better break. If he can have an affair now, after marriage could still be possible. I know 9 and 10 years is a long period but there are many fishes in the sea. You are only 26 and i bet you could find a good bf that won't cheat on you.
Besides, if he can hate you if you ask him to say it infront of the girl, that already meant that he cares about the girl more than you.

Better end everything before you regret and caught him cheating again and again. Don't let it be another Alvin & Yuki case.

This post has been edited by beblink: Jan 2 2013, 08:34 PM

A nice lady like you sure deserve better than him
All the best!