At 1st my dad ask how much my future MIL want, then MIL said " we make decision " (so call cincai )
so my dad said 5k, and my GF said add 1k more to let her mom buy stuff
and my dad agree...

the day after, my gf told me her mom want 10k... and i shocked ! 1st day said cincai, now want 10k, i called MIL asked
can deduct abit? she told me some one (neighbor or ppl she know) married get 10k... and i said,
ppl son might be CEO , im only an Executive level... cannot compare... and she giggle and said im so young... ( FYI im 25, her daughter 27 )
and i said young doesnt meant cannot do anything..

she said every thing price rise...
end up she said we talk about it after she discuss with her husband... so we end the call...

and my gf told me recently due to her brother need money for the school tuition fees,
and im more angry, where can mix 2 things together... trying to take this chance to cut throat?

end up my gf said " nvm then , u paid 5k, i will pay the rest...( from her own saving ) "

suddenly i feel like i dont understand my gf anymore... is she the one that i knew from the day start?
we been together for 3years, being honest with her in everything....

fyi, i have 30k saving
she have 14k saving

any suggestion how?
i dont want end up we married in future i ban her family from my list...