Hi dextm I might have a solution for you on this bit. But probably it is dependent on some info from you.
Basically as I understand it, when you shift the gear from D to N etc, the shift indicator in the dashboard goes out where it should normally show P D R N etc?
If that is the case, you likely have a faulty shift inhibitor. It's a small device sitting on top of your gearbox. Actuating the shift lever in the car physically manipulates this switch. What's strange is that the stick can't be shifted. That's something I've never seen before. However, it does seem like the shift inhibitor may have some dirt or bits in there and worth to get it changed.
You could probably drop by a SC and tell them of this issue and ask them to change the shift inhibitor. Takes no more than 30 minutes. No guarantees it will solve the problem, but from your description, it should.
I've seen many others face this issue as well and it seems like the shift inhibitor in our car is somewhat cranky or not very good

QUOTE(dextm @ Oct 21 2014, 01:46 PM)
perror I think I might have the same problem with you. Actually not myself, its my wife that has been having the problem. 1st time it happen when she wanted to reverse park the car. From D to N and wanted to go to R but once it reach N the gear lights just went off and the stick got locked. There was no gear engaged at all and the stick can't be shifted.
2nd time it happens today. Stop at traffic light, put the gear to D from N and again the gear lights went out with the same problem as above.
But once you restart the car it went back to normal. Are we facing the same problem? I do drive the car and never encounter this problem before. Any idea what could have caused it? Car mileage is at 10K now.