This is how guys will think. If you reject them out of no reason, they will feel unloved, unwanted, frustrated and angry. They will feel that we don’t love them. To us, making love is not everything because in guys’ term, we have ‘communication, hugs, eye contact, breathe on his chest, lye on his arm watching TV’ to make us feel loved. To guys, is either you tug them, or there is less love or no love. After 2 or 3 times they will be furious, asking why this happened like TS.

I am not saying you sleep with them out of your will. That sound like getting yourself raped to me. I will suggest all ladies to go into your own head and mind, ask yourself why do you reject the intimacy. Telling them tired or no mood is confusing as they are not tired and in the mood. If there is this mood that makes you feel not wanting it, tell them how you feel, and not a mere, “I am tired/ not in the mood”. Try to get yourself in mood. Paradigm is important and what you eat is important too.

Sex is a big thing in relationship. Talk it through and solve the situation, guys and ladies. It is always a 2 way thing.