why u want to force him say out loud in front of the girl ?

7chai...im jaga-ing his face tats y I ask him to go talk to her...If i go n find tat gal myself...the gal n my bf face will gone to hell...

u know wat will i do if i meet up tat gal? I will go to their office n slap the gal n i will say it loud 'dun ever take off ur cloths in front of my bf again!'

FYI...his colleagues know i'm his gf...most of them knew..

Will this still jaga his face?

confirm gaduh even worse la 

then wat shd i talk to her....?? " hm...miss...u know im his gf ar?can u stop disturbing us?" or " u know my bf still loving me?y r u taking of ur clothes infornt of him?"

something like tat?

i think hardly lor whenever it comes to issues like this and taking into consideration the time invested into the relationship. if me i think at the very point when the guy said "no" i'll straight slam the phone and ignore him for a long long time. 

wow...thanks for all the replies...Based on some of the replies..I need to think about wat shd i do to jaga my "had affair bf" face after he dropped my face infront the particular gal??

After I hurt so badly, I still need to think about my attitude when settle this with him?He has the courage to tell me the truth...is this mean I shd forgive him without any reason?I shd appreciate for him courage huh?

U guys know? I love him so much...i can't let him go...my heart pain bcoz i love him...i wan him to confess bcoz i love him...i just wan him to do something to proof he still wan me...as wat can he sacrificed to make us back together...

Am I worng?

Wrong??? Yes, u chosen the wrong life and/or path in your relationship.

Guilty? No.

The bolded part is what she did wrong..

IMO she might probably be too naive to think everything is the girl's fault, not his bf fault.

hm...i didnt said all is the gal's fault ok?>tat really pissed me off is my bf...not the gal. I will have my own way to punish him..but tats not concern in this topic..

I know exactly wat they r doing...wan him to rmb this awful moment? i wan him to confess...ya he might hate me..but i think u guys will rmb it right?He will rmb wat he did to me...in hate or wat...is not important.

owing me for rest of my life? So I have to beg him back to my side...n forget about wat he did..n he will feel he is owing me?

Guys...thanks all of u..

I posted here bcoz I wanna know more n understand more about wat guys are thinking...

Amanda Fong..is the one who got beaten?

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Added on January 2, 2013, 10:44 am

He beg me...he promised alot n alot..will this make him feel he is owing me for rest of my life?

Bcoz he never tell me...when I visited to his house...his parents seems ok to me...I never know that I was disagree by his parents...tats y I was shock when I 1st know it after 10 years..
I mean...even i beg him but i dont think he will feel owing me for rest of my life...i willing to stay together with him...but he sure has to do something to gain my apologize right? Being honest to me is not enough to gain my apologize...

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Added on January 2, 2013, 10:54 am

lolz...7chai..u r funny..

We just chatting over here n u know im a smart girl....

My thought is....in this relationship...I was a fool...a god damn fool...

bcoz i love this man...bcoz i have be with him for almost 10 years...just bcoz i love him

27 adi la...bro..for a gal is not so young...i've given my 10 years to this man...I cant believe tat wat i got now...

I duno...tat wat he is requesting now...with reason:dont wan to hurt me anymore...for me...is dam lame

Didn't you say in the first page he's asking for your forgiveness?

lolz...i duno le...at some point...i feel tat im abit psycho...i think im sick...lolz...

TS,

Stay calm and thoroughly think. Any future in this relationship? It has been 10 years, any parents who disagree a girl/guy would have accepted the fact that this will be their child's life partner. And there is no way that parents accepted you earlier and suddenly disapprove it... unless you are the one doing something "ugly".
I always believe that, parents is a stupid reason to stop a couple for getting married... especially in today's generation. If your bf really want to marry you, he would have plans to settle his parents and since you are being supportive telling him that you will follow wherever he goes. He never put in hardwork to make this happen.. infact allowing his parents misjudge you.. that obviously shows that he don't bother.

What happen already happen. The matter now is can you afford to lost him? To be frank, do not test a man's patient. Yes, he beg for your forgiveness.. but if you react too extreme and challenging him.. he will just give up and say goodbye.

If you really want to sustain the relationship, why bother about wanting him to sacrifies or do something to win you back? Do he need to win you back ? if you have not even want to leave him.

He can did such thing to you, that means your position as gf already at risk. Is not about whether he needs to win you back.. is the matter that you need to maintain your importance in his heart in order for him to do more to seek for forgiveness.

Guys do not like women over power them, they want women who looks pity and soft. Hence, forcing him to confront that girl won't work. You needs to find way to pretend pity, that he bully you and mistreat your care to him. Try to control your anger, if you can't.. at least be silence and don't entertain him for awhile.. but don't show black face. When guys leaving in blank.. they will feel worry and do more for you.
Hope this work.

Hey hey...can u 2 (s2peMocls & RUI) stop arguing in my topic ar?LOL...n honestly didnt really understand wat u 2 trying to say (my english is bad)...

After an weekend on genting (after the funny talkshow)..is getting better la..thank you all of the advises...n opinion..

Think in another way..now i no need curi-curi to look for handsome boy lo...straightly my fb profile pic changed to my handsome idol pic...

Get over it...get over it...finally can get over it...but haiz...actually he is the one pity..lol for some reason i think he is pathetic...i wont say i will deserve better but i would im a tough gal...YEAH!!

How i know u ar? I got post in my fb ma..i said i got 1 extra ticket (free de!!!coz he paid one)..but nobody choi me wor...

I will block by the guard if i go casino le...my look is so young...lolz..
u so kedekut la...invite a gal go casino yum cha bcoz is free..at least starbuck or coffee bean la..if got a slice of cake much more better...