QUOTE(muddy78 @ Oct 14 2014, 06:43 PM)
spunkberry, a few pages back i read an online "altercation" that you had with another fellow member and i put it down to simple online miscommunication. i'm still willing to believe that even with this kind of snarky response you gave me. perhaps you're the succint, brief, no-nonsense kind of person, so you think this kind of response is acceptable. or it comes across as snarky because you were in a hurry to feed your cats.
but here's the thing.
i understand that everything is google-able, i google everything these days. but i didn't ask the question simply because i'm too lazy to google. i want to know some first-hand experience from people who have done it. and yes, i have googled it. i can read a thousand articles on this but it's not the same as hearing it from someone who has done it. lest you forget, this internet forum is still a social place, and no matter how knowledgeable you are, if you come across as snarky and cold, it will all be for nothing. fyi, i read your replies to others and yes, the tone reads snarky and cold.
here's a suggestion: if you'd rather people google stuff instead, ask them to google for it, and then tell them if they have additional questions they can come and ask in this forum. save you from having to do the googling yourself, and you will come across not as snarky and cold.
that said, don't waste your time and energy replying to this. one unfabulous cat person is enough to turn me off this forum for good.
Relax bro. I have followed this thread for a long time. Some people can be rude sometime. You can ignore them.
Regarding your question, I have some experience in the subject. IMO, it's much easier to get young cats get along than adult cats. The first time I tried, I put them in the same place but the new cat stay in a cage. The idea is for both party can always seeing & smell each other. I found this create much relaxing environment & keep any tension to minimum. When I saw no aggressive behaviour I released the new cat & monitor whether they can get along or not. For the first a couple of days, I caged the new cat back when at night or when I'm not at home. I'm lucky because they get along quiet fast. The new cat when she was still in the cage, when she saw the other cats was playing, she actually jumping & running in the cage, like she want to join them.
The second time I tried, I just let the new cat roaming freely in the house. My cats because they used to meet other cats before, doesn't show any hostility or aggressiveness towards the new cat. Initially the new cat did hissing when she saw my cats but because my cats didn't show any hostility, the new cat also a bit relax. Basically if there's plenty space for all cats, they will live together without any problem. The new cat was basically have temperament like Ragdoll. She was very relax, well-behaved which contributed to the success.

The third time, I just did like I did the second time. This time involved adult male cats. Also a success because my cats was basically gave space for the new cats. The new cats did show little aggressiveness but no more than that.
This post has been edited by kizwan: Oct 14 2014, 09:27 PM