Hi all,

Me n my bf has been together for 9 years, coming 10 years. During our dating, we do have some arguments, but we manage to get back together after 1 or 2 days. Last week, we have a 3 days 'cold war' period. And yesterday he told me he has an affair with his colleague. How's that happen? He went for a drink with this girl, and the girl wanna see the kl view from my bf apartment. There's end up they sex on our bed...YA!!!IS ME and MY BF BED!!!

I said he has changed...n he told he will change it back to my old bf, he is asking me for forgiveness. I told him in 1 condition, I need him to say it clear in front of me n that girl. <------ May I know is this request over? He told he can't do it...n the reason? If I force him to do it, he will hate me.

Guys and girls,
Can anyone tell me what shd I do to comfort myself? I'm totally lost.....

Thanks.