Thanks to all advise... Really appreciate it.
@quiksilver : I'm a girl, my honey is a girl too.. get it?

@sky : Yes, I feel that loving someone too much end up hurting each other too. But you can't control love right? Well, I'll just do my best to make her happy.

@mandy : I have sit down many times to discuss, end up in argument.. so rather dun wanna discuss. We understand each others feeling but can't help but care too much until we both lose patience and argue.. sigh... I'm still quite lost...

Well...lazy to quote and i think noneed to quote also...

Easier way to understand is... im from KL,he is from ipoh,Our thinking are different,and also the enviroment we grow up also different and of cos family member's thinking also different... For them,KL gal very terible 1 and also quite geng in the sense of using ppl and bla bla bla only those bad things... But i did try to cope with everything and show that i aint those sit at home and take money and spend and even house hold chores also lazy to do... But there r still will b some problem as .... for me,my family we all used to b independant and my mum doesnt really care us much after secondary skool over... Cos she control us very tight and treat us very firm since small till secondary skool and after that for her and for us,we already know how to think and know how to difference what is right and what is wrong so she just let us to b ... and also since small i used to do my things alone and i really rarely talk to family member and always in my own room where for his family side is not wrong... Seriously i have communication problem with family... i can tell you guys what is in my mind but i can hardly tell them about all this... Also for my mum she let me to do watever i wan but with the terms and condition where i shouldnt let her worry that much already mean i must know how to take k of myself when i get my own freedom... So there are always when hav some problem like i get robbed or something like that... As long as its not taht serious and i din get any loss other than money,i wont let her know to make her worry that much bcos i know she is just same like me... She will always keep those bad things in mind and always b negative thinking and worry and worry and worry.... But for his family side this is wrong but they dont know about the terms and condition in btw me and my mum... But this is still a small thing lar...

What so ever... There r also something that happened make the family feel unsecure with our relationship but for that i wouldnt talk much cos its related to him...i hope u guys would understand... Communication is quite important as sometimes when u just lack of it... it will lead u into a big problem....I realise something that is quite true... Girls will always hav to change and mayb girls are more easier to change and cope with the new enviroment... Willing to change or mayb canot say change but just let myself to learn more things by another way which i never use it at all... I know that he is reading what im typing here and i got no idea what would he feel when he read all this... But at least i know that i would feel a little bit much better cos at least i get a place for me to release out whatever in my heart... At least i know that im steping out step by step to walk into his family and i really hope his family will open the door for me... This is aint a small thing nor big thing... I still love his mum as much as i can ... I was so happy when he told me that his mum to ask us ( which mean include me ) to take k and beware whenever we go out or work or whatever... at least i know that in her heart,she still remember me... Tats really a happy thing for me... For this coming mooncake festival i got her some mooncakes and also some special mooncake for her to try where she cant get it in ipoh and hope that she will like it... Also planning that when she is coming down to kl that time if got time will make something new for her to try and also try my cooking skill..Whenever i think of all this... I really feel very happy...

I remember that some told me b4 that y should i change?He loves me as who i am and me and his family should b tolerate with each other but not letting them to bully me and i keep on changing for them....Starting,i quite agree also,but then slowly I think...Mayb i should b tolerate with them and this is the way that they wan and this is the move that i nid to do where i must let myself to learn more to love them the way they want and the way that they will feel happy... Bcos when u love some1,u will only hope the person u love will b happy...For sure i want to c my dear b happy and also bcos of love him,i love his family as well... and i also hope they will b happy... Starting that time quite difficult and hard to move it bcos its not my lifestyle and also feel a bit uncomfy bcos of u will just feel a bit not like urself... but then slowly ,i feel.... happy?Well ya... at least its not a bad move...

Sorry if my post make any1 of u feel sienz or bored or whatever... but jsut something that i wanted to speak out from my heart   

mandy, this thread is only for LDR couples only ah? i'm not in LDR worr...

Neither am I But I still hang out here.

so am i welcome here?

I'm having a bad case of asthma. Been in oxygen treatment 2 times, neubalizer 2 times, then taken 3 injections. Now the tip of my fingers and toes are numb

i'm coughing cos of the haze also

I have a worrysome or confusing decision to make since it's talking about LDR.
It's about me and my ex Thai gf.

I know it's totally not recommended to try your luck online.Long story about our past also (in fact we were in and out of a relationship twice, and twice she backed out because from what I understand, she is afraid of going deeper into commitment)

I talked to her today, as her pet-bro, and I told her I am planning to goto Bangkok for holiday and to meet up some friends.
And she replied "Do you want to stay with me?"

I asked her "You really want to stay with me?" and she said "Yes,you're my brother, it's not a problem "

Later in the conversation she said to me this:
"if i like you when you in Bangkok i will hold you to be one for me, ok?"
(Constructed as: "If I like you, when you are in Bangkok, I will take you as my bf")

The big question: Should I go back to her, for good? Would she go back to me for real?

I have more 'clues' to this puzzling chat, but I figured this one hints out loud.

Set liao location, ok ma? This restaurant got 2 versions de, one is heaven and one is hell. I prefer the hell wan coz the environment more special, the heaven wan is like eating in hutan

Mandy, so sorry to hear that. Hmm, hope everything's alright.

For me, I don't. My feeling stays strong but hers goes weak.

No 1 read my blog yet ar...?

Mandy ar.. LDR is like that wan.. I also dunno how many times I argued with my honey when we are in LDR. One of us have to be the one who always patch up and cool down.
Mana itu URL? 

Hmm...i dont agree this though.. previously when me and my xbf  having LDR that time...he still have feelings for me but funny things is when it become SDR, it become worse!!

Wow, I missed to many lines. 

Proved that my chinese is real bad. 

Hey, thanks.

Hmm, for your story.. I do really feel sorry for you and somehow, it reminds me of my ex too but, I'll save my part.

If he does really wants to goes off this time (since his feeling fades already), yea.. ending it might be the right choice because it's meaningless to stay in a relationship when one side has started to step a step back or something. I admire your attitude for deciding to end it because in my case, I'm stubborn to stay in it but still fails.

The scar of the crack will forever be remembered, unless, really, he suddenly re-gains the feeling for you in this one week.

I don't know what else to be said. It's always you guys who console me.

Anyway, whatever the result is, I wish you the best.

Perhaps that's the best you can do.

Question in my mind.. Would anyone prefer to love from afar if you got a chance to have love beside you?

hemm.. actually i think it's normal for a guy to get used to that kind of life where he will settle everything by himself and used to the so called 'single life', bcos right now im in this situation as well where my gf is studyin at australia now and im in KL.. it'd been almost 2 years, but of course we did meet up in between, but it's like 1 time in a year.. bcos of our surrounding, we have to get used to it by handling everything by ourselves, and yes, sometimes we might lost the feeling toward each others, but let's just take it as one of the test in LDR. we should be expecting this kind of problems to arise isn't it?

anyway, really hope that u guys don't give up.. if there's true love in between both of you, im sure u guys can overcome this obstacle very soon.. u both are still cooling down? hopefully a suitable decision will be made IMO, his 'losing interest' on you doesn't mean that he doesn't love you anymore, neither he is giving up in this relationship. all de best ya..