Hi, guy
As the title above, I'm seriously need some idea for my bf's birthday surprise.
I'm don't know what to do since I've never make any surprise birthday party
My bf birthday is around the corner but I don't know what to do
Do share some your experience also

how old are u?

I'm 22 n my bf 20

i don really think guys like surprise as much as girl.
handmade something + small gift
most important is give him freedom on that day if he wanna go drunk with his bros!

He don't really have friends and he don't drink or smoke

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Added on July 6, 2011, 9:08 amBeside he always alone on his birthday and this is can be consider the first time birthday celebration with him . Even though we had been together 2 yr coz last yr he at his hometown. So feel wanna try do something special for him

This post has been edited by Erinlee: Jul 6 2011, 09:08 AM

some guy like hightech gear.. buy him one such as DSLR, Ipad, Lappy or plan some roadtrip/holiday with him..

1# bring him to a short trip. never tell him the destination and make sure he is free that whole day. prepare a cake+lunch/dinner.

2# get him something he always dream of but never thought of getting it himself.

3# tied yourself with a ribbon and surprise him with homecook meal

4# get both of your friends or relatives and give him a surprise party

I don't have that much money





No.1 I'll consider it ^^
No.2 His dream stuff always da*n expensive
No.3 I always to that but didn't tie a ribbon
No.4 Planning to do that also but where ??

2. well, u can always considered getting him something cheaper related to that expensive stuff. ie, he likes collecting models, u can get a key chain models or a lomo camera if he likes to take photo or he likes cars, u can get a small model car of that.. etc watever that u can think of.

4. pakat with his parents, ask him to balik kampung n u meet him there? or ask his parents to come to ur place will do too. or just have surprise lunch/dinner somewhere will do too. just a surprise only mah.

Cook for him, make it romantic and sweet. Then finish it off with a wild night for the finale. Done.

No.2 Its hard o, he already got anything that he want. Pro camera, iphone , psp
No.4 This 1 more hard, he is international student plus his parent don't really like me



But where?
his place hard since he just rent a room. My place worst coz got family
dont want la for wild night

This post has been edited by Erinlee: Jul 6 2011, 09:44 AM

Alone on birthdays? no friends? Is he a loser? seriously that's sad.

Anyway, something hand made would be great, it shows that you cared so much so to put in the extra effort for his gift. And as always finish it with some awesome steamy action in the bedroom.

er.. i already gave some of the ideas lo... it's depends on u already on how to make what ever you planned to work.

she already said no steamy actions jor

Not sure coz he always being used by friend only. And when his friend got party or hang out nvr ever asked him de. I also don't know why.
Hand made stuff will be on my list
but not steamy action in bedroom

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Added on July 6, 2011, 9:53 amthanks, for some idea.
I'm put it in my list. TQ ^___^

This post has been edited by Erinlee: Jul 6 2011, 09:53 AM

Only losers need friends !!!
And, the last sentence makes sense, extremely =D


Back to the topic, try to buy him somethg that you know he'd likes.
Well im not pointing those expensive stuffs, budget urself,

Guess that's so if ur bf not those kind of romantic-holic.!!

Or, simply tie urself with a ribbons like those forumers said + some rattan/rotan for him

He is not really romantic guy >.<

no perv perv stuff la~

TS, where u live?
if at kl, just rent a hotel, spend a dinner at some romantic place/eat cake at room with him.
the pour the cake at your body, look how he eat it

if spend a dinner at romantic place, I'll consider bout it
but pour the cake at my body definitely NO for me

why not?
just do the "crazy" thing for him.
consider as birthday gift since u never do like that before right?

guise dun like surprises...
just let him do wateva he wants tat day would do

No, tq



ok, putting it on my list
tq

disagree.
yes, male dont like being told what to do.
but consider as they have 2 years relationship.
the bf will spend the day with his girl.
and surprise will make he remember she more often.
for TS, here the link for find cheap rate of hotel.

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1730674

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Added on July 6, 2011, 10:14 amother thing,
seriously do a crazy thing for him.
anything. seriously he will remember u more often.
if no cake, ice cream also can pour to body.

This post has been edited by nizam276: Jul 6 2011, 10:14 AM

If your bf is 20 that means this coming birthday is his 21st birthday?

If that is the case you should make a gift that can last so he can still remember this memorable occasion when he look at the gift in the far future.

You can look at this website for more info about 21st birthday presents http://21birthdaypresents.com/74/21st-birt...asured-forever/

Also that site have lots of birthday quotes and poems. Can use 1 of those to impress him

Thanks for the link btw on his birthday got exam so can't book a hotel room
so planning for a romantic dinner or surprise party for him with my friend
for present maybe something hand made

I don't want him remember me because of s*x

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Added on July 6, 2011, 10:24 amhe is born at 1991 so should be 20th birthday
Nice poem , gift card will be in my list also and try to modify the poem a bit
Thanks ^^

This post has been edited by Erinlee: Jul 6 2011, 10:25 AM

c'mon man, 2 years of relationship
i bet they already have sex till bored and have done all the kinky stuff

lol.
if dont want sex,
just do like simple thing,
singing in front of him at public (at bus stop or klcc)
or read poem with loud at his college.

