oh ok.
I am not sure why would anyone got freaked out seeing the amount of books that you owned. I believe instead of freaking out , admiring your passion on reading books shall be the correct way to describe such scenarios. Now, what if a person who are not into reading maybe due to lack of disciplines, decides to make reading as part of his hobby after he meet you and both of you are rather close?
To be honest, something we do get influence by people surrounding us. If people like you are surrounding a person who are not into study, sooner or later he will also pick up books and start to read them. Although not all of them are willing to do this, but surely there are someone who willing to pick up reading as a hobby if he really into you.
Actually is not a bad thing, reading together can consider a date. Who said dating can't be done in a library right? When i was in secondary, i used to have such plan of if i am dating, i shall make 1 day of the week as study day, in other word, i and my gf will be studying in library or any other places that are suitable for studies, so that our results shall not be affected by the relationship itself
So let me ask you again, will you consider a man who willing to pick up reading as a hobby and change himself after he meet you?
I can't help but to notice that whenever you talk about a man, you always included appearance in it. Just like you mentioned your 1st crush and the way you describe it and the same goes to Enimo as well. However do bear in mind, a person who loves to read do not guarantee to have a decent characters. Besides that, you shall mentions clearly regarding to your so called requirement aka guidelines, because if i remember correctly , you are pretty firm on your requirements by constantly mentioned that only 2 books , not less and not more. Then now you are telling me that it was merely a guidelines.

I believe is much better to put a person shall read up to 2 books minimum per week.
Seem like you are pretty much prepare for it anyway. Since you able to handle loneliness then i got nothing to say with it

Not having a spouse is not a bad things either. My point of view is just that, instead of focusing on 2 books per week, you shall be focus more on other more realistic criteria haha.
Well, i am sure there are a lot of ktards out there that are way more sensible than i am

Since this is /k/ instead of RWI, where people comes here to relax and to have fun, so this is the reason why most of them prefer to reply your thread in a rather casual way

And the said guideline might just change when I wake up one day and sudden crave for a rempit