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 My bf has affair, What should i do?

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kent_lau7
post Jan 7 2013, 08:26 AM

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QUOTE(alexng2208 @ Jan 2 2013, 09:20 AM)
10 years and still bf?

get over him, there are other men out there who would give an arm and a leg for you and will not cheat on you, just don't friendzone them smile.gif

cheer up, bf-gf things are not the end of the world. treasure your family, stay close to them, and then consult them.

i am not saying you should not give him a chance, if he is worth it, why not
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Go to JPN register your marriage, pay about RM 20 only.
Forget about those wedding photo, wedding dinner is the other thing.
You can do it later. If he argument is cost to setup wedding dinner then now he got no more excuse.
if he say -- wait, then ask him: when would you like to marry?
if he still say --- wait, then ask him: this valentine day or chinese new year?
if he still say ---wait, time to let go.
You are not young, 10 years wasting with him is enough.



2. You don't have to force him to say that in front of the "3rd party".
If you forgive him, then forgive.
Also, don't remind him about this incident after this. He will really angry with you. (although he is wrong at first)



3. Remind him how beautiful it is when you and him first dating. That means 10 years ago... 2002 or 2003...wow



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