Do you really want to do something special for him?

Really?

How committed are you?

Wow. Okay. I guess you're ready to hear what I have to say then.

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Blowjobs. How comfortable are you with blowjobs? No experience at all? That's perfectly fine, you don't need any.

Seriously, I don't think anything else can beat blowjobs for birthday surprises. Just do the usual outing to dinner and a cheesy gift present to him wrapped in a birthday wrappings. Then when he reach home liao and go take shower, turn off the lights. When he comes out he'll be like "Wadafak why the lights are off..." THIS IS WHEN YOU POUNCE ON HIM, AGGRESSIVELY UNDRESS HIS PANTS AND MAKE HIM YOUR BOYTOY. THEN GO WITH THE FLOW, JUST REMEMBER TO SALIVATE ENOUGH FOR LUBRICATION. GOOD LUCK~!

u dream of this long long long time liao is it?

Plz, guys no more s*x or blowjob stuff
and also his apartment f*cking strict never let outside ppl go in de lo

no offense but how u hang out with him?
never been at his house?

I wonder why girls duwan to give their BFs the 'night' of their life. I don't mean the mundane usual bonking, but make it like a special kinky thing that suits his fantasy, guys would enjoy this more than ANY gift, ever, guaranteed, unless he's gay. Women usually like to avoid the simplest solution and ideas. Sigh...

he just rent a room only, I ever once his place.
Need curi2 masuk de



girl is not as horny as guy

Okay fine, I apologize. You said you wanted it to be special, NO? Well that's the most special bday gift I've got from a girl!

Seriously tho, virtually anything you do for a guy who has never celebrated his own birthday will make him happy. So quit worrying about ideas and just do whatever you wanna do. You could frickin bake him a shitty chocolate cake or give him a gentle kiss on his forehead or make him a jar of handfolded origami stars for all I care, it doesn't matter, it will be special to him.

Dump him, reunite after his birthday.
There, that wasn't so hard, is it?

Its ok
seriously i don't like s*x

Really??
Thanks for advise

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Added on July 6, 2011, 10:53 am


This post has been edited by Erinlee: Jul 6 2011, 10:53 AM

its funny that most of the suggestions here are not BERSIH..haha

TS, make handmade stuff hor him..a plushie or a card would do well.. then cook a meal for him.. bring him out for a movie and then end it with a romantic night ( i dont mean steamy events), just two of you talking about anything...not sure if you understand what i mean..haha

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Added on July 6, 2011, 11:00 am

This post has been edited by drew1.0beta: Jul 6 2011, 11:00 AM

Well, what is your budget?
If you ask me, as a guy, i would want something that i can use.

Girls like giving perfume/necktie/cufflinks etc but those presents are horrible for guys !!! Those kinda gifts benefit the girl more than the guy. It's the equivalent of guys giving girls sexy lingerie so they could bonk her in that.

Tell me ur budget then we'll think of something.

LOL, i wonder where u get this, girls are as horny as guys, just that the thought doesn't cross their mind as much or can sometimes control/suppress their urge better than guys.

you don't like or you have never experienced? if you have and you did not enjoy it, visit the doctor, something is wrong, all sexually active girls that i've known love sex so much more than even the guys. If you're a virgin, well too bad.


Sorry for the tidak-bersih posts, lol. Like Priapuseros said, if he had never truly celebrated or received gifts from anyone, whatever you give him, he will cherish.

I wouldn't want a handmade card, that's for sure.
I'll look at it for 5 secs then chuck it into the storeroom for years to come.

Will be in my list, tq




Around Rm 200 ??

RM200...

Well I am a gamer, RM200 can buy a good game.
If he's into sports, RM200 can buy shoes if both of you are not superstitious.

I just don't like having s*x and I ever experienced
Don't know why, just don't like

i think i know what to give him

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Added on July 6, 2011, 11:10 amWhat kind of game ??
He likes to play online game but rarely do sport

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Added on July 6, 2011, 11:10 amWhat kind of game ??
He likes to play online game but rarely do sport

This post has been edited by Erinlee: Jul 6 2011, 11:10 AM

aiya, go for one day trip lah, u become the driver n bring him to any special holiday places like waterfall la, beach la, bowling, go ride bicycle etc.

btw, just come up with this idea of 'coupons'. something like free massage, become driver, do cooking, clean, go kai kai etc.

You have experienced and you did not enjoy it? something must've went wrong, technique, position, duration, no fore play, no emotional connection, all this could lead into a bad experience. If it is pain and discomfort, visit your trusted gynae asap. The others can be fixed, have a talk with your partner.

Anyway, have fun on his birthday, bring him to dinner or something, give some hand made presents, etc. Good luck!

for holiday really cannot coz his final exam hit on his birthday and will be last for 2 week
so can't lo

if cooking, this usually what i do when he go to my home

Oh, he is a PC gamer...
no sense in buying him an original game then

Have you ever noticed most girls like to travel?
Girls like to travel because of the experience. Whereas guys prefer
to spend that money on something they can use for a long time instead
of just a 1-time experience. So i think vacation, special experience stuffs
are a no-no.

