Hi TS..

well firstly, ignore those ignorant people who do not understand what and how you feel. There was 1 post that states something...everything begins with you...You are the one who can make the difference. Dont give up just because you think it is not working...

Everythin in life is purely trial and error. When you fall....get up and see why u fell. then move forward learning from that. Depression is definitely there if you dont have the right people and support to help you.

You did accountancy...right?? well then find other things that have to do with numbers. Sometime financial advisers or audit company might look for someone like you. Else try Credit card companies or call centers. They are a good place to start and build urself too.

Dont give up until you know you have tried all your best.

CIMA is mainly into Management accounting, ie, you should apply for post in commercial companies.

And for your information, CIMA is well accepted,so don't worry about jobs.

ya i agree with what u said,really need to disipline up myself ,keep improving ownself, to be successful need to be determine and discipline in facing obstacle

hi TS,
I think u do compare urself too much to ur friend...
can't be like that lor...every person has different path to lead..
if u did keep compare urself with others, surely this will become endless -ve thinking..pls give up this thought..u should purge ur mind though
stay +ve bro...
life is about adventure and dont give up

This post has been edited by realnumber: Aug 18 2011, 01:22 AM

read motivation books, or some people who can share their success story like donald trump or robert kiyosaki. hope this helps

dun measure yrself with other people's vision of success...do it yr own way

I go to see phciatrist, it helps...i also having panic disorder for 5 years, but i have recovered!...try to exercise more and always get to know more friends, try to learn something new, dont always just think of the problem!~.

yeah...exercising has been proven to increase hormones that makes you happy and it also stimulates the brain

+1.. love it. Exercise is good. very focus and enjoying. dont think so much TS. I was in your position last time. As time goes by, you will get used to it. We are living in a very materialistic society but you see here, there are so many nice formers here to guide you and give you advice. Aint this is better than other thing else?
And I dont think your qualification is the main problem and dont compare yourself with other ppl. Why compare? its just showing how immature you are. Right?

Move on. Focus your negative energy to positive energy. It will do you good. Just like me... Challenge yourself with a 5km marathon, then 10km, then half mara and full marathon.. or even take up swimming.. and so on.

Last but not least, take some time off to sit down and have quiet time with God. You are mentally and physically strong but did you realize that you are spiritually weak? Talk to HIM ( no matter what religion you are). Just talk to Him during your quiet time. He might not answer you now but He listens and guide you all the way.


Take care and I know you have potential. Unleash the potential in you! You are another unique person created here on earth. Gud Luck!

wise word there.. i think TS should find sometime to meditate and look into his inner self,see what he's capable of and stop thinking too much on what people perception of him

Thank clement for your advise ..I feel happy to listen it.
Ya I need to find quite time to be with God away from this hectic life on earth
Life is too short to be sad because what happen in my life will also affect people that I love.
Now what I going to do is proper planing what I really want to do and keep motivate oneself to achieve it..
Life still got choice it not the end of my life yet:)

try taking up yoga as well

Hot yoga or Bikram Yoga:) I'm too stiff for Yoga. But will try it later in life

= ='' walao...cheer up la TS!

Earlier got one person also posted a commit suicide topic here. After a long talk with other bros he finally awoke from it. May be you can read the topic. He edited the title to Closed.

I not thinking about suicide just concern of life of working people in Malaysia.Many of us do not paid well and
the cost of living keep increasing.WTF how to survive?That why many Malaysian Talented went oversea to work and never come back.I will also work oversea next year

It's not easy to get work permit over seas. You can get but might just end up washing plates. They see us just like we see the Nepalese, Bangladesh, Vietnamese working in Malaysia. Not easy to get your way in and if given opportunity also priority to their natives.

Yalo then have to budget and have saving plans lor.. what to do..gotta live with it die trying...

I understand what you are concern brother, but we need to try, trying mean still got chance if no try mean no chance at all
futhermore Malaysian chinese is same with the singapore chinese skin colour ,dialect i do not think much discrimination there.

Bro I still think it's not that easy. What are you academic qualification? Singapore is as competitive as Japan.

Hi TS,

i know this is hard...but work hard....save up money..

go this

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it might change your life.....