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I only date men who read 2 books a week, by NXJ
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SUSNXJ
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Jan 15 2014, 08:46 AM
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QUOTE(pml_318 @ Jan 15 2014, 08:42 AM) Yea right, no1 can be as cool as ur first love, we all get it...tell that to your future husband if you're not a d***, please  It's somewhat a public record, the amount of men I dated. There's a running poll in my office with heavy bets on I won't be in a relationship until after 2015 I'm actually quite forth coming when it comes to these Before a relationship formally begins I always inform about the number of men I have had sex with, my favorite position in bed, and I don't care for foreplay
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SUSNXJ
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Jan 15 2014, 08:49 AM
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QUOTE(Zephyr_Mage @ Jan 15 2014, 08:47 AM) Suka hati dia lah what kind of requirements she wants to set. If you guys just want her to lower her requirements enough to date you, I'd say it is better if you guys started reading more instead.  Otherwise if it just mere butthurt, why bother? Because this is Kopitiam and most of us have anal fissures
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Jan 15 2014, 08:51 AM
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QUOTE(pml_318 @ Jan 15 2014, 08:47 AM) oh sorry, didn't notice, national geograph y ...not so popular i guess  Woi why you make fun of my mispelling The popular stuff are along the lines of Top Gear and FHM
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SUSNXJ
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Jan 15 2014, 09:01 AM
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QUOTE(Zephyr_Mage @ Jan 15 2014, 08:58 AM) Basic male instincts la... but how sure are we that she even meets our standards?  Sadly I don't No angelic or devilish pretty face No curvy body I got into relationship by relentless pesking after I identify a target
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SUSNXJ
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Jan 15 2014, 09:06 AM
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QUOTE(Zephyr_Mage @ Jan 15 2014, 09:01 AM) But why are we so judgmental of people we don't know? Could be stemming from our own inferiority complex. Are you enjoying the attention so far?  Immensely First time a thread of mine went more than 2 pages
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SUSNXJ
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Jan 15 2014, 09:07 AM
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QUOTE(Zephyr_Mage @ Jan 15 2014, 09:04 AM) Hmm... no pretty face + no body + throws herself at men. Pretty sure you're lying about something. Either about your looks, or about the quality of men you date.  It is true The idea is to convince him my book reading is sexier than how I look like Once the idea get across it's mostly managing expectations
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SUSNXJ
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Jan 15 2014, 09:07 AM
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QUOTE(Hamsapguy @ Jan 15 2014, 08:59 AM) 2 books a week........too much in short period, need to work too. how bout those who reads 2 books in a month? *points ownself Title of the most recent book you read?
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SUSNXJ
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Jan 15 2014, 09:14 AM
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QUOTE(empyreal @ Jan 15 2014, 09:07 AM) personally, i dont think meeting a guy who reads two books a week would be difficult - it kinda depends on what circles you hop about in. the rich kids tend to keep themselves up to date with the latest novels, those in the professions follow the publications of their interests, etc. depends on the job too. if youre an analyst, you're going to be reading more than two publications a day, not a week. It's mostly an indication of varieties in activities one keep up with If he reads 70 publications a week, he won't be interested in dating If he read 7 paragraphs a week, he won't be interested in book hunting with me
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SUSNXJ
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Jan 15 2014, 09:16 AM
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QUOTE(Zephyr_Mage @ Jan 15 2014, 09:13 AM) What's your success rate?  Yeah, if she just goes on yapping about reading books... I can imagine how it will bore me to death. I'm sure she hears this line a lot - "Can we just f***?"  5 men so far, longest duration is sixteen months, shortest should be just short of 3 months All the time, they be like "man I'm hungry let's eat and f***" whenever I want to watch the sun sets
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SUSNXJ
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Jan 15 2014, 09:25 AM
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QUOTE(empyreal @ Jan 15 2014, 09:21 AM) you're assuming that peopl take a long time to finish a book. let's say a fella reads 3 books (that he takes just 1 day to finish them all) and spends the other 6 days to do other activities such as hiking, running, socialising etc. would he be out of your parameters? just saying that setting a kinda arbitrary rule (based on - as your story goes - only one positive observation) may not be wise As you said, it is arbitrary I arbitrarily approved eligibility of Emino some time last night If something different comes along, say, a savant in video consumption that adheres to my idea of a thinking man, I don't mind arbitrarily changing the guidelines But books should take precedence simply because of my life and job. What is the point if he can't accept the fact that I will inevitably spend more time curating than smooching with him?