But it's up to you.... you know your BF more than anyone of us.

Maybe yes maybe not

Thanks



Thanks to you guys for giving some nice idea
Appreciate it so much

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Added on July 6, 2011, 11:17 amok, trying to buy something special for him

This post has been edited by Erinlee: Jul 6 2011, 11:17 AM

Lingerie. You can't go wrong with lingerie.

later the birthday boy can see cannot eat ah. lagi potong stim

+1

Wear liao then remove for him to keep lor. Like that oso no know meh? piak

i prefer no.1

Girl, this is a problem that needs to be solved.

er, i nunno woh. and TS no rike wild thing

you guys

Is that necessary ?

yea..lol

OFF TOPIC

i'm a girl and yes, I do agree too.

There should be a reason why you don't like it right? Talk with your BF and discuss what's the wrong with it. Don't have to discuss here cos that's not the purpose of this thread.

lols.. i tot ure a boy with the friday the monkey avatar

Ok, i try figure it out why

Need to discuss here coz she dunno where else to discuss ma..

Erm, just buy whatever he like/wish for b4 then.

Or maybe a simple cake and a happy birthday wish is cool enough.

Ohhh yes. Sex is an important part of life. It's like not knowing how to drive.

Honestly, for someone whose into Yaoi, i find it hard to believe she doesn't like sex.
But whatever, if she says she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it.

I don't like eating vegetables... is it important to know why?
Leave her alone.

u can put anything as avatar o.

ini chiahau mau kepoh ham ham sap sap thingy only
i tell mm then u know

how do u know she's into yaoioai? oh u st...

This post has been edited by Eclipxe: Jul 6 2011, 02:41 PM

this became serious problem to all guys here..

TS doesn't like sex huh? Pity her bf... future cheating b@stard

I baked a birthday cake and bought a necklace for my ex last year. We celebrated on his bday eve and when the clock strike 12am, i whispered "happy birthday" in his ear. I just feel tat celebrate with just the two of us made it special...

This post has been edited by Arajishi: Jul 6 2011, 03:12 PM

Ur money +effort has been wasted

How abt a nice perfume for ur bf?
Nice fragrance that makes him remind of u when he smell his perfume scent ^^

But not now since I'm not marry yet.


Yup, i like Yaoi or so called boys love.
Its so cute ne
but me myself don't really have any interest of my sex life

Don't say like that la

I'm sucks in baking if cook i ok la...
Your experience kinda romantic o

Thank but he fobia of perfume

Why must you only start learning about sex after marriage?

If you currently have a bad impression of sex, what makes you think everything will be okay after you get married?

I just don't really have any interest on sex
For me, sex should be do when already marry.
If not after marry, theres ntg interesting already or bored since already did so many time
Should I see doctor ?

This post has been edited by Erinlee: Jul 6 2011, 04:18 PM

Meh. I think the process is important, not the result. If u didn't try, u won't know right?

This post has been edited by Arajishi: Jul 6 2011, 04:20 PM

You're quite wrong about that. Sex is something that only gets better with practice.

No. Just practice more.

Nah, for me still early


I'll but not now
still got time

topic derailing liao

Asking advise from /k/ about presents for BF is like walking into a sex shop and asking for advise. What exactly did you expect?

i dunno /CC/ base is belong to /K/

I'm willing to bet your boyfriend's time is a lot shorter than yours.

If he love me then should be no problem , if he love me just because of sex than I should just end this up
I do believe on him




I also don't know why from asking for present or surprise become sex education pula
sorry, I still new here

Aiseh... this same excuse again, hahahaha.

He also can say "if you love me you'd let me tiap you" la...

But if you don't like sex, I can guarantee you it's going to be big problem in the future.

This post has been edited by spanker: Jul 6 2011, 04:59 PM

Nobody's saying he'll only love you because of sex. I'm saying it's important in a relationship, and you don't seem to realize how important it is.

You've already had sex once, and I'm assuming it's with your current boyfriend. You don't want to do it again. Ever considered if he wants to do it again?

won't de la

actually not once

Like I said, sex gets better with practice. Keep practicing.

why dun you wrap yourself like a bunny girl and then hide inside box.. then surprise him..

wrap urself up and offer it as a present to him

Did Erinlee just said she had sex before and she doesn't like it??



I really kesian the bf liao.

I try

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Added on July 6, 2011, 5:16 pm


This post has been edited by Erinlee: Jul 6 2011, 05:16 PM

TS is a virgin.

If you have never experienced it, please don't say "i don't like sex", we'll see what happens when you actually have done it, i reckon you would take back your words.

Anyway like what n00b13 said, sex is VERY important in a relationship, it brings a couple closer, more intimate, which basically means a better love life. The reason why this thread derailed is because you asked for a bday gift for your boyfriend, and we guys suggested one which is superbly simple, costs virtually nothing (other than protection), would be enjoyed by both of you IMMENSELY, and would definitely benefit your relationship as a whole. So why not give it a try? don't tell me you're really that conservative.

Oh well, your choice, we have given you many suggestions, so good luck!

I'll nvr take back my word even I've sex