GF: I think my BF is taking me for granted. I gave up my job and moved here just for him. My parents nearly disowned me. They really don't like me shacking up with him. Everytime I phone home, mum asks when are we getting married.

The relationship is not going anywhere. He just want things to stay as they are. Everyday, after work, sex. He doesn't think about anything else. Much less marriage. I want to start a family.

GF's friend: If this relationship does not work out, you don't have a lot of time to look for another man. You're not getting any younger. Nobody wants an old maid. Play hard to get. Withold sex. See if he thinks about anything else.

Question: if you GF gets sick and you can no longer have sex with her, will you stick by her side. Or throw her away like a used rag, and go look for another GF?