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Jan 15 2014, 09:30 AM
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QUOTE(spacelion @ Jan 15 2014, 09:29 AM) you guys are overanalyzing the book requirement. This is Kopitiam and most of us have PhD in psychology and psychiatry
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SUSNXJ
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Jan 15 2014, 09:32 AM
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QUOTE(skywardsword @ Jan 15 2014, 09:22 AM) Books are great learning tools. Text that are organised and conceptualized to teach, to impart greater knowledge, are easy and at the same time hard to come by. However with the amount of distractions in current society, it is harder and harder to come by habitual readers that actually remembers what they read months ago, however there are some in /k. From what I understood, you are interested in people who seek out knowledge. Does not stick to you like moth to butter. Gives you freedom to explore. <sounds a bit like Vivi> Instead of abstinence and post marital sex, you would not deter yourself from knowledge of intimacy. Thanks. Your post makes me want to examine myself more, to understand why I am here at /k. You are mostly correct Except the freedom part. Instead of exploring the wide wild world I'll be with books for most part of my life. If he can't accept that, then it's impossible to be together
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Jan 15 2014, 09:38 AM
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QUOTE(satan6666 @ Jan 15 2014, 09:33 AM) talk so much but no drills So big liao still want people spoon feed Just look through the 30 pages and you'll find people trading my photos in private message
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Jan 15 2014, 09:42 AM
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QUOTE(jason991 @ Jan 15 2014, 09:41 AM) I have extreme prejudice against anyone named Jason, real or nicked
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Jan 15 2014, 09:45 AM
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QUOTE(+3kk! @ Jan 15 2014, 09:43 AM) 2 books a wweek?! hell, if lad likes thick and hard to read books then gg liao He probably fap to thick books more than women
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Jan 15 2014, 09:52 AM
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QUOTE(pgsiemkia @ Jan 15 2014, 09:49 AM) I'll rather stick to my books than you. Books provide me with an escapism to wherever I want while in reality you would only hinder my imagination by grounding me. What I provide is the opposite of grounding I'll be happy to read a book in the park while you escape to whatever book world in your room
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Jan 15 2014, 09:54 AM
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QUOTE(Zephyr_Mage @ Jan 15 2014, 09:53 AM) Whoa every week got exam... stress sia.. kesian her bf  No wonder relationships can't last long  I tend to read what he was reading So it will be obvious when he can't form an opinion about said book
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Jan 15 2014, 09:56 AM
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QUOTE(Hamsapguy @ Jan 15 2014, 09:53 AM) Mitch Albom - Timekeeper Vikas Swarup - The Accidental Apprentice Softcore fictioneer, I see Any other genre?
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Jan 15 2014, 10:05 AM
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QUOTE(Zephyr_Mage @ Jan 15 2014, 10:01 AM) ok la you passed the first screening... Please wait for appointment for 2nd interview  Then you interrogate him why he's lying about reading?  I don't have to When he can't answer the questions he should have some guilt for lying I will acknowledge his lying by changing the topic after seconds of awkward silence, thus reprimanding him without ruining his actual manhood
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Jan 15 2014, 10:06 AM
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QUOTE(aquavit @ Jan 15 2014, 09:57 AM) TS, is there a single book that has impacted you the most? The Bible Best fiction ever More gore and sex than Game of Thrones
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