is it purely just sex or feeling is involved? no point requesting him to do this and that if deep down inside you, you cannot forgive and forget. It will just haunt you.

I don't see the point of meeting her. Waste time and energy. In the end it all goes back to her- to forgive and forget. Can she?

It takes two to tango. Even if she stops bugging your bf, if your bf is bored of you due to the overly long relationship, go "itchified", other gals can still come into his life the same thing will repeat.

ah?this thread is still ongoing? I thought the solution is pretty obvious *yawn* goes back to work.