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TSYung_Psyke
post Feb 20 2012, 05:41 PM, updated 14y ago

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I've did a small google search and found that exercising and waking up early helps,

Is there any other effective methods that anyone can recommend? ,

Im trying hard, sometimes i put on some eminem but then i crash right back down, i just have to fake a smile so i don't ruin anyones mood sad.gif


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post Feb 20 2012, 05:47 PM

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embrace the reason(s) that leads to your depression. then u will find strength to move on.
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post Feb 20 2012, 06:31 PM

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Open yourself up to be happy. Stop saying "no" to things, and go try new stuff, let loose and enjoy smile.gif

Also, stop listening to stuff that makes you emo.
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post Feb 20 2012, 07:59 PM

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Mingle around with friends! smile.gif
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post Feb 20 2012, 09:27 PM

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if I were u i will stop listening to junk like eminem (no offense to u intended)...

its junk bro did u see his lyrics? it will only make u worse

i say go out more... put goals for your life and people will come along

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post Feb 20 2012, 10:31 PM

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QUOTE(izzat80 @ Feb 20 2012, 09:27 PM)
if I were u i will stop listening to junk like eminem (no offense to u intended)...

its junk bro did u see his lyrics? it will only make u worse

i say go out more... put goals for your life and people will come along
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triple agree, eminem's song 99% negative, listen wrong type bro
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post Feb 20 2012, 11:29 PM

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If you've been thru a bad breakup, choose a day and time when you're free, listen to your emo Eminem songs and cry your eyes out. Be sad and angry and depressed all you want, but finish crying, stand up, set some goals and move on with your live.

Once that is done, stop listening or watching stuff that will make one emo. Go out, have fun, make friends, stay active, exercise and you'll be fine.
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post Feb 21 2012, 01:40 AM

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they say the root of depression and anxiety are usually from having 'incorrect' perception on the self and everyday's experience..

'incorrect' is very subjective here, let's put it as anything that does not make you feel good

why don't you try working the other way round and train your mindset to positive thinking?..say a break up would probably give you an opportunity to grow with another potential mate..maybe thinking that way can make it less painful?..

I recommend this book
http://www.amazon.co.uk/S-U-M-Straight-Tal...1333848-5666848

cheers
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post Feb 21 2012, 09:35 AM

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do not cling to anything except what you need a.k.a basic things that you need for survival.

This is so that you'll be able to remain in positive mood despite rejections or lost of opportunities in life

Rome is not built in a day anyway so it's stupid to feel depressed about temporary setbacks in life.

The fastest way for me to fight depression is to play sport with friends.
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post Feb 21 2012, 09:41 AM

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QUOTE(izzat80 @ Feb 20 2012, 09:27 PM)
if I were u i will stop listening to junk like eminem (no offense to u intended)...

its junk bro did u see his lyrics? it will only make u worse

i say go out more... put goals for your life and people will come along
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there are some songs like beautiful,hailies song,cleaning out my closet,when im gone are depressing..others like not afraid,till i collapse can build a person..well,temporarily unsure.gif

QUOTE(nders @ Feb 20 2012, 10:31 PM)
triple agree, eminem's song 99% negative, listen wrong type bro
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have to admit..it is..

QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Feb 20 2012, 11:29 PM)
If you've been thru a bad breakup, choose a day and time when you're free, listen to your emo Eminem songs and cry your eyes out. Be sad and angry and depressed all you want, but finish crying, stand up, set some goals and move on with your live.

Once that is done, stop listening or watching stuff that will make one emo. Go out, have fun, make friends, stay active, exercise and you'll be fine.
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you people really help me alot ..thanks tonss,

seriously,even right now.. 9:30 AM im holding back my tears , cause shit just feels like nobody understands the way i feel and thats the reason i cant talk to anyone about it...there was even a forumer who messaged me, thank you..like seriously..

im gonna definitely make a stand cause i've had enough of this shit, hate being depressed and in a f**ked up mood in the morning and the whole day goes like that..well it aint like that no more! , im gonna get back to my old friends (good ones) and start doing something...i wanna socialize with people, make new friends and get a life...im gonna do it for real now ...
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post Feb 21 2012, 01:08 PM

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QUOTE(Yung_Psyke @ Feb 21 2012, 09:41 AM)
there are some songs like beautiful,hailies song,cleaning out my closet,when im gone are depressing..others like not afraid,till i collapse can build a person..well,temporarily  unsure.gif
have to admit..it is..
you people really help me alot ..thanks tonss,

seriously,even right now.. 9:30 AM im holding back my tears , cause shit just feels like nobody understands the way i feel and thats the reason i cant talk to anyone about it...there was even a forumer who messaged me, thank you..like seriously..

