From what u described, your husband is an irresponsible jerk. Think again why u married him and maybe that helps. If not sure will divorce...
Try communicate with him...
Good luck
constantly fighting with hubby
constantly fighting with hubby
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Feb 15 2014, 01:25 AM
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From what u described, your husband is an irresponsible jerk. Think again why u married him and maybe that helps. If not sure will divorce...
Try communicate with him... Good luck |
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Feb 16 2014, 01:26 AM
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QUOTE(Yong_5290 @ Feb 15 2014, 06:38 AM) He said she said . U think he's wrong . He think u are wrong . Why dont just be more considerate and talk things out . Its not that his sisters or tthose family member going to stay in your current house forever . So if u guys move out , u will not let his sister or other family member to go your house ? Ermmm, when u did something downright wrong eg having an extramarital affair, it is so wrong to again blame your wife as the cause behind it. If u really did it, admit that it's your mistake like a real man and stop yapping around and said it is the lady's fault. Seriously, where are your balls?Its just for few days and once in a year got cny la come on If your husband want 2nd baby that means he should be financially ready for it . So is it u that make most of the money or him? Marriage need tolerance , understanding and taking a step back. Many home broken because what wife cant give , outside woman can give . So end up husband got girlfie |
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Feb 16 2014, 01:30 AM
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QUOTE(lovely_lace4u @ Feb 13 2014, 09:24 PM) I feel like leaving cuz theres no point tht I come home to face sumbody who no longer appreciate what ive done.. baby was sent to bbsitter day n nite n he refuse to bring baby back even though baby is already 6 months.. I missed my baby so much n suspecting bbsitter is not feeding him well cuz he is not gaining weight fast enuf to be within the normal line.. its already on the yellow line.. tried finding another bbsitter bt cant get as all full.. Also I dont think TS husband is ready to become a dad. There is a lot more responsible rather than only donating a sperm to become a dad. It doesnt mean that if he is FINANCIALLY ready and he can become a dad. Remind u that becoming a dad is totally different from a sperm donor or a sponsorer. In order for a man to become a father, he should be ready psychologically as well. Apparently by leaving his baby most of the time at the nanny and did not consider his wife's opinion of not wanting the 2nd baby is totally WRONG. Now he kept saying want to have 2nd baby!!!.. of cuz I din allow him to touch me as im not ready for 2nd baby.. I wanted age gap of 3 yrs when my 1st baby can take care of hkmself first..im scared as we dont have mil or my mom to take care.. financially wud b burden also.. bt hubby insist to hav 2nd baby.. so we fight again.. I feel sad n angry tht he never see things in my view and jz kept wanting to go his way.. and when I dun agree then it becomes another fight.. Everyday I come home to eat alone for dinner he cum bck at 9 or 9.30.. ive got nobody to talk to.. not even asking me how was my day.. Its really sad tht we r jz married 1yr plus tht we hav so many things to fight about.. I think im gonna slip into depression frm missing my baby to having to face his dirty n unorganised family.. TS, try to talk to your hubby. Refuse to have sex is not an ideal way either. Need to communicate with him. Along the way u will need to be patient and skillfull. As for the CNY family part, try to be patient as it is just temporary... P/s: I am really annoyed by a post earlier. U know who u are. It shows u are just someone insecure and likes to blame others for your own act. I can say u are not a true man but just someone very childish and inconsiderate. Anyway, good luck to u TS, I hope the best for your family. This post has been edited by catherinessc: Feb 16 2014, 01:44 AM |
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