QUOTE(Plant @ Oct 25 2013, 01:09 AM)
i took some of u guys advice and did what i had to do.
I talk less to her and focus my work, I don't show much initiation and didn't give her attention at all.
After few days past, she's been all flirty and talks to me very often and she makes a lot of effort to talk to me, but I just gives her normal answer.
Then recently she asked me why I have been so lansi(action), I guess she sees that I talk less to her and my behavior bother her, I just told her that I have been very stress lately, like work.
Then after tmr, My colleague who knows whats going on to between me and her, only he knows, the rest office colleague don't know. He informed me that she asked about me, the way why I had been so strange toward her.
Today, she's been acting even more strange, she's been mimicking my behavior and my colleague point it out to me. Geez, this woman can't let me move on is it?
Also, whenever I have conversation to her.
Me: so, you and your mom go out la?
Her: what do you think? DATING with my mom?
Me: huh? I don't mean that le..
I was like no need to RUB it in my face one...I really got offended. There are number of time where she disregard my feeling... =/
No idea what i need to do... help?
Continue giving her the cold shoulder treatment, but dont ignore her. As in like dont make her a priority, if you have plan go ahead with it rather than be with her.I talk less to her and focus my work, I don't show much initiation and didn't give her attention at all.
After few days past, she's been all flirty and talks to me very often and she makes a lot of effort to talk to me, but I just gives her normal answer.
Then recently she asked me why I have been so lansi(action), I guess she sees that I talk less to her and my behavior bother her, I just told her that I have been very stress lately, like work.
Then after tmr, My colleague who knows whats going on to between me and her, only he knows, the rest office colleague don't know. He informed me that she asked about me, the way why I had been so strange toward her.
Today, she's been acting even more strange, she's been mimicking my behavior and my colleague point it out to me. Geez, this woman can't let me move on is it?
Also, whenever I have conversation to her.
Me: so, you and your mom go out la?
Her: what do you think? DATING with my mom?
Me: huh? I don't mean that le..
I was like no need to RUB it in my face one...I really got offended. There are number of time where she disregard my feeling... =/
No idea what i need to do... help?
Continue doing so until she ask you why you're treating her this way. Then just tell her you're just trying to move on with life (since you already confessed).
Then see what she says.
Oct 25 2013, 12:00 PM

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