um i don't really like asking for help
but i'm kinda running out of idea. just how do you get girls to reply or add you

won't a simple " hi wanna chat" or hi! would do?

Put up ur own picture.
If u not very handsome then don't aim high

Of course it won't do.
Girls want to feel important.
Write something longer or quirky or funny or if you cant do funny, try sounding a lil more sincere.

'I know that you might just dismiss my request but please give me a chance and you won't regret it for sure.'

'give me 5 mins.' then you go on introducing urself using the most interesting approach.

yeah i've done that.



umm there are limit of letters you can put in the greeting
there was once i plan to wrote " hi are you free to tal.....can even put the " K " in
so how am i gonna write this

thanks alot i really appreciate it

hey um using the option " people nearby " can already rite if i wanna find a friend?

hmm...wasn't aware of that o.o
i guess u can use other ways of saying hi then?
if there is a limit in characters for the greeting,
then the best bet will be to put an awesome pic of urself
if u hav an awesome pic,it's hard to go wrong in getting attention hahaah

or maybe you should search for a date elsewhere...love classifieds or sth?

cannot just write" hi, can i add u as friend?"

This post has been edited by LeonOni: Dec 28 2013, 05:57 PM

block terus
i kena many time
usually i will stalk their profile then talk about her interest, she will reply me

1. Put your most handsome photo
2. Say Hi or anything. If the girl accept or reply back then just chat normally
3. Chat more and get to know each other more alot and longer only ask her out

I don't like if someone just add me then suddenly ask me out immediately. I'm not the type that will meet people I don't know well

This post has been edited by Strawberry<3: Dec 28 2013, 08:31 PM

I second that. Put the best pic of yourself. Be honest to yourself, If you know you are below average, then please please don't put a selfie of yourself naked or half naked or i don't know, trying to act cool or yada yada (list goes on).
Put a pic of yourself with a bunch of friends or a pic taken by other in a suit or something fancy. girls like fancy stuff

don't write something very cheesy like hey beautiful or hey sunshine, stuff like that.. just hey (insert her nickname), do you want to chat? (send them in one line.. try not to send 2 messages at once).
but it varies from person to person.
If she didn't reply, try others then, don't keep on sending her the same messages.. it can get very irritating..

This post has been edited by sochaikeong: Dec 28 2013, 10:13 PM

STH?

i don't have an awesome pic. never like taking photo! T.T


yeah....and how's that working so far?

looky here a stalker........cool! all we need now is a perv to make this thread all so colourful

1. i'm not really a good looking guy. that's why i'm here
2. i'll think about that if she do reply !
3. yeah lets work on that getting a reply first shall we.

ok
go ahead sat hi can ichat with you?
go ahead

go ahead sat??? what?

you know dating use to be simple....back in icq and mirc era
i meet a few good looking girls back then.......regret that i don't have the balls to talk to them face to face, online not problem!
then came friendster......welll still workable.....but ever since facebook pop up and perv roam the cyber world like their own backyard
i've been getting bubkes

so what this?

um i don't really like asking for help
but i'm kinda running out of idea. just how do you get girls to reply or add you

won't a simple " hi wanna chat" or hi! would do?

i still don't get what are you trying to say.....

ok
forget it
you dunno what you are doing that all.

what he trying to say is if a simple hi and the girl not reply mean she is not interested lo

bite ME!

oooo that's not much of a help izzit....

Funny... but it work somehow.... but u got more experience.. can tell more? On how to make a move sifu

that is really not so much of help but i tend to agree with him
if the girl not interested with you then move on. girls are same with men
most of them go for look first

do you want to meet this kind of girl or meet girl sincerely want to be fren