im gonna definitely make a stand cause i've had enough of this shit, hate being depressed and in a f**ked up mood in the morning and the whole day goes like that..well it aint like that no more! , im gonna get back to my old friends (good ones) and start doing something...i wanna socialize with people, make new friends and get a life...im gonna do it for real now ...
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post Feb 21 2012, 01:14 PM

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don't be afraid to consult the psychiatrist, they are trained to handle these sorts of problem, but at the same time, you must do something about it yourself as well (like what other said above)
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post Feb 21 2012, 02:01 PM

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QUOTE(Yung_Psyke @ Feb 21 2012, 09:41 AM)
there are some songs like beautiful,hailies song,cleaning out my closet,when im gone are depressing..others like not afraid,till i collapse can build a person..well,temporarily  unsure.gif
have to admit..it is..
you people really help me alot ..thanks tonss,

seriously,even right now.. 9:30 AM im holding back my tears , cause shit just feels like nobody understands the way i feel and thats the reason i cant talk to anyone about it...there was even a forumer who messaged me, thank you..like seriously..

im gonna definitely make a stand cause i've had enough of this shit, hate being depressed and in a f**ked up mood in the morning and the whole day goes like that..well it aint like that no more! , im gonna get back to my old friends (good ones) and start doing something...i wanna socialize with people, make new friends and get a life...im gonna do it for real now ...
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That's good to hear! rclxms.gif biggrin.gif

Don't forget you can always PM us here if you feel the need to spill out your feelings. Talking to someone will definitely make you feel much better. All the best in your life TS! wink.gif
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post Feb 21 2012, 03:54 PM

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You have within yourself to bring change. But more often than naught, you will deny yourself that change. You will allow others to make you put yourself down. You will allow them to live your life. Why would you allow such a thing to happen? No one can live your life but you alone. Take charge and you will bring about that change and when you wake up, you will see that you were born to do things that matter to you the most. But there lies the most difficult of all challenges; to actually STAND UP and lead your own life.

by Ahmad Radin


you need to feel good about yourself. be confident of being who you are.
try to set some goal, achieve something. it'll makes you feel good.
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post Feb 22 2012, 12:19 AM

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Life is all about experience. If you know someone walked out of your life, do know that there are others standing right beside you in your life as well. Do not forsake them smile.gif

Nothing is worst than hurting yourself. You made the right choice smile.gif
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post Feb 22 2012, 10:14 AM

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QUOTE(Eclipxe @ Feb 21 2012, 03:54 PM)

you need to feel good about yourself. be confident of being who you are.
try to set some goal, achieve something. it'll makes you feel good.
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The secret..i have watched it countless times, its good, But sometimes when i fell that way i really cant blame the secret cause its just me..

QUOTE(coolie @ Feb 22 2012, 12:19 AM)
Life is all about experience. If you know someone walked out of your life, do know that there are others standing right beside you in your life as well. Do not forsake them smile.gif

Nothing is worst than hurting yourself. You made the right choice smile.gif
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Thats true..but i guess i just have to learn to be stronger..








Update:

I've woke up today and felt like just another shitty day of being depressed, im in the office now,
What i did yesterday was i planned to go fishing with one friend tomorrow,

And i have decided to set a goal, so big that im gonna totally take a run for it..

I have been rapping with this group called "gangsta o clock" ,you can check them on facebook, it has well over 1k fans,
But recently they broke up, and the whole group died...im gonna try recruit at least one of them and come up with a mixtape unsure.gif

Maybe writing songs again will help me to vent a little....for now, just gotta survive thru the day.


Added on February 22, 2012, 10:18 am
QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Feb 21 2012, 02:01 PM)
That's good to hear!  rclxms.gif  biggrin.gif

Don't forget you can always PM us here if you feel the need to spill out your feelings. Talking to someone will definitely make you feel much better. All the best in your life TS! wink.gif
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I will PM you for sure...

everytime i try to talk to somebody when im feeling depressed, there wont be anybody on my side,

i get it relationships are not easy, i guess i really cant write everything here, i'll PM you munkeyflo..

This post has been edited by Yung_Psyke: Feb 22 2012, 10:18 AM
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post Feb 22 2012, 10:47 AM

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Sometimes depression and our moods may be due to chemical imbalances in the brain.

 

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