara mara jauh utk dtg kenduri, semata2 nak jaga air muka.

set your priorities right 1st.

tak caya. proceed la. dah sudah semua nikah kenduri nanti. ko gak yg takde duit.

dah selalu dgr cerita gini. kenduri bagai nak rak. sanggup hutang sbb nak kahwin. dah selesai semua. baru ada akal. hutang keliling pinggang. masa tu, ada sedara mara ko nak dtg tolong ko langsai hutang?

kaizor, i'm from perlis fyi
mana ada sapot sesen pun diorang datang
diorang bukan orang kaya pun, tapi diorang tau gak kita ni bukan orang kaya nak sapot depa mai.
still datang la jugak dalam 10-20 org hat yang biasa turun KL, termasuk wakil keluarga kepada yg duk perlis tadi

mmg la.kalau ikkutkan aku pn tk kisah.
900 je sewa van inclusive of toll+driver and minyak.so aku tk kisah la.

haih. malas advice dah. ni mmg nak korek kubur sendiri.

ada ke aku ckp nk kawin grand?tkde kan

+1

Meleis ramai makcik2 kepoh. Pakcik2 selamba je.

org2 tua.mmg macam tu.

mmbr sekolah lama aku buat loan 80k kawin.lel.
smpai umo 50++ bayar utang

rather than save 1k, buy a house. that way ur money value will increase. if u simpan later ringgit drop gg lor