Seems like the usual hot-n-cold treatment, when she is not getting enough attention, she comes for you.

When she is getting enough, she tend to ditch you. That's why you are always hearing bout her talking bout herself because it is indirectly saying, PLEASE GIVE ME MORE ATTENTION!

And then come the usual friendzone scenario, they tend to not date you cause they know, you will always be there for them: doormat.

Whenever shitstorm happens, come back to you for assurance and help them pick up the pieces, once its over, SORRY G2G.

Then again, knowing all these shits, sometimes I find myself stuck into this game also.

F*** me.