Hi all,

Me n my bf has been together for 9 years, coming 10 years. During our dating, we do have some arguments, but we manage to get back together after 1 or 2 days. Last week, we have a 3 days 'cold war' period. And yesterday he told me he has an affair with his colleague. How's that happen? He went for a drink with this girl, and the girl wanna see the kl view from my bf apartment. There's end up they sex on our bed...YA!!!IS ME and MY BF BED!!!

I said he has changed...n he told he will change it back to my old bf, he is asking me for forgiveness. I told him in 1 condition, I need him to say it clear in front of me n that girl. <------ May I know is this request over? He told he can't do it...n the reason? If I force him to do it, he will hate me.

Guys and girls,
Can anyone tell me what shd I do to comfort myself? I'm totally lost.....

Thanks.

Everyone is trying to help me ma....if u wan join..u r welcome too...^^

Solved...but trying to help me enjoy my life???

hm...so should I close this thread?

need more kaki or need more lui

U know wat? No offense at all....sometimes I think some parents are way too protect their children nowadays...they didnt teach them wat is responsibility...if im the wife of this guy...next time when his parents getting older...i will just tell them ur son has changed..please go somewhere else...wanna see wats their react...

your intention so obvious

I was thinking to find a better looking bf le...ur gang got or not?

And...dun call me qinetics..lol..this actually my company name, this acc was created to do some company stuff de...
Call me waiwai please...^^

hm...sad to hear this..wish ur fren the best la...!!
err...got good looking ofcoz the best la..if no..then oso bo bian ar...
but i scare later im the one without good looking...lol

aiyo...wanna say like this meh?so sad....foreveralone but still got frens ma...where got alone?

So..u r happy to be forever alone la?

Wa...sounds like a rich guy here lo...hm...rich guy is better than good looking guy!!

wariao, no such things

Earn more but not rich...zz wats tat mean???huh...so boring..

Lol....please at least try to think before u write a statement like this...u can just tell me im not the only gal but not after 'office lust' ok?

But anyway...i did wat u suggested..but..hm..now im not the one who is asking for break up..samor..after we talked and talked and talked..tat gal is not the main problem for us to break up...guys please dun ask...the reason for us to break up is quite privacy...LOL..

I loved him...but is adi past tense, i cant say who is the lost...but i do hope he can carry on with a better life..