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Serious How much dowries you would give, share your expirience

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ymc2303
post Jan 16 2013, 10:12 PM

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is that the best you can do without holding anything back?
ymc2303
post Jan 17 2013, 12:23 PM

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QUOTE(freestyler87 @ Jan 17 2013, 10:08 AM)
Not really,
but i have a family to start up with... i dont want start up with empty pocket...
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how about your bride? she is sitting back and relax while you sweat it out to pay for everything?
ymc2303
post Jan 17 2013, 03:02 PM

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QUOTE(freestyler87 @ Jan 17 2013, 01:10 PM)
she told me she need to give her mom also, which means the another 5k she give her mom from her own pocket,

but if she did that, which means all of her saving gave her mom and empty herself... other those wedding dinner , make up , bro and sister money including the red packet everything by me...

really hate this tradition man...
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its really making this wedding looked that her mom is selling her off at 5k..
if you really hate this kind of set up, why not make effort to discuss this over and over until you get a comfortable compromise where you will no end up being in debts due to this wedding?

 

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